Too aroused to easily orgasm?

[Bighammerfucker]

I have a how-to question here... I am a 23 year old woman and I often find myself becoming aroused enough that it is very difficult to have an orgasm. It's like, I get to this point where internal stimulation feels as extreme as it does post-orgasm if I have been aroused for too long, say if I read something that really turned me on before bed and fell asleep... the next morning would be difficult. Even external stimulation becomes much more difficult though that might be for my lack of patience.

Anyone else experience this? How do you overcome being just too sensitive, like this? I would have a lot more great sex if I could figure out how to handle it better... as it is, there are just occasions when I feel myself properly aroused, and I just know that it's going to be very difficult and almost torturous to even try...

 

[Aphro]

You need to back off for a few minutes and come down, before trying again. It happens to me occasionally, no so much with masturbation but during sex. So, I need to move, or change the stimulation, or just stop and breathe for a few minutes. Then usually I can get past that being stuck feeling and climax.

 

[Paul_Chance]

From the side of having a lover who had the same circumstances (highly aroused, highly sensitive, unable to orgasm) I'd second Aphro's advice - slow way down or stop completely for a while, then resume.

The circumstances can also occur in men and the same advice would hold.

 

[Elixxxher]

Yeah, my wife has simillar problems, usually when we've been fooling around lots first before I stimulate her g-spot. Often after her first orgasm she'll need to pause for a brief spell and catch her breath before we start going again, but I usually end up given her a couple good ones at least before she's good. Sometimes up to 4 orgasms in a session with having to catch her breath only once or twice. Man I love getting her off.

 

[Mr.G]

Yeah, my wife has simillar problems ......Man I love getting her off.

Some partners concentrate on their own pleasure and some get THE most enjoyment by giving their woman the maximum amount of pleasure. I certainly enjoy orgasming but the biggest thrill I get is from giving my woman a series of giant orgasms. With the right techniques you should be able to get her orgasming and NOT STOP until she is completely satiated. COMPLETELY!!

I've only heard of young women who were TOO horny to cum but I think it was a matter of not knowing what made them cum even though they were aroused. As a woman ages and matures she becomes more self-confidant and knows her body better too. Hopefully ditto for her partner ... so if she is too horny to cum NOW then just back off and relax for a few minutes. You should be able to work her up again and a again and her orgasm(s) should follow but don't JUST chase that until she knows and you know what to do to overcome the over-stimulation you seem to be experiencing.