Sweet man

It turns a man on too. But not too many ladies are into it. I wish you the best lady.
 
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Your talking to boys not men here. Your looking for a man.
 
I'm looking for this too. The ones who cherish and show it. So hard to find anymore.
 
Huh.

Old fashioned wanting to get to know a person, to feel close. No need to fill silence with noise - as the silence is part of the mystique. Allowing time to slow down - to enjoy the feel of the other person, the silkiness of their skin, the aroma of their hair.

The gentle eroticism of just touching another person - their face, their hand in yours. A throwback to those almost embarrassing early days of youth - where to merely hold the hand of a person of the opposites sex made you feel so alive. That you mattered.
 
She will be happy she is not alone in her quest. As to the but that says its old fashion no the is call loving. Something your not looking for. Yours is lust.
 
I can't help it. It's what turns me on. Intense eyes looking into mine. A strong hand with fingers entwined with mine. Cupping my face in your hands, your thumb stroking my cheek before your lips touch mine. Warm. Firm. Yet still soft. Arms around me pulling me close. Safe. Cozy.

It's the things like this that get me going. Bring me closer. Make me want more.


My image of a perfect start... and more
 
I can't help it. It's what turns me on. Intense eyes looking into mine. A strong hand with fingers entwined with mine. Cupping my face in your hands, your thumb stroking my cheek before your lips touch mine. Warm. Firm. Yet still soft. Arms around me pulling me close. Safe. Cozy.

It's the things like this that get me going. Bring me closer. Make me want more.

There is nothing like a sweet, romantic moment such as you describe here, these are the moments that seem to get lost in a long term relationship. Sex is great but this is what I miss most.
 
By the lack of pm's and responses, I have to tell you i don't believe men are turned on by it. :(

Sad...

I am not only turned-on by it, I am thrilled that women like you still exist! Call me, "old school" perhaps but tenderness and gentleness can co-exist with powerful passions, with insistent urgency and desires that ache to be realized. Simple touch joined with human caring and respect can indeed turn a quiet moment into a sensual journey to be remembered for a lifetime.

You have started my morning perfectly - thank you!
 
It as romantic as it can be ..

And yes it turns me on ..
That first touch is electric, if you have lived up to the moment, or sometimes it hits you like a jolt of energy , something you did not expect.

But then , this is the schizophrenia I live in .Being a romantic, but still dominant.
To start soft , by eventually to guide and grab her , to feel where she wants to go.
to become the dominant with only one purpose , to get her orgasm multiple times..
 
I can't help it. It's what turns me on. Intense eyes looking into mine. A strong hand with fingers entwined with mine. Cupping my face in your hands, your thumb stroking my cheek before your lips touch mine. Warm. Firm. Yet still soft. Arms around me pulling me close. Safe. Cozy.

It's the things like this that get me going. Bring me closer. Make me want more.

I'd kill to experience in real life. I'm currently messaging someone who likes it and I feel like my dream has come true in a way. I know men don't really like it though, and I don't know what to do because I feel like everything I do has some kind of nurture element. Dammit.
 
Sixfeetundernea there are men that really do want this. As to the one you are writing I do not know. I hope he is real but we all have to take a chance. It will not be any worse than it is now. I pray for you it is true.
 
I think these type romantic moments are what bonds two people together. Those moments when you just want to unzip yourself and pull them completely into you. If it were possible.

These romantic moments remembered long after how the wet spot got there is forgotten. And the beauty of remembering that touch, that look, that gesture, that going above and beyond just for her, is remembered, yes even felt, in the office amongst many, you have this memory all to yourself. Or, during "one of those days' it is these moments that puts a smile on your face and makes you able to go onward.

The yearning for that one that knows you better than anyone else on the planet and loves you still. Happily loves you and fills that inner void. That loves your kinks and thoughts and works to make these a reality in a soft, tender, and gentle way.

--NjoyIt
 
I'd kill to experience in real life. I'm currently messaging someone who likes it and I feel like my dream has come true in a way. I know men don't really like it though, and I don't know what to do because I feel like everything I do has some kind of nurture element. Dammit.

I enjoy all of this very very much!!!!:rose::rose::rose::kiss:
 
Tenderness

I.a.N. I am married to a lovely woman but the sort of tenderness I yearn for is missing .
If I try to do as you suggest she turns away , sex has disappeared in my marriage since the big M , and Mz Palmer has to suffice . It's the tenderness and the loving touches that I miss most of all though .
I hope u find that loving man ,don't despair , he is out there , but u have to take a chance on the unknown . Good luck
 
There are some of you that have these beautiful thoughts that tell me you want the same thing...and you put them here but don't come to me. Why don't you come to me and show me?

One reason for your lack of replies might be that you don't actually say anything about yourself in this ad or in your profile.

You could be a 75 year old cat lady or a 19 year old twink (can I use that term?) or a 40 year old housewife.
 
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