RoostersCrow
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- Jan 31, 2015
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Hi - I'm Rooster/53/married/midwest.... I have questions for the ladies:
I've only put out a few posts thus far... All the standard "Come and get it/Guy seeking" kind of thing. It never really works out. I was thinking - hell, I wouldn't answer those either if I were an intelligent woman with a lot of choices. So, what't the secret to getting the right kind of responses?
How does a mature man, intelligent, seductive, experienced get noticed? What makes him standout in an online environment?
So as a young guy, loved the mature, married women. Not as emotionally tricky as the younger felines. Still love 'em. How does a guy say "looking for a mature and intelligent woman for ertotic online relationship - if you're married and needing an outlet for what isn't happening at home, then let's talk." and not get ignored?
Over the years, I've had experience with submissives. It started with a LTR with a sub, but neither of us knew that in the beginning - we learned together. I loved her, and learned the Dom role and the responsibilities that go with it. I like the exploration, the training, the part about being a teacher to unlock a woman's sexuality. Again, how does one say that and not get 15 views and no responses?
Finally, as mentioned, I always liked the mature girls and still do. But, I've also learned that the many of the younger girls (that I couldn't handle as a lad) are looking for an experienced Daddy/male to teach them. Like when I was in my 20s and didn't bother with the girls my own age too much, they're not connecting with the boys, because the boys can't give them what they need - the just don't know how. How do you say - I'll teach you, kitten. I'll allow you to bloom in a safe environment and allow you to learn about yourself? How do you do that without sounding like an old perv?
I like intelligence. I like to teach. I like to explore. I like a woman who's attached and needing to be seen/heard/explored - it levels the playing field. I like to know what a lady is missing and create a context/framework to explore that..... I want to know her secrets/fantasies and then use that to arouse her, to explore her, to allow her to bloom.
How does a guy say "I'm up for any of it... Any age, any situation, any role... in a discreet and respectful way" without getting ignored?
All input welcome and thank you all - Rooster.
I've only put out a few posts thus far... All the standard "Come and get it/Guy seeking" kind of thing. It never really works out. I was thinking - hell, I wouldn't answer those either if I were an intelligent woman with a lot of choices. So, what't the secret to getting the right kind of responses?
How does a mature man, intelligent, seductive, experienced get noticed? What makes him standout in an online environment?
So as a young guy, loved the mature, married women. Not as emotionally tricky as the younger felines. Still love 'em. How does a guy say "looking for a mature and intelligent woman for ertotic online relationship - if you're married and needing an outlet for what isn't happening at home, then let's talk." and not get ignored?
Over the years, I've had experience with submissives. It started with a LTR with a sub, but neither of us knew that in the beginning - we learned together. I loved her, and learned the Dom role and the responsibilities that go with it. I like the exploration, the training, the part about being a teacher to unlock a woman's sexuality. Again, how does one say that and not get 15 views and no responses?
Finally, as mentioned, I always liked the mature girls and still do. But, I've also learned that the many of the younger girls (that I couldn't handle as a lad) are looking for an experienced Daddy/male to teach them. Like when I was in my 20s and didn't bother with the girls my own age too much, they're not connecting with the boys, because the boys can't give them what they need - the just don't know how. How do you say - I'll teach you, kitten. I'll allow you to bloom in a safe environment and allow you to learn about yourself? How do you do that without sounding like an old perv?
I like intelligence. I like to teach. I like to explore. I like a woman who's attached and needing to be seen/heard/explored - it levels the playing field. I like to know what a lady is missing and create a context/framework to explore that..... I want to know her secrets/fantasies and then use that to arouse her, to explore her, to allow her to bloom.
How does a guy say "I'm up for any of it... Any age, any situation, any role... in a discreet and respectful way" without getting ignored?
All input welcome and thank you all - Rooster.
