A PSA regarding PMing uninvited pictures of your penises, men of Lit

ElijaRDC

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My advice on cock shots, dick pics, whatever you want to call them? Best practice is not to send them unsolicited.

Most (emphasis on "most") women do not want to see a picture of a random internet user's junk. They just don't, and yes, that includes a lot of women who have posted hundreds or even thousands of naked pictures of themselves.

I know it might be a bit hard to wrap your brain around given that most men want to see almost any woman's bits, but I guess it's just a plain old double-standard. You can go right ahead and bitch about it not being fair if you want, but I'm not going to be able to conjure up much sympathy for you given that a gender gap exists in wages, just as an example.

Yes, I have wanted to see mens' penises before, and that does include some men on teh webz. However, those were men that I'd talked with for a while and with whom I'd built some kind of a connection.

The most important thing I can say about the matter, men, is that if a woman wants to see your penis, she will let you know.

Now, if you absolutely MUST be the one to initiate that conversation, do her the favor of asking first, or at least sending the picture in the form of a link, of course letting her know what the pic is of, so that she at least has the opportunity to decline if she so wishes.

Does that sound tedious? Do you just want women to see your amazing penis? We have something for that! You can start an AmPics thread. Now, it likely won't get the traffic that a woman's thread does, but there's that pesky double-standard again for you.

(And yes, I am aware of the chance that my inbox is now going to get blown up with penis pictures. As such, I won't be opening any PMs from anyone other than the three or four people from whom I ever actually want them. No one can say I never took one for the team.)
 
See, men and women are wired so differently!

I've never been PM'd a sweet shot of boobies that I didn't appreciate.



Rare as that occurrence may be.
 
My advice on cock shots, dick pics, whatever you want to call them? Best practice is not to send them unsolicited.

Most (emphasis on "most") women do not want to see a picture of a random internet user's junk. They just don't, and yes, that includes a lot of women who have posted hundreds or even thousands of naked pictures of themselves.

I know it might be a bit hard to wrap your brain around given that most men want to see almost any woman's bits, but I guess it's just a plain old double-standard. You can go right ahead and bitch about it not being fair if you want, but I'm not going to be able to conjure up much sympathy for you given that a gender gap exists in wages, just as an example.

Yes, I have wanted to see mens' penises before, and that does include some men on teh webz. However, those were men that I'd talked with for a while and with whom I'd built some kind of a connection.

The most important thing I can say about the matter, men, is that if a woman wants to see your penis, she will let you know.

Now, if you absolutely MUST be the one to initiate that conversation, do her the favor of asking first, or at least sending the picture in the form of a link, of course letting her know what the pic is of, so that she at least has the opportunity to decline if she so wishes.

Does that sound tedious? Do you just want women to see your amazing penis? We have something for that! You can start an AmPics thread. Now, it likely won't get the traffic that a woman's thread does, but there's that pesky double-standard again for you.

(And yes, I am aware of the chance that my inbox is now going to get blown up with penis pictures. As such, I won't be opening any PMs from anyone other than the three or four people from whom I ever actually want them. No one can say I never took one for the team.)

roflmao... :D

Go you!
 
(And yes, I am aware of the chance that my inbox is now going to get blown up with penis pictures. As such, I won't be opening any PMs from anyone other than the three or four people from whom I ever actually want them. No one can say I never took one for the team.)

I suspect that you will be taking more than one for the Team. We salute you comrade.

:)
 
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My advice on cock shots, dick pics, whatever you want to call them? Best practice is not to send them unsolicited.

Most (emphasis on "most") women do not want to see a picture of a random internet user's junk. They just don't, and yes, that includes a lot of women who have posted hundreds or even thousands of naked pictures of themselves.

I know it might be a bit hard to wrap your brain around given that most men want to see almost any woman's bits, but I guess it's just a plain old double-standard. You can go right ahead and bitch about it not being fair if you want, but I'm not going to be able to conjure up much sympathy for you given that a gender gap exists in wages, just as an example.

Yes, I have wanted to see mens' penises before, and that does include some men on teh webz. However, those were men that I'd talked with for a while and with whom I'd built some kind of a connection.

The most important thing I can say about the matter, men, is that if a woman wants to see your penis, she will let you know.

Now, if you absolutely MUST be the one to initiate that conversation, do her the favor of asking first, or at least sending the picture in the form of a link, of course letting her know what the pic is of, so that she at least has the opportunity to decline if she so wishes.

Does that sound tedious? Do you just want women to see your amazing penis? We have something for that! You can start an AmPics thread. Now, it likely won't get the traffic that a woman's thread does, but there's that pesky double-standard again for you.

(And yes, I am aware of the chance that my inbox is now going to get blown up with penis pictures. As such, I won't be opening any PMs from anyone other than the three or four people from whom I ever actually want them. No one can say I never took one for the team.)

*Stands up and applauds in agreement* Great piece...
 
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My advice on cock shots, dick pics, whatever you want to call them? Best practice is not to send them unsolicited.

Most (emphasis on "most") women do not want to see a picture of a random internet user's junk. They just don't, and yes, that includes a lot of women who have posted hundreds or even thousands of naked pictures of themselves.

I know it might be a bit hard to wrap your brain around given that most men want to see almost any woman's bits, but I guess it's just a plain old double-standard. You can go right ahead and bitch about it not being fair if you want, but I'm not going to be able to conjure up much sympathy for you given that a gender gap exists in wages, just as an example.

Yes, I have wanted to see mens' penises before, and that does include some men on teh webz. However, those were men that I'd talked with for a while and with whom I'd built some kind of a connection.

The most important thing I can say about the matter, men, is that if a woman wants to see your penis, she will let you know.

Now, if you absolutely MUST be the one to initiate that conversation, do her the favor of asking first, or at least sending the picture in the form of a link, of course letting her know what the pic is of, so that she at least has the opportunity to decline if she so wishes.

Does that sound tedious? Do you just want women to see your amazing penis? We have something for that! You can start an AmPics thread. Now, it likely won't get the traffic that a woman's thread does, but there's that pesky double-standard again for you.

(And yes, I am aware of the chance that my inbox is now going to get blown up with penis pictures. As such, I won't be opening any PMs from anyone other than the three or four people from whom I ever actually want them. No one can say I never took one for the team.)


I don't even have to read this, I already know everyone wants to see my dick.





(don't they?)
 
Excellent PSA, most men forget that women aren't necessarily as visually attuned as we are. On the other hand ladies please remember sometimes asking to see our junk is a big way to flatter us, and you have to know for a guy stroking his ego is as good as stroking his,...well you get the idea.

:D
 
lol...is it just me then? Cause I really don't mind seeing dick pics...random or not, I like to look. I see enough women with their boobs on their avatar...I don't hear anyone complaining about that. If men are confident enough to show me their cocks then so be it...I'd love to look. Don't expect me to just send nude pics back if ANY pics at all...that's my choosing. But I'm not opposed to dick pics...I adore men, straight, gay, bi...older and younger....and their parts. :D
 
lol...is it just me then? Cause I really don't mind seeing dick pics...random or not, I like to look. I see enough women with their boobs on their avatar...I don't hear anyone complaining about that. If men are confident enough to show me their cocks then so be it...I'd love to look. Don't expect me to just send nude pics back if ANY pics at all...that's my choosing. But I'm not opposed to dick pics...I adore men, straight, gay, bi...older and younger....and their parts. :D

Your inbox gonna be inundated in the coming hours...:D
 
This should kind of go without saying. It's the same as I really don't care to see any females anatomy either. What's the difference between you showing your tits in an av and a guy having his dick as an av? For the most part i keep avs and sigs off so i dont have to see that kind of stuff. Every once in a while i turn the avs back on just because. Im not offended by others nudity but there are choices one can make to protect themselves from viewing things they dont want to. You can always turn off images or not open pm's from people you do not talk to on a regular basis. :)
 
Well said Elija,
I always try my very best to be respectful when I say hello first, one never knows what they're stepping into. I have made one very close friend here because I was respectful first. Guys, always be yourself: it'll either win her over or help her make her choice more clear. lol And because a sense of humor is always important I thought I'd post a picture of a dick for Elija (so she can decline it here instead of her PM box).

http://www.foodsofengland.co.uk/asda dick.jpg
 
lol...is it just me then? Cause I really don't mind seeing dick pics...random or not, I like to look. I see enough women with their boobs on their avatar...I don't hear anyone complaining about that. If men are confident enough to show me their cocks then so be it...I'd love to look. Don't expect me to just send nude pics back if ANY pics at all...that's my choosing. But I'm not opposed to dick pics...I adore men, straight, gay, bi...older and younger....and their parts. :D

That's awesome!

And regarding avatars, some may see this as splitting hairs, but in my opinion, that's different. Some men have their penises in their avatars... fine. Whatever. This IS a sex site. And you can always turns avatars off. When it's via PM, it's much more invasive and personal seeming. You aren't being given a choice.
 
You do have a choice, turn off images. I understand, though how you see it as a man pushing his naked image on you.
 
There's a part of me feeling very slighted at the moment because I've never received a random dick pic. :confused:
 
That's awesome!

And regarding avatars, some may see this as splitting hairs, but in my opinion, that's different. Some men have their penises in their avatars... fine. Whatever. This IS a sex site. And you can always turns avatars off. When it's via PM, it's much more invasive and personal seeming. You aren't being given a choice.

I don't want to turn my avatars off so I'm forced to see what people put up. I'm not offended by anyone's body parts...men or women. At least, I haven't been so far. I just don't understand why you'd be so upset as to post about it, in great length why you're so offended...I mean, it seems somewhat hypocritical coming from someone who is forcing us all to look at her bare tit...in public, not even private as to ask someone first...Would you like to see my tit? It's just out there....in public. I didn't know you had that avatar til I saw this thread...low and behold, there it is. lol...but I'm not offended just the same. It looks like a nice tit....I'd not complain because you're proud to put it out there. Good for you. But just as well, good for the confident men on this site....:)
 
Is this a secret way to get dick pics (and I've never sent one on the internet in my life).

But, if it is .... I feel the same way about breasts, I would hate for a pm box full of unsolicited tit pics.
Would be horrible to come on here and click pm after pm and have to sift through in horrified shock at all those breasts. Big, small, perky .... soft nipples or hard, maybe some ice and water droplets .... don't do it ladies. Don't do it.
 
Is this a secret way to get dick pics (and I've never sent one on the internet in my life).

But, if it is .... I feel the same way about breasts, I would hate for a pm box full of unsolicited tit pics.
Would be horrible to come on here and click pm after pm and have to set through in horrified shock at all those breasts. Big, small, perky .... soft nipples or hard, maybe some ice and water droplets .... don't do it ladies. Don't do it.

lol maybe you've got something there cause seriously...I've never gotten random dick pics. I've gotten guys asking if they can send or a friend sending me gifs and pics cause he knows I like them. So...maybe you're right, reverse psychology.
In that case...men, don't send me your dick pics! Don't fill up my PM box that I will be clearing before I leave tonight with pics of your pricks....NO prick pics...or dick pics...k? :D
 
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