finding a partner

[lacy]

I'm a 31 year old bi woman who is looking for another woman to play with but I am having difficulty finding an online partner to play with consistently. It is difficult to find a woman who wants to play online consistently but also one willing to mic or be watched on video as well.

I was wondering, does anyone know of any other free forums like lit t explore as well?

 

[parodyluvr75]

I'm a 31 year old bi woman who is looking for another woman to play with but I am having difficulty finding an online partner to play with consistently. It is difficult to find a woman who wants to play online consistently but also one willing to mic or be watched on video as well.

I was wondering, does anyone know of any other free forums like lit t explore as well?

I'd try the personals.

There are lots of women over there, they are pretending to be men but they're really women.

 

[Noor]

I have had lots of success finding cyber partners with my ad in the personals.
It's easy to find men who want to watch or be watched, but I am not sure about women. Voice should not be a problem.

You should put exactly what you are offering and what you want in your ad. Then before answering any pms, research who has pmed you and see what their Lit history is. If they are looking every week, they may not be the consist partner you want.

Also try getting to know people in the playground, some of them make good cyber partners after they know you a while. It gives you a chance to flirt and check them out.

 

[sweepthefloor]

I want consistent partner to play with in the sandbox. I like swings and see-saws too.

 

[lacy]

I have had lots of success finding cyber partners with my ad in the personals.
It's easy to find men who want to watch or be watched, but I am not sure about women. Voice should not be a problem.

You should put exactly what you are offering and what you want in your ad. Then before answering any pms, research who has pmed you and see what their Lit history is. If they are looking every week, they may not be the consist partner you want.

Also try getting to know people in the playground, some of them make good cyber partners after they know you a while. It gives you a chance to flirt and check them out.

I submitted a personal (I have in the past as well). I will check out the playground also, thanks.

 

[sweepthefloor]

 

[Noor]

I checked out your ad, OP and I think it could be stronger.

Maybe add a bit about yourself, your belief system regarding sex, an ideal scene, something to stand out from every other I am new to BDSM and want someone to practice on ad.

 

[lacy]

Thanks I'll give it another look

 

[Lancecastor]

Maybe you should post a few nude pics, that'll help.

 

[pink]

Looking for any kind of partner online is like near to impossible but good luck.

 

[Noor]

Looking for any kind of partner online is like near to impossible but good luck.

I should say I have had my ad since 2007 or something and the long term partners were actually from nonsexual interactions on the boards not the ad.

I guess it is like any place else, the more people you get to know the better your chances. Meeting a person in a class or a friend's is more promising than a pick up joint.

 

[snugglestruggle]

I checked out your ad, OP and I think it could be stronger.

Maybe add a bit about yourself, your belief system regarding sex, an ideal scene, something to stand out from every other I am new to BDSM and want someone to practice on ad.

:chuckle:

 

[Aphro]

Looking for any kind of partner online is like near to impossible but good luck.

Seriously? Or do you just mean a female one.

 

[Riles]

Seriously? Or do you just mean a female one.

I had a similar response. In my experience, weeding through the offers is the hard part..down right tedious if you don't refine your criteria to help filter out the crazies.

 

[hashtag45]

I'd try the personals.

There are lots of women over there, they are pretending to be men but they're really women.

lmao… that was a good one
judging from how bitchy some get amongst themselves while discussing politics,
I think that too...

 

[Lancecastor]

Playground explained:

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/a/aa/Kinks_Lola_Uk_Cover.jpg

 

[Desiremakesmeweak]

Okay, on-line is initially a 'cold medium' so it's not as easy or direct as people think, to begin with.

There are bi blogs and so on but it might offend even people there to just proposition someone about actual erotic or sexual on-line interchanges and then, you still have to be sure that the person on the other end is actually 'as specified...'

Here in Australia there is an active BDSM community with chat rooms and so on and it is easy to find someone who will share your interests - and I say that because, from my own personal experience, not just in Australia a very high percentage of females involved in BDSM are bi or open to bi erotic interactions. But if the OP doesn't live here then ever actually meeting someone from an Aus chat room ITF is going to be difficult.

There are also these SEXPO conventions that are run all over Australasia every two years and at these places, it is just plain very easy to find others with shared interests. You could maybe even get one of the stand or stall holders to run an on-line meet-up/link-up thing on the side, I am sure.

Over here too, the Adult/Sex product shop scene is of a very high grade, and I have absolutely no doubt at all that just talking to someone over the counter there will provide directions... For sure.

But that's over here. I'm not sure about where the OP resides - the situation could be different there.