Exhibitionist Wife

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I don't think my wife is very sexual or kinky in anyway. In fact, in a lot of ways she can be boring sexually. She doesn't give head, nor does she like getting it and sex lasting over 10 minutes is just... unnecessary.

On the other hand... I've noticed for a while now she can get pretty wild if we have sex in the front room with the windows open. In fact one night she was so hot and wet, she rode me like a porn star and we fucked like we were 18 again. It was totally unexpected and I loved it. I started thinking back to other times we did it in semi public, while her roommate slept, in the woods, in the car, etc and every time she was wet and ready.

So being as conservative as she is and shy, how does one nurture and explore this without offending? I know if I come right out and say, I think you like the idea of someone watching you fuck, she will shut down and get mad.
 
Agree, if you bring it up point blank that might be the last time it ever happens again. Just start trying more to move the sex towards a more open spot. Areas of the house where you could be seen is great. A trip to a park with a nature trail might be an option. Try getting into her panties while driving down the freeway to get her hot. Try and follow her into a public bathroom.
 
She sounds like she is repressing her sexuality. It seems that a lot of women were raised to believe that good girls aren't supposed to really crave sex, but to tolerate it as part of a marital duty.

One thing you could try is to give her extra compliments or a gift or a household act for her after a great sexual event (depending upon her love language). Positive reinforcement can be a subtle way to encourage behavior and let you both come out ahead, and make your marriage stronger.
 
Have you asked her how she felt about fucking in the front room with the windows open? Start the conversation somewhere.
 
She sounds like she is repressing her sexuality. It seems that a lot of women were raised to believe that good girls aren't supposed to really crave sex, but to tolerate it as part of a marital duty.

One thing you could try is to give her extra compliments or a gift or a household act for her after a great sexual event (depending upon her love language). Positive reinforcement can be a subtle way to encourage behavior and let you both come out ahead, and make your marriage stronger.

She does repress her sexuality. When she rides me, sometimes my hand will slip and I will get a finger on her anus and after a huge orgasm, she will get mad at me. I mean she can't fake her orgasms. Its wet mess.

After the front room sex, I said for 3-4 days how amazing it was and how I felt like I hadn't been treated to something like that in a long time. She just said the couch just hit a spot for her.
 
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