Teasing a married man

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I tried to find a thread about this but I couldn't seem to find one. There are a lot about wives being with other men, but I kind of have a thing for the opposite... I'm female, so specifically the situation of being lusted after by a married man or fulfilling the fantasies of a married man who isn't getting enough sex at home or sex with a beautiful young woman anymore.

I found out I had a bit of a fetish for this at work, when I was working somewhere temporary and met this nice guy... very shy. I have a bit of an open personality, and I thought he was cute so I said something flirty to which he reacted quite shy. At this point in time I didn't know he was married, though I did know that he must be about 15 yrs my senior. We worked together for two weeks and in that time things progressed from me harmlessly flirting to obvious desire, then shortly after I found out he was married. I just can't stop fantasizing about him, being this married 40 year old guy with children who probably doesn't get much sex (not nearly as much as he should, he certainly did fill out his pants) and how much being flirted with by an attractive women in her early 20's must have affected him. Because I could tell that it was, he would blush so hard, I could see the lust in his eyes... he wanted me badly. :) I am so attracted to him, I would love to give him what he deserves, fulfill his dreams of being ridden by someone young and hot and absolutely drain him of cum...

Perhaps it's a good thing the job ended when I found out he was married, I doubt I would have had a shred of self-restraint regardless... I secretly hope that at the very least the sexual tension I caused him he got to take home to his wife and that she did him, I'm so jealous but he obviously has such a nice big cock and it would be such a waste in a sexless marriage... he must be fantastic in bed!
 
OP, are you familiar with the concept of a cuckcake? I have a raging cuckcake fetish, which I think was originally triggered by losing my virginity to a married man. My husband was married when we first got together many years ago and following his loss of libido due to health/medication issues, I'm now having an affair with a married friend.

Look up cuckcake/cuckquean blogs on tumblr...there might be elements you identify with.
 
After being cheated on for the past year, I would love to have a nice younger woman teasing me in the hopes of it leading to something more.

Any takers?

Oh that can be so much fuuun, seriously, this was my favorite part, I am 23 and very pretty and in shape and to totally flirt with this man who seemed thoroughly stunned at my interest was so hot. And once he recovered, the lusty chuckling when I would flirt with him, the look in his eyes, the way he couldn't help but grin and blush when he saw me, omg I want to be his for one night at least
 
Oh that can be so much fuuun, seriously, this was my favorite part, I am 23 and very pretty and in shape and to totally flirt with this man who seemed thoroughly stunned at my interest was so hot. And once he recovered, the lusty chuckling when I would flirt with him, the look in his eyes, the way he couldn't help but grin and blush when he saw me, omg I want to be his for one night at least

I am sure an opportunity will present itself , seeing as you are as forward as you are and sexy. There are plenty of guys in our situation undersexed and not feeling appreciated at home. I did the affair thing and finally got a divorce just so i could bed the young nymphos without any concern. :)
 
I love that tension that you created for him it mKes you feel so alive and you cum so hard when you release. Cheating is not something you should take lightly but being teased like that is awesome!
 
I love that tension that you created for him it mKes you feel so alive and you cum so hard when you release. Cheating is not something you should take lightly but being teased like that is awesome!

Oh god I hope so, I kept hoping it made him seriously hard. Never got the pleasure of glancing at it much, though when I did like I said I'm pretty sure he's very well hung, it probably wouldn't stand up even without the pants, :O but jeez yeah I hope so, that is so hot, the idea of him going home all hard and cumming so much as he thinks about me. I got the feeling he's never really been flirted with in such a "tense" situation, and though it's over and I probably won't get to see him again (like I said this is probably for the best) I'm glad he very much enjoyed it
 
I can tell you from experience I loved it sounds like mine went a bit further but never sex. We would tease each other all day and on the wY home I would get a phone call as she pleasured herself for me, of course I would do the same. We didn't want to cheat, but I don't know how you could call what we were doing anything different, but one of us would be the aggressor and the other would try to put a stop to it. My favorite was a working lunch she stuck her foot in my lap and proceeded to rub my cock with her foot. No one knew and I could have killed her when we left I needed to cum so badly....
 
I can tell you from experience I loved it sounds like mine went a bit further but never sex. We would tease each other all day and on the wY home I would get a phone call as she pleasured herself for me, of course I would do the same. We didn't want to cheat, but I don't know how you could call what we were doing anything different, but one of us would be the aggressor and the other would try to put a stop to it. My favorite was a working lunch she stuck her foot in my lap and proceeded to rub my cock with her foot. No one knew and I could have killed her when we left I needed to cum so badly....

Sounds like a very enjoyable arrangment for both of yall.
 
I tried to find a thread about this but I couldn't seem to find one. There are a lot about wives being with other men, but I kind of have a thing for the opposite... I'm female, so specifically the situation of being lusted after by a married man or fulfilling the fantasies of a married man who isn't getting enough sex at home or sex with a beautiful young woman anymore.

I found out I had a bit of a fetish for this at work, when I was working somewhere temporary and met this nice guy... very shy. I have a bit of an open personality, and I thought he was cute so I said something flirty to which he reacted quite shy. At this point in time I didn't know he was married, though I did know that he must be about 15 yrs my senior. We worked together for two weeks and in that time things progressed from me harmlessly flirting to obvious desire, then shortly after I found out he was married. I just can't stop fantasizing about him, being this married 40 year old guy with children who probably doesn't get much sex (not nearly as much as he should, he certainly did fill out his pants) and how much being flirted with by an attractive women in her early 20's must have affected him. Because I could tell that it was, he would blush so hard, I could see the lust in his eyes... he wanted me badly. :) I am so attracted to him, I would love to give him what he deserves, fulfill his dreams of being ridden by someone young and hot and absolutely drain him of cum...

Perhaps it's a good thing the job ended when I found out he was married, I doubt I would have had a shred of self-restraint regardless... I secretly hope that at the very least the sexual tension I caused him he got to take home to his wife and that she did him, I'm so jealous but he obviously has such a nice big cock and it would be such a waste in a sexless marriage... he must be fantastic in bed!
I'm so jealous but he obviously has such a nice big cock and it would be such a waste in a sexless marriage... he must be fantastic in bed!
Yes I am!
 
I think it would be sexy to know if my husband had been attracted and teased by another woman. He's not openminded enough to share those details if it did happen :)
 
Funny you should bring this up. There's a girl at work who really wants to fuck me. She's 24 and I'm 52. We've been teasing hard for about a week now. I've been a little skeptical, but this gives me hope. I'm pretty sure she knows I'm married. Seriously toying with the idea of ripping her clothes off with my teeth and giving her the best orgasms of her life. I need that badly right now. I just need to confirm that she knows I'm married. I don't want any misunderstandings, regardless of where this goes.
 
If it's been going on for a week, she probably wants it! I'm 27, and I would love to be taken like that. I hope you get to enjoy her, while I'm over here slightly jealous!
 
I think it would be sexy to know if my husband had been attracted and teased by another woman. He's not openminded enough to share those details if it did happen :)

I think you'd be in a minority of wives there. If my wife thought I was flirting at work she'd be asking me to move offices.

Would you be happy if he'd actually acted on it and ended up fucking her?
 
If it's been going on for a week, she probably wants it! I'm 27, and I would love to be taken like that. I hope you get to enjoy her, while I'm over here slightly jealous!

And I will thoroughly enjoy taking her like that. Apparently I got her panties wet today just thinking about me. She does know how to make my cock hard.
 
...I'm female...
...I found out I had a bit of a fetish for this at work...
...fulfill his dreams of being ridden by someone young and hot and absolutely drain him of cum...

@ The OP: Enjoy the fantasy, maybe fulfill it a time or two, have some fun. You seem to have a reasonably good sense of reality about it as well, meaning hopefully you realize the men (myself included) who'd partake are pigs, and we'll do the same to you too if the chance comes up. :8) (Not all women with this daydream have the same sense of reality that you seem to.)

In other words, do it for fun. And if he starts telling you he loves you, he's leaving his wife for you, etc., he either doesn't and won't, or 1 in a 100 (maybe 1000? 10,000?), he does and he will, but that just means it'll be like 5 years before he does it to you too.

So do it, but do it just for fun, keep it simple. Oh, and PM me a bikini picture too! You know, a reward for all this wisdom? :D
 
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@ The OP: Enjoy the fantasy, maybe fulfill it a time or two, have some fun. You seem to have a reasonably good sense of reality about it as well, meaning hopefully you realize the men (myself included) who'd partake are pigs, and we'll do the same to you too if the chance comes up. :8) (Not all women with this daydream have the same sense of reality that you seem to.)

In other words, do it for fun. And if he starts telling you he loves you, he's leaving his wife for you, etc., he either doesn't and won't, or 1 in a 100 (maybe 1000? 10,000?), he does and he will, but that just means it'll be like 5 years before he does it to you too.

So do it, but do it just for fun, keep it simple. Oh, and PM me a bikini picture too! You know, a reward for all this wisdom? :D


I have been propositioned by several married men and fucked a few of them. They weren't all "pigs". Generally speaking I think of "cheaters" as being in two categories. There are the guys who are selfish and just don't respect their marriage commitments (the "pigs"). And there are the guys who sex life is being neglected by their wives.

I've always taken the view that marriage commitments are between husband and wife and it isn't up to me to enforce them. However, I just find the "pigs" unattractive so I avoid them, married or not. The sexually neglected men a find oddly appealing.

I don't advocate cheating. But I think sex is part of a loving relationship and a woman who denies her husband a decent sex life indefinitely is reneging or cheating on her marriage commitments. Where this is the case I feel a strong sympathy for the man, believe that he is at least partially justified in seeking that which his wife refuses to provide (or at least it isn't for me to judge) and take a certain satisfaction in being able to give him what he needs.

I don't want him to leave her. I don't want to tear her down. But nor do I feel a lot of sympathy for her if she is neglecting her man. And I do enjoy being the woman that he lusts after.
 
I have been propositioned by several married men and fucked a few of them. They weren't all "pigs". Generally speaking I think of "cheaters" as being in two categories. There are the guys who are selfish and just don't respect their marriage commitments (the "pigs"). And there are the guys who sex life is being neglected by their wives.

I've always taken the view that marriage commitments are between husband and wife and it isn't up to me to enforce them. However, I just find the "pigs" unattractive so I avoid them, married or not. The sexually neglected men a find oddly appealing.

I don't advocate cheating. But I think sex is part of a loving relationship and a woman who denies her husband a decent sex life indefinitely is reneging or cheating on her marriage commitments. Where this is the case I feel a strong sympathy for the man, believe that he is at least partially justified in seeking that which his wife refuses to provide (or at least it isn't for me to judge) and take a certain satisfaction in being able to give him what he needs.

I don't want him to leave her. I don't want to tear her down. But nor do I feel a lot of sympathy for her if she is neglecting her man. And I do enjoy being the woman that he lusts after.

Very well put!

I tend to use the term "pig" both as a term of endearment, and also as an accurate description. No reason it can't be both.

;oink; -- pretend that's a pig smiley. :D
 
I have been propositioned by several married men and fucked a few of them. They weren't all "pigs". Generally speaking I think of "cheaters" as being in two categories. There are the guys who are selfish and just don't respect their marriage commitments (the "pigs"). And there are the guys who sex life is being neglected by their wives.

I've always taken the view that marriage commitments are between husband and wife and it isn't up to me to enforce them. However, I just find the "pigs" unattractive so I avoid them, married or not. The sexually neglected men a find oddly appealing.

I don't advocate cheating. But I think sex is part of a loving relationship and a woman who denies her husband a decent sex life indefinitely is reneging or cheating on her marriage commitments. Where this is the case I feel a strong sympathy for the man, believe that he is at least partially justified in seeking that which his wife refuses to provide (or at least it isn't for me to judge) and take a certain satisfaction in being able to give him what he needs.

I don't want him to leave her. I don't want to tear her down. But nor do I feel a lot of sympathy for her if she is neglecting her man. And I do enjoy being the woman that he lusts after.

Very well put!

I tend to use the term "pig" both as a term of endearment, and also as an accurate description. No reason it can't be both.

;oink; -- pretend that's a pig smiley. :D

I agree it is very well put.

the perspective of two types of cheaters is very interesting.

thank you for your post
 
I think you'd be in a minority of wives there. If my wife thought I was flirting at work she'd be asking me to move offices.

Would you be happy if he'd actually acted on it and ended up fucking her?

I've been asking him for an open relationship (he's not into it) so it would get the ball rolling.
 
Married men are my weakness, it just makes a man hotter in my opinion. I love to service married men, those trying to hide it from wives makes it all more thrilling.
 
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