Just looking for a few tips

[Massacre]

Latley me and my gf have hit a road block in our sex lives. Sex has become the same thing everytime. We talked about ways to add some fire back into it but I have a problem. A few months ago we tryed playing a dom/sub scene but she really wasnt into it. I have been the dom in past relationships and really enjoyed it. My problem now is she wants to be the dom. As in tieing me up and spanking me. Anyone have any tips on how to give up the control to her?

 

[jackofthedawn]

Why is this a roadblock? Is it a trust issue?

 

[Massacre]

Its a road block in the way that were stuck sexually. As far as the trust goes that isnt a problem. I trust her but i dont know how to just let go of control.

 

[ArthurW]

She is helping not hurting. Make sure you both can be Dom. It will help. You want to be the Dom always in a real relationship its a give and take. Welcome to the real world.

 

[Massacre]

She is helping not hurting. Make sure you both can be Dom. It will help. You want to be the Dom always in a real relationship its a give and take. Welcome to the real world.

In our daily lives i would say it is a good balance of give and take.

 

[ArthurW]

Yes but that includes your sex life too. But in your statement you do not want that. Would love to hear her view on this.

 

[Primalex]

Latley me and my gf have hit a road block in our sex lives. Sex has become the same thing everytime.

Have less sex.