Which is Worse?

[Lancecastor]

Typical American married couple.

The wife is fooling around, just online, with strangers.

The husband is banging hot young single chicks from the office.

Which is worse?

 

[eric60red]

Nether they are both in need of sexual fulfillment, in other words they are normal

 

[4est_4est_Gump]

Typical American married couple.

The wife is fooling around, just online, with strangers.

The husband is banging hot young single chicks from the office.

Which is worse?

Being Canadian...

 

[Riles]

The husband is banging hot young single chicks from the office.

Dear Penthouse:...



This is hardly the typical.

 

[Wat_Tyler]

There was a letter to Penthouse about two h000rs drinking in a bar when a travelling college basketball team checked in.


So they went upstairs with the players and all fucked one another silly.


And there was one more bracket busted.

 

[Pookie]

Depends on the data plan.

 

[4est_4est_Gump]

I thought that it would depend on the office bracket busters...


:shrug:

 

[Lancecastor]

Wow, nice avoidance, gang!

 

[dolf]

hubby. the wife is just using interactive porn.
the hot young thing could have vag cooties.

 

[Pookie]

Wow, nice avoidance, gang!

Not really. I assume the hubby is doing the banging in the office or such and not running up hotel charges and safe sex is involved. So as long as the data plan isn't being exceeded by the wife, they're both about the same.

 

[Lancecastor]

Not really. I assume the hubby is doing the banging in the office or such and not running up hotel charges and safe sex is involved. So as long as the data plan isn't being exceeded by the wife, they're both about the same.

Your concerns for the couple are primarily financial?

 

[4est_4est_Gump]

Your concerns for the couple are primarily financial?

Financial problems more than infidelity are known causes of divorce.

 

[RobDownSouth]

Financial problems more than infidelity are known causes of divorce.

And yet you continue to not look for work.....because you're "medically retired" at age 56...

 

[chillywilly2]

The worst part is, he can take care of the chickys in the office but not his wife

 

[Pookie]

Your concerns for the couple are primarily financial?

They're both "stepping out" in their own way. Both have issues that go beyond financial. Lots of emotional/relationship costs at stake by what each is doing. Both are playing with fire. But if they are both gonna break their vows, at least keep the monetary cost to a minimum.

Besides, most relationship breakups are tied in some way to money issues.

 

[Mischka]

Typical American married couple.

The wife is fooling around, just online, with strangers.

The husband is banging hot young single chicks from the office.

Which is worse?

You never mentioned whether the spouses were already aware of the other's dalliances. In which case, neither is bad. If the spouses are unaware, I would think physical cheating is worse than emotional cheating. Far more actual complications - STDs, pregnancy, boiled rabbits.

But I must question exactly how many "hot young single chicks" in one office are willing to bang a typical American man. He must be a fantastic lay and/or hung like a porn star to still get some after the gossip starts.

 

[Killswitch]

Shit happens when bodies start slappin.

 

[Pookie]

Shit happens when bodies start slappin.

Enemas are your friend, dude.

 

[Lancecastor]

Interestingly, it seems that women become emotionally involved with online lovers.

In contrast, men who fuck around in person tend to do so for the physical act without abandoning their wife emotionally.

 

[Mischka]

Interestingly, it seems that women become emotionally involved with online lovers.

In contrast, men who fuck around in person tend to do so for the physical act without abandoning their wife emotionally.

What of the people each spouse is cheating with? Is the online male lover not becoming emotionally involved with the wife? Otherwise, what is he getting out of the deal?

And the hot young lasses. Are they fucking the husband for the emotional fulfillment, or because they like enjoy the physical act of being stuffed with a hard cock? Given how he's fucking multiple of them, I'm not seeing much time for romance.

 

[Hypoxia]

Typical American married couple.

The wife is fooling around, just online, with strangers.

The husband is banging hot young single chicks from the office.

Which is worse?

If they both know of what they're up to, no problem. They've set the rules for their own marriage game. If the rules allow for outside play, fine. If not, they can either 1) change the rules, 2) change the game, or 3) just cheat. In some social situations, such outside fun is *expected*. It's all up to the players.

EDIT: You introduced a logic faux pas in your opening statement: "Typical American married couple." Such does not exist. Nobody is typical except statistically. Everybody has their own quirks and insanities. All couples have their own dynamics. One size don't fit all.

 

[Sunshine]

I think the husband engaging in the act of sex with women at the office is far worse than the wife having online interactions.

 

[bogusguy]

If the wife is on literotica forum, and if she is posting boob pics, then obviously she is a trooper and deserves our support against her cheating ass husband

 

[Lancecastor]

I think the husband engaging in the act of sex with women at the office is far worse than the wife having online interactions.

Most of the current research says the opposite.

Men cheat for an orgasm.

Women cheat emotionally.

I suggest breaking the emotional bond is the harder one to forgive or repair.

Today, married women are more likely to spend late hours at the office and travel on business. And even for women who stay home, cellphones, e-mail and instant messaging appear to be allowing them to form more intimate relationships, marriage therapists say. Dr. Frank Pittman, an Atlanta psychiatrist who specializes in family crisis and couples therapy, says he has noticed more women talking about affairs centered on “electronic” contact.

“I see a changing landscape in which the emphasis is less on the sex than it is on the openness and intimacy and the revelation of secrets,” said Dr. Pittman, the author of “Private Lies: Infidelity and the Betrayal of Intimacy” (Norton, 1990). “Everybody talks by cellphone and the relationship evolves because you become increasingly distant from whomever you lie to, and you become increasingly close to whomever you tell the truth to.”

 

[Sunshine]

Most of the current research says the opposite.

Men cheat for an orgasm.

Women cheat emotionally.

I suggest breaking the emotional bond is the harder one to forgive or repair.

I think you suppose a wife is emotionally involved online when perhaps she is just seeking excitement or attention.

A man who ignores or neglects his wife physically and or emotionally will someday find another man amusing her, fucking her, loving her or all of the above. If I were the husband, I'd rather find out it was a distant online interaction rather than a physically intimate scenario.