How to deep throat? Help please!

[SlaveHoneybunny]

I've gotten good at giving head, or so I'm told, but still find deep throating daunting and have no idea how to actually do it (and yes I've tried researching). Is there any advice or tips you could give me, so I can surprise and please my Master? Also, I don't really like swallowing cum, is there any way I can get over this? I think it's all in my head :/

 

[Conager]

Reminds me of the Sam Kinneson joke. "Remember that first time? Was it good? How do you suppose she got sooo good at it?"

Nothing wrong with letting him see you struggle with it. I kind of like that myself. The alternative is to find someone else to practice on...or a similar object. But what would be the fun of that?

 

[SlaveHoneybunny]

Haha nice reference. Guess I'll have to make him let me practice on him, so I can get better. And the struggling thing...I think he'd like that, but I never thought of it like that. Thank you!

 

[doctaco]

Deeep throating

Lie on the bed on your back and let your head hang over the edge of the bed. Relax and get comfortable. Stick your tongue out far but comfortable. Have your man stand over you facing you as in a 69 position. It is much easier if his cock is well lubricated with your saliva and/or spit or some pleasant tasting water-soluble lubricant. Don't let one gag reflex stop you. You can relax and overcome that. I have taught several of my lady in this way. Of course, there is the dom/sub way, but that is very different. Let me know if it helps.

 

[kawa_kamuri]

The gagging is the best part.

 

[martinfs]

Sometimes I can deepthroat well and other times its just not happening, seems random. As for swallowing, if you don't like to then don't do it ( I don't). I like to make a guy cum in my mouth (rude not to) but I just let it run out don my chin.

 

[tristantrotsky]

First-Time Gay Deep-Throating

I clearly remember the first time I was deep-throated, it was so incredible. I was kinda in awe of my Boyfriend, I was so scared that if I didn't satisfy him he was so attractive and desirable that there were other guys out there who'd be only too happy to do whatever he wanted. So I had to make sure that when he went home to his wife he was totally satisfied, in every way. I'd been squatting down nude contentedly sucking his big cock for some time when he began talking about Porn sequences he'd watched where the cock-sucker took the cock all the way down, and it became apparent that he was taunting me to do the same. The prospect intimidated me, but I was determined to do it, so I started taking his fat cock deeper and deeper. Eventually, getting impatient, he laid me on my back on the bed, straddled me, inserted his cock back into my mouth, and began fucking my face brutally, so I was slurping and gurgling obscenely. At one point he did ask if I wanted him to stop, but I just begged him to continue. He'd more or less face-fucked me into a delirious stupor, when I orgasmed and began spurting spunk up my stomach. I lost total control, my entire body limp and wracked with shock-waves, and it was then that his cock simply slipped down my throat all the way. Once there, it stayed there, his fat balls rammed up against my chin, my eyes glazing over. I almost suffocated, until he began to cum off so far down my throat I couldn't even taste it. I felt dizzy and light-headed before he finally withdrew it inch by incredible slobbery-wet inch, and I felt such a smug feeling of satisfaction I was daubing wet sloppy kisses all over it, squeezing the last few drops of spunk out onto my tongue, worshipping it. The next time I deep-throated him, and the time after that was easier, and hugely satisfying...

 

[NightL]

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[Pink_Milkmaid]

I've gotten good at giving head, or so I'm told, but still find deep throating daunting and have no idea how to actually do it (and yes I've tried researching). Is there any advice or tips you could give me, so I can surprise and please my Master? Also, I don't really like swallowing cum, is there any way I can get over this? I think it's all in my head :/

Practice. A toy with a large flared base will remove some anxiety that you're about to accidentally drop a carrot or something down your throat, but cold carrots actually work very, very well too. Chilled (not frozen!!!) toys in general are good for practice and try different positions to see what feels comfortable for you. For me there are certain angles that I can do it very easily, and others are far more challenging. Start with toys a little smaller than your man girth wise, then work up to those a little bigger (so that he feels "easier" when you get the real deal). Everyone is different--lube or even too much spit can trigger my gag reflex so experiment and see what works for you in that regard.

The most important thing is to fully relax. Center your mind. Take a big deep breath and go down as far as you can, then inch your way lower. Especially in practice sessions, it's depth not speed that matters. Go as slow as you need to achieve an almost zen-like, yoga stretch approach to sliding a little bit lower then holding as long as you can, then releasing, breathing and trying again, lower that time. Think of it as mental and oral yoga--you need a deep inner calm to really open up. Try that same technique of very slow strokes with your partner if he's game. Once you find that zen-like space inside yourself that lets you go deep, you can work on going there with faster bobs and with add-ons like touching yourself. Humming/chanting when you're practicing with the toy is also a good way to work on not triggering the gag reflex.

 

[bi69todd]

Practice. A toy with a large flared base will remove some anxiety that you're about to accidentally drop a carrot or something down your throat, but cold carrots actually work very, very well too. Chilled (not frozen!!!) toys in general are good for practice and try different positions to see what feels comfortable for you. For me there are certain angles that I can do it very easily, and others are far more challenging. Start with toys a little smaller than your man girth wise, then work up to those a little bigger (so that he feels "easier" when you get the real deal). Everyone is different--lube or even too much spit can trigger my gag reflex so experiment and see what works for you in that regard.

The most important thing is to fully relax. Center your mind. Take a big deep breath and go down as far as you can, then inch your way lower. Especially in practice sessions, it's depth not speed that matters. Go as slow as you need to achieve an almost zen-like, yoga stretch approach to sliding a little bit lower then holding as long as you can, then releasing, breathing and trying again, lower that time. Think of it as mental and oral yoga--you need a deep inner calm to really open up. Try that same technique of very slow strokes with your partner if he's game. Once you find that zen-like space inside yourself that lets you go deep, you can work on going there with faster bobs and with add-ons like touching yourself. Humming/chanting when you're practicing with the toy is also a good way to work on not triggering the gag reflex.

Excellent advice. Thanks! I have to fight a gag reflex and this gives me something to think about.

 

[robertreams]

Explore, play, discover. Trumpet players and other musicians learn "round breathing" (being able to breathe out through nose or mouth and in through the other simultaneously.

The secret to deep throat is relaxing your throat muscles and breathing through your nose. An awful lot depends on the size of the man, but even a modestly sized throat can handle quite a load. If you gag, it feels really good on his cock, (as long as you don't puke).

As for swallowing, eh, coat it with chocolate, or butterscotch or whatever, swallow them simultaneously. Does he swallow your cum? Other advice here about practice and position is also good, i will not repeat it.

 

[swingerjoe]

There is a throat-numbing spray that you can buy online or in most sex shops. It's harmless to use, and works like a charm. My wife wanted to be able to deepthroat me, so she bought the spray and was able to do it on the first try. She used it maybe once or twice after that, and discovered she was able to deepthroat without the spray. I think it's just a matter of learning how to suppress your gag reflex, and the spray helps you do that.

Best of luck! (And lucky guy!)

 

[gamegamale]

I've gotten good at giving head, or so I'm told, but still find deep throating daunting and have no idea how to actually do it (and yes I've tried researching). Is there any advice or tips you could give me, so I can surprise and please my Master? Also, I don't really like swallowing cum, is there any way I can get over this? I think it's all in my head :/

Plenty of good tips here as to how, so I won't repeat.
As to swallowing...is it the taste or texture? Yes, it is an acquired taste but his diet prior to consumption of his jism will affect cum flavor (certain vegetables can make it bitter tasting sweet foods may help improve the taste. I consider the texture to be that of pudding.

Enjoy.

 

[destined]

Lie on the bed on your back and let your head hang over the edge of the bed. Relax and get comfortable. Stick your tongue out far but comfortable. Have your man stand over you facing you as in a 69 position. It is much easier if his cock is well lubricated with your saliva and/or spit or some pleasant tasting water-soluble lubricant. Don't let one gag reflex stop you. You can relax and overcome that. I have taught several of my lady in this way. Of course, there is the dom/sub way, but that is very different. Let me know if it helps.

My husband really wanted me to deep throat him and I really wanted to be able to do it. It is not something most people can just do out of the box and for me the gag reflex was a real problem. But, for me it became a goal.

After a few unsuccessful tries, this is pretty much the same position I was in the first time I successfully deep throated my husband. After using this position to learn to relax my throat, he has deep throated me in other positions; and nearly always successfully too.

 

[policywank]

Like most people have said it is a matter of practice and slow progression. The key to keeping it going is to recognize that there will be some discomfort and not to let that immediately dissuade you. If you stick with it you'll soon find that what seemed uncomfortable 5x before starts to feel natural and desirable. I find the gag reflex was the toughest part but after I got past that it was fairly smooth sailing. So don't think in terms of "he is not even all the way in yet and I can't handle it so it is only going to get harder". In fact you are dealing with a hurdle and once you get over it becomes easier.

This is kind of a tangent but I found it something like adapting to anal - getting past the sphincter and the initial discomfort of opening it up is quite uncomfortable. It really made me recoil thinking if I couldn't take the first 2" there as no way I could take it all. But I was very motivated and a nice gentle man helped me realize we were just clearing a hurdle to softer territory.

Having pushed my way through both these activities are now enormously pleasurable.