*Twisted*
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See when I think of a vivid imagination being useful during sex I think of it more from the standpoint of imagining new scenes to play out with your lover. New techniques, and places and much less thinking of somebody else. I certainly prefer to be in the moment, but bring wit and intelligence into the bedroom, or wherever to make the experience as amazing as it can be.Masturbation is fine for vivid naughty thoughts![]()
However, if I am having physical sex with someone like my hubby or Jules my fem lover, then it is all about them and us if you know what I mean?The vivid imagination is left shelved in the back of my mind
And, if it something I want to do with them regarding sex I always try to encourage it and not leave it as just an imaginary goal. Of course, then we are talking about two people and their needs with and for each other.
I am often asked to lie back on the bed whilst he gives me oral and finger sex and think of someone else having sex with me. This is difficult because they themselves are not present and "the game" is cancelled part the way through because the person doing it to me is physically there and not in my imagination... the sex becomes totally and physically intimate to the end...us and not my imagination![]()
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