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...And at the end of it [self-appraisal] he knew, and with the knowledge came the definite sense of new direction toward which he had long been groping, that the dark ancestral cae, the womb from which mankind emerged into the light, forever pulls one back--but that you can't go home again.... -Thomas C. Wolfe in "Look Forward, Angel"
my other homes have miserable memories best avoided. this place is my favourite. here and now.
My folks still live in the house I grew up in. I see it a few time a year. I'd never live there again. My ex-wife still lives in the house we bought, so I see it sometimes too. It was a good place, with a lot of charm, but she doesn't take great care of it.
I love the house Bluey and I have now. The layout is nice, we chose great colors, and it feels good here.
I miss a few places. A big California Territorial on a hilltop above the Russian River; an old farmhouse on the Mendocino coast; casitas in Santa Fe, New Mexico and San Cristobal de Las Casas, Chiapas, southernmost Mexico. I miss none of the suburban L.A. dreck I "grew up" in. I'll have a fond remembrance of our current mountain-village modular when we move away in a couple years, but I'll be glad to be gone.
This thread prompted me to play a memory game: write down all my previous addresses. Impossible, of course -- I lived on the road for a few years and can't account for all the layovers. And what does "lived there" mean? How long -- one month? More? Less? I can remember most of the places that received mail. Hmmm, just thought of some more. [/me scribbles notes]
I "lived" in a hovel of a motel for a week. I only went there because a girl was staying there. I was there for the day, spent a week. It was so bad that I went to the dollar store and bought new sheets. Somehow, the whole thing including helping the evicted maintenance guy move and a premise call to the room by law enforcement made the place "mine" for that week. I don't think it is the duration, but the intensity of "living" someplace.
If intensity is the benchmark, I can throw in places in Panajachel and Antigua, Guatemala; Taxco, Guerrero and Xalapa, Veracruz, Mexico; Cooper Square, NYC; and the Sellwood, Portland OR. And I can't forget the historic adobe in Bisbee AZ we had for a decade. Too bad we couldn't keep it.
My most intense and brief? Probably a Tenderloin room in San Francisco, with lots of drug-and-booze-fueled sexual tension, potential murders, etc. Hey, that could be another thread here: what are the WORST places you've lived?