It's Like You're Doing It Just To Do It, Just To Get It Over With

[smoothg103rd]

"Things you use to do, you just don't do it no more. You don't talk to me, you don't kiss me, don't squeeze me, don't pull my hair, don't suck my neck it's like just doing it to get your nut. The other person you're are fucking must like it like that. What, I don't turn you on no more? You ain't eat my pussy, you ain't talking dirty, you just pumping."

I been fucking her for a while. Maybe four or five years. The sex is good, well it use to be good. I know I still got it in me, I just had a lot on my mind. It's not like I was a waste of a fuck, she still got her nuts off. I guess she knew I wasn't into it, because I didn't even bust. I mean, I like the girl, we got chemistry, but I don't want her to feel like it's her. And I also don't want to open up to her and tell her the truth because I don't wanna feel weak. I don't owe her an explanation, we are not in a relationship, we're just cool. I don't like to pillow talk and open up to someone I'm just fucking. So I just told her I got a lot on my mind, which she isn't buying. But it's the truth. During our little sex session random things just was going through my head. Death, I lost three people I went to school with this month. I been thinking about one of my best friends, may God bless his soul. My life, thinking about my Ged, my future, my kids and where I want to be at in my life. Money, how imma have to do something illegal, something I don't want to do but have to, just because my cash flow is getting low. How can I explain all this to someone I'm just fucking? I can't and I won't. I tell her I got a lot on my mind and she thinks that I'm thinking about some other bitch. Like it's a lose lose situation. I don't want her to think that it's her, but I think that's the only solution. What do you think?

 

[neci]

"Things you use to do, you just don't do it no more. You don't talk to me, you don't kiss me, don't squeeze me, don't pull my hair, don't suck my neck it's like just doing it to get your nut. The other person you're are fucking must like it like that. What, I don't turn you on no more? You ain't eat my pussy, you ain't talking dirty you just pumping."

I been fucking her for a while. Maybe four or five years. The sex is good, well it use to be good. I know I still got it in me, I just had a lot on my mind. It's not like I was a waste of a fuck, she still got her nuts off. I guess she knew I wasn't into it, because I didn't even bust. I mean, I like the girl, we got chemistry, but I don't want her to feel like it's her. And I also don't want to open up to her and tell her the truth because I don't wanna feel weak. I don't owe her an explanation, we are not in a relationship, we're just cool. I don't like to pillow talk and open up to someone I'm just fucking. So I just told her I got a lot on my mind, which she isn't buying. But it's the truth. During our little sex session random things just was going through my head. Death, I lost three people I went to school with this month. I been thinking about one of my best friends, may God bless his soul. My life, thinking about my Ged, my future, my kids and where I want to be at in my life. Money, how imma have to do something illegal, something I don't want to do but have to, just because my cash flow is getting low. How can I explain all this to someone I'm just fucking? I can't and I won't. I tell her I got a lot on my mind and she thinks that I'm thinking about some other bitch. Like it's a lose lose situation. I don't want her to think that it's her, but I think that's the only solution. What do you think?

smoot. it's time to quit popping pills.

 

[neci]

dicks don't do pills well.

 

[neci]

unless they are blue, and you do not have heart issues.

 

[smoothg103rd]

smoot. it's time to quit popping pills.

What do pills got to do with this?

 

[toubab]

"Things you use to do, you just don't do it no more. You don't talk to me, you don't kiss me, don't squeeze me, don't pull my hair, don't suck my neck it's like just doing it to get your nut. The other person you're are fucking must like it like that. What, I don't turn you on no more? You ain't eat my pussy, you ain't talking dirty you just pumping."

I been fucking her for a while. Maybe four or five years. The sex is good, well it use to be good. I know I still got it in me, I just had a lot on my mind. It's not like I was a waste of a fuck, she still got her nuts off. I guess she knew I wasn't into it, because I didn't even bust. I mean, I like the girl, we got chemistry, but I don't want her to feel like it's her. And I also don't want to open up to her and tell her the truth because I don't wanna feel weak. I don't owe her an explanation, we are not in a relationship, we're just cool. I don't like to pillow talk and open up to someone I'm just fucking. So I just told her I got a lot on my mind, which she isn't buying. But it's the truth. During our little sex session random things just was going through my head. Death, I lost three people I went to school with this month. I been thinking about one of my best friends, may God bless his soul. My life, thinking about my Ged, my future, my kids and where I want to be at in my life. Money, how imma have to do something illegal, something I don't want to do but have to, just because my cash flow is getting low. How can I explain all this to someone I'm just fucking? I can't and I won't. I tell her I got a lot on my mind and she thinks that I'm thinking about some other bitch. Like it's a lose lose situation. I don't want her to think that it's her, but I think that's the only solution. What do you think?

Was that a direct quote from her? She actually said that to you, just like that?

 

[smoothg103rd]

Was that a direct quote from her? She actually said that to you, just like that?

Yeah, plus the title too.

 

[toubab]

Yeah, plus the title too.

Well, she's right, isn't she?

 

[Que]

dicks don't do pills well.

She is not wrong about that. Depending on what they are they can definitely delay or prevent an orgasm.

I have found it takes a lot more to get me off as I age, and I am not in long-distance runner shape these days so sometimes I am perfectly fine with a nice time where I may not finish. I have yet to meet a woman that feels completely OK with that.

Doesn't seem to matter whether I warn them before that that is a possibility, explain during or after. They always seem to think it is them. Silly- when for me to even bother in the first place they are already every middle aged guy's wet dream if we still had those.

 

[smoothg103rd]

Well, she's right, isn't she?

Yeah she is right. But she thinks it is because of her, like it's because she doesn't turn me on no more. But in reality it's because of me. I just got a lot on my mind. I didn't even wanna fuck her, she cooked and invited me over. I accepted, just to get out of the house. I just don't want her to think it's her. That, it's not you it's me, line is kinda played out.

 

[toubab]

Yeah she is right. But she thinks it is because of her, like it's because she doesn't turn me on no more. But in reality it's because of me. I just got a lot on my mind. I didn't even wanna fuck her, she cooked and invited me over. I accepted, just to get out of the house. I just don't want her to think it's her. That, it's not you it's me, line is kinda played out.

It sounds to me like she doesn't turn you on any more.

 

[neci]

What do pills got to do with this?

they will keep you from preforming every time. you are taking downer, feel no pain pills, so your dick also no longer feels. the booze or juice as you call it is also a depressant, which depresses the cock. on top of your other issues, the depressants and "feel no pain" pills are killing your cock and your fuck. you could go fuck some other chick right now, and she'll just write you off as a lousy fuck. this girl knows you had it and lost it.

She is not wrong about that. Depending on what they are they can definitely delay or prevent an orgasm.

I have found it takes a lot more to get me off as I age, and I am not in long-distance runner shape these days so sometimes I am perfectly fine with a nice time where I may not finish. I have yet to meet a woman that feels completely OK with that.

Doesn't seem to matter whether I warn them before that that is a possibility, explain during or after. They always seem to think it is them. Silly- when for me to even bother in the first place they are already every middle aged guy's wet dream if we still had those.

i'm not wrong.

 

[smoothg103rd]

She is not wrong about that. Depending on what they are they can definitely delay or prevent an orgasm.

I have found it takes a lot more to get me off as I age, and I am not in long-distance runner shape these days so sometimes I am perfectly fine with a nice time where I may not finish. I have yet to meet a woman that feels completely OK with that.

Doesn't seem to matter whether I warn them before that that is a possibility, explain during or after. They always seem to think it is them. Silly- when for me to even bother in the first place they are already every middle aged guy's wet dream if we still had those.

It's not the pills. The pills I take do delay a orgasm, but she knows that. I'm 22, I'm kinda in shape, I'll fuck until I get mines. Today just wasn't meant.

 

[Que]

Yeah she is right. But she thinks it is because of her, like it's because she doesn't turn me on no more. But in reality it's because of me. I just got a lot on my mind. I didn't even wanna fuck her, she cooked and invited me over. I accepted, just to get out of the house. I just don't want her to think it's her. That, it's not you it's me, line is kinda played out.

There isn't a lot you can say. A little bit of mystery isn't a bad thing, you can say with sincerity, 'I have things on my mind that I cannot talk about."

It is also true that, "I wouldn't be here if I did not want to be."

Your mileage may vary with this one: "I love your enthusiasm, I enjoyed getting you off, and I will probably smile about that later when some of the stress is off me."

 

[neci]

It's not the pills. The pills I take do delay a orgasm, but she knows that. I'm 22, I'm kinda in shape, I'll fuck until I get mines. Today just wasn't meant.

the pills always say it's not the pills. that's what they do. you have a 22 year old limp dick. eliminate the pills and report back. quit blaming the woman for your own faults.

 

[smoothg103rd]

It sounds to me like she doesn't turn you on any more.

I hope that's not the case, imma just chalk it up to a lot on my mind.

 

[smoothg103rd]

they will keep you from preforming every time. you are taking downer, feel no pain pills, so your dick also no longer feels. the booze or juice as you call it is also a depressant, which depresses the cock. on top of your other issues, the depressants and "feel no pain" pills are killing your cock and your fuck. you could go fuck some other chick right now, and she'll just write you off as a lousy fuck. this girl knows you had it and lost it.


i'm not wrong.

No woman I ever fucked or fuck will write me off as a lousy fuck. This one time when it could be written, she still came multiple times.

 

[smoothg103rd]

the pills always say it's not the pills. that's what they do. you have a 22 year old limp dick. eliminate the pills and report back. quit blaming the woman for your own faults.

I don't have a limp dick. And I'm not blaming her. Where did you get that from? I never blamed her.

 

[Emerson40]

What do pills got to do with this?

Nothing brah.

You should double the dose, drop ya dick twice as long.


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[toubab]

I hope that's not the case, imma just chalk it up to a lot on my mind.

You said you just went over there to get out of the house, and you didn't want to fuck her. It's obvious to me you felt obligated to fuck her, and I'm sure it's obvious to her as well, at this point. I hate obligatory fucks. They aren't good for anybody, the way I see things.

 

[Que]

No woman I ever fucked or fuck will write me off as a lousy fuck. This one time when it could be written, she still came multiple times.

No man knows the why of women or what makes them tick, but I do know that them getting off or not is not what makes them see it as a good lay. Counter-intuitive, I realize.

I mean, look at this conversation. She got off. She is not laying there with a smug satisfied look thinking, 'Fuck it, I got mine!" was she? No, her post coital concern is that you did not. That makes her feel not-sexy and that feeling overrode the post-coital glow.

I know you are just FWBs by agreement with her, but she clearly cares about pleasing you and being the sexiest you have, and you also care about her feelings or you would not be asking.

 

[smoothg103rd]

There isn't a lot you can say. A little bit of mystery isn't a bad thing, you can say with sincerity, 'I have things on my mind that I cannot talk about."

It is also true that, "I wouldn't be here if I did not want to be."

Your mileage may vary with this one: "I love your enthusiasm, I enjoyed getting you off, and I will probably smile about that later when some of the stress is off me."

It's not that simple with her. She is feisty and crazy. She is the type that you got to fuck her brains out, then get up and leave. Because if you stay she will find a reason to start a fight. Everything you say to other balls down to that other bitch. I can say something like " I got to go pick up my kids". She will say "What you got to go get that other bitch?"

 

[smoothg103rd]

Nothing brah.

You should double the dose, drop ya dick twice as long.


http://41.media.tumblr.com/f7e09bb928e1b75dd72ecb5feb3942bd/tumblr_nln00iH8ib1tje0lao1_500.jpg

This made me laugh.

 

[Noor]

Looks she has to know about the deaths, so tell her that. If she is one of your baby momma's also tell her your mind is on the future, you can spin it positively.

I am reminded of what an older mom type person said to me when Clinton was discovered to be getting blow jobs under his desk while on the phone working.

She was disgusted because his mind wasn't giving full attention to either.

That is what you are doing, so be better than Clinton, choose one and give it your all.

 

[smoothg103rd]

You said you just went over there to get out of the house, and you didn't want to fuck her. It's obvious to me you felt obligated to fuck her, and I'm sure it's obvious to her as well, at this point. I hate obligatory fucks. They aren't good for anybody, the way I see things.

True.