Not sure what I'm doing

[storyLover92]

Hello,

I'm new to these threads and possibly this life style. I am wanting to learn more about everything to do with BDSM and hoping to maybe find someone to teach me a bit.

Thank you for reading!

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

You need the official cape, and bicycle helmet with the miner's lamp.

 

[storyLover92]

Do you have some I can borrow?

 

[SpunThings]

Hello,

I'm new to these threads and possibly this life style. I am wanting to learn more about everything to do with BDSM and hoping to maybe find someone to teach me a bit.

Thank you for reading!

Everything? Because there are a wide range of behaviors and kinks lumped into BDSM, and I doubt you'd be interested in all of it. Why don't you start with some specific questions, because "BDSM" is a very large umbrella term.

 

[storyLover92]

I want to learn more about the different behaviors and kinks. If I said I have questions about knife play I would get answers but then I wouldn't be exposed to other kinks as well... I want to be able to figure out what I want and what I like and dislike.

 

[RawHumor]

Take a look at the BDSM Library sticky at the top of this subforum.

 

[MeekMe]

I want to learn more about the different behaviors and kinks. If I said I have questions about knife play I would get answers but then I wouldn't be exposed to other kinks as well... I want to be able to figure out what I want and what I like and dislike.

Google 'BDSM checklist.' Enjoy.

 

[BabblingBrooke]

Read, read, read, and then read some more.

You might specify if you're looking for information from a specific perspective. A top/dominant/master/etc or bottom/submissive/etc. If the latter, be wary of aggressive PMs from dominants demanding you become their submissive or succumb to their commands.

Welcome to Lit!

 

[storyLover92]

I have read and Googled and all of that. I was just hoping to find some real people to talk to about things was all.

 

[SpunThings]

I have read and Googled and all of that. I was just hoping to find some real people to talk to about things was all.

It's kind of hard to discuss experiences and things without some direction though. Put some effort into framing a question about your interests, and I'm more likely to put some effort in giving you my input. Also, there are people out there fishing for what I've seen referred to as "wank fodder". I love to talk about myself, but not if someone doesn't actually care about my persective and just wants something to titillate them. So I try to gauge that by how much effort someone puts into their discussion starter. Give a little more of yourself, your perspective, your direction, and you might get more input. This is just my perspective, but in my experience that is what makes discussion threads successful.

 

[innerMILFsub]

If the latter, be wary of aggressive PMs from dominants demanding you become their submissive or succumb to their commands.

So true!

 

[vozrozhdenie]

Hello,

I'm new to these threads and possibly this life style. I am wanting to learn more about everything to do with BDSM and hoping to maybe find someone to teach me a bit.

Thank you for reading!

This sounds like you're looking to connect with someone. If that's the case, you might consider posting a more fleshed-out ad in the BDSM personals.

If you're interested in having anyone and everyone answer your questions, you could start a thread for each category, e.g. one for your knife play questions and so on.

Of course, there's always plenty to read browsing the forums, working your way through the Library, and searching the webbernets.

Good hunting.