Sex starved men

[legolove]

Do any other women or men for that matter get a rush when they are with someone that hasn't had sex for a while? I personally love when I meet a guy that hasn't been active sexually in a long time. The thought of helping him is such an intense turn on for me. I am able (usually) to spot someone that is saying that as "a line" to try and sleep with me so don't think we all can't tell sometimes Just wondering if there are any others that get excited by it

 

[Samday]

Legolove. Being one of those sex-starved men is no fun at all, I can assure you!

 

[spawnofdavey]

Legolove. Being one of those sex-starved men is no fun at all, I can assure you!

Agreed.

 

[newhere2learn]

Former fwb

I had a former fwb going through a 12-18 month dry spell. I was purely for her pleasure.

So horny it was untrue.

 

[MissJW]

When we first met with my (then to-be) husband he had been without sex for about a year. It was so incredibly adorable when he confessed it to me, we were both a bit drunk, nude and in the middle of a freaking steamy make-out session. He was huge and hard, I made squishy sounds from mere movement alone and suddenly he just stopped and went "Eh, fuuuuckkk.... it's been a while... Not sure I still know how to...." or something along those lines. Oh my, from that second I knew this was love

 

[Samday]

From the posts here it looks like it's a UK problem. any volunteers to resolve it?

 

[tjernst]

Long time

My wife is battling cancer and is to weak for any type of sex. I would sooner go without then to cheat on her but man sometimes I about go insane.

 

[legolove]

When we first met with my (then to-be) husband he had been without sex for about a year. It was so incredibly adorable when he confessed it to me, we were both a bit drunk, nude and in the middle of a freaking steamy make-out session. He was huge and hard, I made squishy sounds from mere movement alone and suddenly he just stopped and went "Eh, fuuuuckkk.... it's been a while... Not sure I still know how to...." or something along those lines. Oh my, from that second I knew this was love

Exactly my thoughts! I find it so adorable when a guy trys to fight it but is to overwhelmed not to stop. (i pretend its because I'm sexy and not that he hasn't had sex in a while ) Maybe I'm just mean and get aroused from his embarassment

 

[Crusader3113]

Do any other women or men for that matter get a rush when they are with someone that hasn't had sex for a while? I personally love when I meet a guy that hasn't been active sexually in a long time. The thought of helping him is such an intense turn on for me. I am able (usually) to spot someone that is saying that as "a line" to try and sleep with me so don't think we all can't tell sometimes Just wondering if there are any others that get excited by it

nothing exciting from my end, but I am sure from a female prospective it can be a turn on for many reasons.

 

[Deleted member 1306910]

LOL man this is funny. Well no, it's really not. It's actually very very sad.

I don't know why I laughed, except at the one dude who thinks it's just a UK problem.

It's been about 3 years since I was so much as romantically kissed...or even really touched. But I'm not a normal case. I never have been very active.

But I will say this, I have learned that you can live without a LOT of things that lots of people will tell you that you need. You don't die from lack of sex, or touch, or affection, or love. You can live without any of that. Hell, some of us don't really deserve it anyway and we know it. Whether because we are physically repulsive, or mentally defective, or morally bankrupt. Deep down we know it.

If you are, like myself, lucky enough to have any form of companionship, learn to accept what you have and value it above all else. Even if you disgust her.

 

[rudrakshpathak]

Do any other women or men for that matter get a rush when they are with someone that hasn't had sex for a while? I personally love when I meet a guy that hasn't been active sexually in a long time. The thought of helping him is such an intense turn on for me. I am able (usually) to spot someone that is saying that as "a line" to try and sleep with me so don't think we all can't tell sometimes Just wondering if there are any others that get excited by it

Yes.

It is.

To know a woman has been having the desire and not getting it fulfilled is sometimes like being handed a ripe fruit.

Gorgeous, Succulent and delectable.


I wonder what fireworls ensue when both are so starved


mmmm, makes you think of so many things at once, the raw intensity and the pressing neeed..... Lip biting love, legolove.

 

[CarnalGerund]

There's a thread running through your fetishes and I really like what it is.

 

[MeriDS]

I think we are not created to "starve" for longer then a month.. It is really difficult to me when my wife has a buisness trip, or when kids have summer vacations and we can't "hit" the right moment when they are out for save amount of time

 

[Samday]

Nevyn Black - ever heard of humour - even black humour? No, thought not!

 

[DarkBee]

I went without sex for almost 7 years; the orgasms I had with my then-girlfriend were literally knee-weakening (and I got to experiment a ton).
Haven't had sex since late august 2013; now I know what I missed, and goddamn do I miss it.

 

[Othermoose]

I've gone eighteen years without sex...

 

[KUJACK]

Had

Fucked a 67 year old woman who hadn't has sex for 10 years.
Beat fuck I ever had. We are still friends

 

[MyRubiLips]

With the first/ex husband, I was a sexually frustrated woman. He was an ass. Everything he claimed he loved sexually myst have been a lie... That's what I get for meeting him on the Net in a fetish chat room back on good 'ole AOL.

Sex life was great before him, and has been great after him!

 

[Deleted member 1306910]

Nevyn Black - ever heard of humour - even black humour? No, thought not!

Nope I have no sense of humor Alt. Wasn't issued one along with the psychosis.

 

[LegsOpenedWide]

My wife is battling cancer and is to weak for any type of sex. I would sooner go without then to cheat on her but man sometimes I about go insane.

Well wishes for your wife

 

[mterrence]

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[legolove]

Well wishes for your wife

Haha, sometimes I kind of wish I could meet someone like you, Legolove. It's always a great feeling to be turning someone on.

awwww, you never know! Wishes can be fulfilled if you don't close yourself off to the opportunities

 

[legolove]

Some great posts here! ty sooo much for sharing

 

[30bandits]

Exactly my thoughts! I find it so adorable when a guy trys to fight it but is to overwhelmed not to stop. (i pretend its because I'm sexy and not that he hasn't had sex in a while ) Maybe I'm just mean and get aroused from his embarassment

fine by me....

 

[moocha01]

My husband and I both hadn't had sex for a few year's when we got together and we took things very slow (as the previous was a fucked up nutter, who nearly put me off men forever ). It has been a fantastic journey learning about eachother from feeling eachother over our clothes to everything else but unfortunately sometimes the year's move too fast.
Even now when we go without for a while, I still enjoy the look of lust in his eyes, the wanting, the craving.