Insulted or degraded

Moi !

Guilty ! I like to be belittled .Giving or recieving verbal insults in whatever style is required. Pm me your personal preferences if you like ?
 
Sometimes

But it really depends on my mood, the circumstances, and the guy(s). When we're in the middle of it, getting each other off... I often like being called a slut or even a whore... but saying to me "Hi slut" out of the blue is quite the turn-off. I guess it just depends.
 
But it really depends on my mood, the circumstances, and the guy(s). When we're in the middle of it, getting each other off... I often like being called a slut or even a whore... but saying to me "Hi slut" out of the blue is insulting. I guess it just depends.

Spot on! I guess it may be arousing if said in order to arouse and not to insult
 
But it really depends on my mood, the circumstances, and the guy(s). When we're in the middle of it, getting each other off... I often like being called a slut or even a whore... but saying to me "Hi slut" out of the blue is quite the turn-off. I guess it just depends.

My wife would agree.
 
But it really depends on my mood, the circumstances, and the guy(s). When we're in the middle of it, getting each other off... I often like being called a slut or even a whore... but saying to me "Hi slut" out of the blue is quite the turn-off. I guess it just depends.

Definitely...context is everything
 
When my wife is on her back and I'm pounding away she loves me to tell her what she is.
 
But it really depends on my mood, the circumstances, and the guy(s). When we're in the middle of it, getting each other off... I often like being called a slut or even a whore... but saying to me "Hi slut" out of the blue is quite the turn-off. I guess it just depends.

Im with you on this one. It can be really fun and a turn on, but it has to be the right guy and he needs to know when to say it.
 
I enjoy being with a girl who feels secure enough to let me play like this with her. But I have also met girls for whom the turn on is that I'm a stranger, that I'm abusing her and I don't even know her.
 
Isn't is funny how things that may arouse us when we are in the heat of the moment, can irk the living shit out of us in another setting? I am a sub mostly when I'm in the bedroom and actually like it when a man (and especially a woman) teases me and calls me a bitch but let a guy say that to me most any other time and I will prolly slap him without hesitation. Which brings me to another subject, slapping. A guy that lays a hand on me had better not sleep anytime soon but when he is putting me on cloud 9 he can slap me, pull my hair, shove my face in his crotch, pretty much anything as long as I am horny.
 
My fantasy of being degraded really gets me off. In contrast, in real life, humiliation is one of the things I hate experiencing. I have thought about why I love it in fantasy and hate it in reality, and I think it's because in fantasy I have the ability to play and re-play it in my head, and stop it whenever I want.
 
mostly just like the physical side of being a sub but lately have begun to want the humiliation side too
 
Slut

I have always liked to be called a slut.

But it doesn't really feel insulting. When a guy calls me a slut, I tell him he has no idea just how slutty I am. Sometimes I will blurt out just how many guys I gave fucked. Or tell them about some casual encounter
 
I love being a dom, but have never gone into it to degrade a lady and I have never had a lady ask me to.
There are those who enjoy being called a slut and a whore, but they find it a turn on, although for some reading this, they may consider it degrading, I guess.

OP, what sort of thing did you have in mind when asking the question?
 
My one biggest turn on is being pounded and being told what a filthy little slut I am. LOVE the dirty names.
 
Open

I'm not going to close this thread because people seem to like posting in it. Unfortunately, I don't have anything to contribute. I created this thread to explore if I liked being insulted or degraded. I don't feel the way others have described so I guess not. However, I enjoy reading the post but it seems this thread has taken on a mind of its own, which isn't a bad thing.
 
I'm not going to close this thread because people seem to like posting in it. Unfortunately, I don't have anything to contribute. I created this thread to explore if I liked being insulted or degraded. I don't feel the way others have described so I guess not. However, I enjoy reading the post but it seems this thread has taken on a mind of its own, which isn't a bad thing.

There are some people that like actual cruel humiliation, being made fun of for being fat or ugly or for having little tits or a small penis or a loose/flappy pussy.

There are many flavors in this world of ours.
 
I insult myself about being fat, but I would hate this from guys. I like being called tiny in a humiliating way - because it's a compliment to me ...
tiny tits, cunt, asshole, mouth .. it all works :)
 
I insult myself about being fat, but I would hate this from guys. I like being called tiny in a humiliating way - because it's a compliment to me ...
tiny tits, cunt, asshole, mouth .. it all works :)

Tiny cunt as a humiliation? Tiny mouth?
 
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