CyranoJ
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Well, a lot of writers are I'm sure quite envious of E.L. James, and have good reason to be. Anyone who has paid their dues in a field of endeavour and then watches someone else make a gajillion dollars in their field by essentially winning the lottery is going to be envious. It's not pretty but there's really no sense pretending otherwise.
E.L. James also pisses off the BDSM community by getting their lifestyle wrong*, pisses off feminists and former victims of abuse by essentially glorifying abuse, and pisses off lovers of good prose -- the kind who enjoy taking the piss out of terrible writing -- by sucking at prose craftsmanship. So, there's all of those. Also perfectly understandable reactions.
(* I happen to think getting the lifestyle "wrong" is precisely the source of her success, but that's matter for another day.)
Bieber- or Mileyphobia are phenomena I find a lot harder to explain. I get not being into either's music, but the extent to which people will go out of their way to profess hating it (and them) as though this were itself an identity is a bit freaky; there are none of the issues in play with James at work with most people for pop music stars, so mostly they become stand-ins for complaints about "music today" or "today's toxic culture" or whatever. I actually wouldn't be surprised to learn that Bieber went off the rails as much as he did in part because he was unprepared for the weird mass neuroses surrounding his fame.
In Miley's case the public moralizing gets extra-sickening, or maybe just extra-amusing. After she twerked with Robin Thicke at the VMA awards I saw a "friend" in my FB feed complaining about the objectification of women and our need for better examples, and I'm like: "Fuck, dude. Really? A week ago you were trying to convince me to go to the peelers with you." (Not that I'm really in a position to complain about hypocrisy; I know all about having private kinks that conflict with your public convictions. But sometimes it strikes me funny regardless.)
E.L. James also pisses off the BDSM community by getting their lifestyle wrong*, pisses off feminists and former victims of abuse by essentially glorifying abuse, and pisses off lovers of good prose -- the kind who enjoy taking the piss out of terrible writing -- by sucking at prose craftsmanship. So, there's all of those. Also perfectly understandable reactions.
(* I happen to think getting the lifestyle "wrong" is precisely the source of her success, but that's matter for another day.)
Bieber- or Mileyphobia are phenomena I find a lot harder to explain. I get not being into either's music, but the extent to which people will go out of their way to profess hating it (and them) as though this were itself an identity is a bit freaky; there are none of the issues in play with James at work with most people for pop music stars, so mostly they become stand-ins for complaints about "music today" or "today's toxic culture" or whatever. I actually wouldn't be surprised to learn that Bieber went off the rails as much as he did in part because he was unprepared for the weird mass neuroses surrounding his fame.
In Miley's case the public moralizing gets extra-sickening, or maybe just extra-amusing. After she twerked with Robin Thicke at the VMA awards I saw a "friend" in my FB feed complaining about the objectification of women and our need for better examples, and I'm like: "Fuck, dude. Really? A week ago you were trying to convince me to go to the peelers with you." (Not that I'm really in a position to complain about hypocrisy; I know all about having private kinks that conflict with your public convictions. But sometimes it strikes me funny regardless.)
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