Does a cuck sucking cock make you gay?

[bull4cuckolds]

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[KINKYCanada]

i believe that in the privacy and secrecy of the bedroom, when a cuck performs oral on the Bull while his wife watches, it has nothing at all to do with his sexuality. It is all about playing out his cuckold role, submission, respect, humiliation, entertaining the wife, and keeping the Bull hard so he can fuck her again and again. It has nothing to do with gay/bi.

My opinion is that it would make you more bisexual. Not gay! Sexuality is one giant grey area to me! Also my opinion!

KC

 

[Mr. Briggs]

My opinion is that it would make you more bisexual. Not gay! Sexuality is one giant grey area to me! Also my opinion!

KC

I agree.

I hate those hard lines and labels anyhow. Probably because I wouldn't want to be labelled any of them.

I think the primary thing is what gender do you naturally love and search out in a relationship way? Personally I've always only ever checked out girls. Love them. Without fail sexy chick always gets me to look. That said I've never ever checked out a guy. Not even once. However when i get online and I'm in the privacy of my own office I get turned on by more than just girls. The sexual aspect of a big cock turns me on. Does that deserve a label? I don't know.

 

[LincolnDuncan]

i believe that in the privacy and secrecy of the bedroom, when a cuck performs oral on the Bull while his wife watches, it has nothing at all to do with his sexuality. It is all about playing out his cuckold role, submission, respect, humiliation, entertaining the wife, and keeping the Bull hard so he can fuck her again and again. It has nothing to do with gay/bi.

In this case, I think it depends on whether or not he receives sexual excitement from sucking cock. I have met all sorts of guys online. Some, like me are only aroused by sucking and frottage. No kissing cuddling or anal. The opposite extreme also obviously exists. I don't feel like a gay man but considering my desire to suck cock, I would never deny the label bi.

 

[bull4cuckolds]

Thank everyone so far who has weighed in, and all with valid, thought-provoking points. I think what may be important for many cucks to focus on, is that what happens in the privacy of the bedroom during cuckoldry, is only situational. It doesn't affect who or what they are in the public light of day. And it is only a situational thing, performed when their wife is there watching, encouraging, or helping.

I think it is psychologically important for a "normal" straight male to need to mentally excuse away his cuckold behavior as being something other than the "negative" label of gay/bi. And please don't think I'm bashing gay/bi's.....not at all. That's why I put things in quotes; this is a mental aspect for some cucks, whether or not it is politically correct or such. It is just an honest, pure emotion they may have, and I'm trying to better understand their need to re-classify or justify their otherwise non-straight behavior, when it is strictly limited and regulated within a cuckold framework.

So please.....no angry posts or letters, lol.

 

[none2_none2]

I would think the first logical question one should ask is: Who cares?

I suppose that if you are taking a lie detector test and they ask you if you are straight, there might be a problem. However, if you are not planning on leaving your wife/girlfriend, etc., then again what does it matter as long as you assure her you are not leaving her? If you are religious (for example Catholic), do you think telling your priest you suck cock for the love of your wife and not the love of the man or his penis makes a rats ass of difference to him?

That aside, if you must come up with labels for yourself, the next important question is: Don't you need to define "gay" before asking whether this particular thing defines you as "gay"? (In fact the answer to your question may fall out for you by how you define "gay".)

If you want to define "gay" similarly as they did in the old days with blacks in regards to race where one drop of African blood meant you were black, then by that definition a guy sucking cock is not 100% straight and therefore would fall into the gay category simply because the behavior isn't 100% straight. I say it is not 100% straight as the only way I can see a 100% straight guy sucking cock voluntarily is if a male he cares about (non-sexually/non-romantically) got bit by a spider/snake/etc and they were desperate to get the venom out before damaging the penis, then I would say that doesn't constitute a change in any sexuality label that the individual rendering the service had before the act. Now some gay porn male actors claim to do it only for the money; In my own opinion I would think at best they are bi.

I tend to agree with Mr. Briggs that sexuality is about love/romance -- not body parts. Besides, how many of us actually fit labels to a "t" anyway? What about a guy who craves all sex involving another guy -- like maybe a guy who would love to live full time in a bath house or an adult bookstore, but has no desire for any romantic flings with a guy (or for that matter a girl)? What about men who resent women yet love to fuck them; but have absolutely no desire to be tied romantically to one?

In my particular case, I love to sexually be inside the kind of guys who turn me on. I'm really not attracted to penises; but with my romantic interests, penises cum with the territory. I would be perfectly happy if men came with vaginas & wombs. Does that make me straight? I don't think so. Thus even for me, labels really don't do much...


The only purpose I see for labels is to make short cuts in the responsibility to get to know someone for who they really are. Yes they do serve their purpose. I'm physically and romantically attracted to masculine, hairy, muscular, adult, Caucasian bottoms. So I can save myself and others from wasted energy and time if I know those labels before considering a relationship. (Luckily, I've been off the market for almost 13 years .) However, for friendships it is best to get to know the person and punt the shortcut labels.

Keep in mind too that social norms and thus the labels associated with norms are influenced by the times and the culture they are part of. For instance, in the Philippines, it is very common for male best friends to hold hands or go arm and arm after work. To do the same with a woman might give her a really slutty reputation. Yet if you tried to call such guys "gay" (or use the term "billy boy"), they would get angry. Some cultures you also notice that it isn't unheard of for two guys to kiss (the non-tongue type of kiss). Again, they are not going to get it on..

Time wise, in my day most guys would not groom for minutes on end nor would guys cross their legs unless to make a table top kind of cross. For the last couple or so decades I have seen plenty of young men doing those behaviors. The first thing that comes to mind is that they must be gay. It isn't necessarily true.

Nevertheless, you have to live your life as you see fit. I simply wouldn't waste my mental energy on what label you need to wear for yourself. Life is a lot less constricting when you go without labels -- much the same as with clothes.

Quite frankly, if someone dislikes you because they found out you suck cock in the privacy of your bedroom, is telling them you aren't really gay going to make a difference? If it does make a difference, then what kind of person are they?

 

[bull4cuckolds]

I would think the first logical question one should ask is: Who cares?

I suppose that if you are taking a lie detector test and they ask you if you are straight, there might be a problem. However, if you are not planning on leaving your wife/girlfriend, etc., then again what does it matter as long as you assure her you are not leaving her? If you are religious (for example Catholic), do you think telling your priest you suck cock for the love of your wife and not the love of the man or his penis makes a rats ass of difference to him?

That aside, if you must come up with labels for yourself, the next important question is: Don't you need to define "gay" before asking whether this particular thing defines you as "gay"? (In fact the answer to your question may fall out for you by how you define "gay".)

If you want to define "gay" similarly as they did in the old days with blacks in regards to race where one drop of African blood meant you were black, then by that definition a guy sucking cock is not 100% straight and therefore would fall into the gay category simply because the behavior isn't 100% straight. I say it is not 100% straight as the only way I can see a 100% straight guy sucking cock voluntarily is if a male he cares about (non-sexually/non-romantically) got bit by a spider/snake/etc and they were desperate to get the venom out before damaging the penis, then I would say that doesn't constitute a change in any sexuality label that the individual rendering the service had before the act. Now some gay porn male actors claim to do it only for the money; In my own opinion I would think at best they are bi.

I tend to agree with Mr. Briggs that sexuality is about love/romance -- not body parts. Besides, how many of us actually fit labels to a "t" anyway? What about a guy who craves all sex involving another guy -- like maybe a guy who would love to live full time in a bath house or an adult bookstore, but has no desire for any romantic flings with a guy (or for that matter a girl)? What about men who resent women yet love to fuck them; but have absolutely no desire to be tied romantically to one?

In my particular case, I love to sexually be inside the kind of guys who turn me on. I'm really not attracted to penises; but with my romantic interests, penises cum with the territory. I would be perfectly happy if men came with vaginas & wombs. Does that make me straight? I don't think so. Thus even for me, labels really don't do much...


The only purpose I see for labels is to make short cuts in the responsibility to get to know someone for who they really are. Yes they do serve their purpose. I'm physically and romantically attracted to masculine, hairy, muscular, adult, Caucasian bottoms. So I can save myself and others from wasted energy and time if I know those labels before considering a relationship. (Luckily, I've been off the market for almost 13 years .) However, for friendships it is best to get to know the person and punt the shortcut labels.

Keep in mind too that social norms and thus the labels associated with norms are influenced by the times and the culture they are part of. For instance, in the Philippines, it is very common for male best friends to hold hands or go arm and arm after work. To do the same with a woman might give her a really slutty reputation. Yet if you tried to call such guys "gay" (or use the term "billy boy"), they would get angry. Some cultures you also notice that it isn't unheard of for two guys to kiss (the non-tongue type of kiss). Again, they are not going to get it on..

Time wise, in my day most guys would not groom for minutes on end nor would guys cross their legs unless to make a table top kind of cross. For the last couple or so decades I have seen plenty of young men doing those behaviors. The first thing that comes to mind is that they must be gay. It isn't necessarily true.

Nevertheless, you have to live your life as you see fit. I simply wouldn't waste my mental energy on what label you need to wear for yourself. Life is a lot less constricting when you go without labels -- much the same as with clothes.

Quite frankly, if someone dislikes you because they found out you suck cock in the privacy of your bedroom, is telling them you aren't really gay going to make a difference? If it does make a difference, then what kind of person are they?

What I may have not made clear in my comments is, this isn't so much an issue for the cuck in his public life - it is more his personal battle as he internalizes things inside his brain. It is about his ability to rationalize things, and not see himself in a light that he considers is negative. For those who don't struggle with these issues and are more open or just don't care, it might be difficult to understand the struggle some cucks go through mentally. I'm just trying to be able to better understand and assist the ones who have a mental hurdle with this issue.

 

[DesEsseintes]

It doesn't necessarily make the cuck gay or bi, no, if he is being 'forced' to do it within the situation. But it sure as hell makes you gay or bi.

There is a sexually available woman in the room. But you turn instead to a man to make you hard. And remember, in this situation, you are in control, unlike him. It is your choice to fuck his mouth, and not hers.

I don't have a problem with gay or bi people - why on earth would I? But self-delusion is worth calling out.

 

[t1m1d1]

Don't give a flying! Love sucking cock or eating pussy, love doing as I'm told and trying to please my partner (s)

 

[dualpath]

The only thing that matters is if it makes you happy.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

It doesn't necessarily make the cuck gay or bi, no, if he is being 'forced' to do it within the situation. But it sure as hell makes you gay or bi.

There is a sexually available woman in the room. But you turn instead to a man to make you hard. And remember, in this situation, you are in control, unlike him. It is your choice to fuck his mouth, and not hers.

I don't have a problem with gay or bi people - why on earth would I? But self-delusion is worth calling out.

Good comment

 

[artgorden]

No. But being gay will make you suck a cock.

 

[rbone04]

It doesn't necessarily make the cuck gay or bi, no, if he is being 'forced' to do it within the situation. But it sure as hell makes you gay or bi.

There is a sexually available woman in the room. But you turn instead to a man to make you hard. And remember, in this situation, you are in control, unlike him. It is your choice to fuck his mouth, and not hers.

I don't have a problem with gay or bi people - why on earth would I? But self-delusion is worth calling out.

This.

 

[oralgami]

When I was in my mid-forties, i developed an interest in exchanging oral with other guys. I resisted this interest but in time I accepted it enough to act on this interest and met up with another guy for a mutual encounter. It was important to me that the experience be on an equal basis in order to assuage my concerns that I might be gay. I decided that I was bi and I accepted that. However, after a few experiences it was obvious to me that I was not attracted to men even though I enjoyed hooking up with guys. I came to the conclusion that I enjoyed the thrill of doing a taboo act and giving sexual pleasure to my partners. I initially got over the thrill of hooking up and started surprising guys by letting them finish in my mouth - which gave them an unexpected thrill.

I could accept any label you wanted to put on me. However, despite having no attraction to men, I got a huge thrill the other night with a strange man. I wanted to suck and he wanted to supply the organ to be serviced. We met at a neutral location, agreed to proceed and I got in his car. We arrived at a safe place, he turned the car off aff first and then the lights. Without discussion, he quickly unbuckled his belt, unbuttoned the waist and unzipped so that he could push his pants down to his knees. He was know fully exposed but motioned me to hold off. He reclined his seat and was now prepared to accept my services. I immediately leaned over and buried my face into his pubs and began to suck him to erection. He expressed his appreciation of my efforts by moaning, thrusting and grinding. I woorked him as long as I could but when I reached the point where needed a break, Ipulled away and replaced my mouth with my hand. As I stroked his shaft, all slippery with his precum and my salivia, he whispered that he was going to cum. I returned him to my mouth and resumed working on him with enthusiasm until his body stopped squirming and froze in place. A second later, he moaned and began to ejaculate . As the taste of a new variety of semen filled my mouth, I stayed on him until he finished. I then withdrew and sat up. I swallowed and he pulled his pants back up quickly. "That was intense" I offered. He e.sponded "yeah, I enjoyed that. Wasn't expecting the end though". "Most guys don't. That's why I like swallowing", I responded. "It's an acquired taste", he replied. "And I'll still be acquiring yours for a while". He pulled his pants back up, zipped and rebuckled before restarting the car. I buckled my seat belt as he backed away from the site of our adventure until he was back on the road. We drove in silence until I commented I'd do that again if you were interested." "I'd let you" he replied. We were soon back at my car and we shook hands before I got out. "Send me an email anytime." I said as I got out. "I will" he responded as he backed away.

 

[Somehowyou]

When I was in my mid-forties, i developed an interest in exchanging oral with other guys. I resisted this interest but in time I accepted it enough to act on this interest and met up with another guy for a mutual encounter. It was important to me that the experience be on an equal basis in order to assuage my concerns that I might be gay. I decided that I was bi and I accepted that. However, after a few experiences it was obvious to me that I was not attracted to men even though I enjoyed hooking up with guys. I came to the conclusion that I enjoyed the thrill of doing a taboo act and giving sexual pleasure to my partners. I initially got over the thrill of hooking up and started surprising guys by letting them finish in my mouth - which gave them an unexpected thrill

What is the old saying? You suck one cock and your a cock sucker but if you drive one truck your not a truck driver?

Why do we do this to ourselves? Why get caught up in the label?

I like to be with a TS/TV once a year. I am attracted to them mostly for the same reason I am attracted to girls. Their feminine facial features including their Hair, lips, sexy make-up and eye shadow/lip pencil. I like their legs ass, tits, abs, lower back. I like the sexy clothing and lingerie they wear just like girls. In fact they seem more inclined to dress ultra feminine and take care of ever accessory. A TS told me that because they were not born female they try harder and they like to dress in all the accessories of a women.

I love all this and yes I do enjoy their cocks both sucking and twice I liked being fucked (mostly it's just painful).

Once I had a great experience with a TS escort in Chicago. She was the best I had ever seen ( encounters with TS Escorts is hit or miss). Anyway, I asked the cab driver to take me to a gay bar. I sat there all night having a few drinks and checking out the crowd. I wanted to test myself. I wasn't attracted to any other guys. Finally a young genetic female ventured out to the dance floor. I couldn't take my eyes off her. After about an hour I followed her around and I approached her and we started talking. I told her that I couldn't help but notice how cute she is etc. etc. We spoke for awhile and she said "but your gay." I said apparently not.

I am just not attracted to men but I do like a fem TS/TV. Am I gay? Probably not. I am just kinky as all hell and I like a taboo thrill once in awhile.

 

[Somehowyou]

I wish I were gay. I would save a ton of money in escorts. LOL.

 

[rbone04]

I wish I were gay. I would save a ton of money in escorts. LOL.

Hate to break it to you, but it's not like all gay guys are DTF 24/7 with any other gay guy out there... Not to disparage you for buying escorts (because I would be a hypocrite) but the process for gay men finding and fucking each other isn't all that different from straight people finding and fucking each other for free. Sounds like I'm preaching, but I'm not... I'm saying you'd still be blowing money on hookers if you were gay

 

[Blue2u20]

Cock sucking

I'm looking for my first bi experience in michigan. Don't consider myself bi. Live hot chicks but can't stop fantasizing about it. Love to try a hard cock in my mouth and from behind. I am beginning to believe this is more common in 40 something men than ppl think. Any thoughts

 

[Jazzylatinmom]

No i think it just makes him a good obediant cuck!

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

I answered yes tonight because I am in the mood to say he sucks cock because he wants to That is the whole point of letting his wife fuck around.

 

[shelbakk]

Gay or not gay

Initially I thought gay all the way, but after reading the initial thread about its just keeping the bull hard to please the wife sounds plausible. However, I think the cuck would have to lean toward gay / bi tendencies as some cuckholds want to be fucked as well

 

[J1biboi]

I'm looking for my first bi experience in michigan. Don't consider myself bi. Live hot chicks but can't stop fantasizing about it. Love to try a hard cock in my mouth and from behind. I am beginning to believe this is more common in 40 something men than ppl think. Any thoughts

I think it is probably more common in men of all ages than most would admit to. But I believe that the older men get the more they lean toward same sex encounters. In my personal experience, though I have always had the desire to suck cock, it has gotten stronger in my later years.

 

[soohay]

Agreed........

 

[sker37]

I would think the first logical question one should ask is: Who cares?

I suppose that if you are taking a lie detector test and they ask you if you are straight, there might be a problem. However, if you are not planning on leaving your wife/girlfriend, etc., then again what does it matter as long as you assure her you are not leaving her? If you are religious (for example Catholic), do you think telling your priest you suck cock for the love of your wife and not the love of the man or his penis makes a rats ass of difference to him?

That aside, if you must come up with labels for yourself, the next important question is: Don't you need to define "gay" before asking whether this particular thing defines you as "gay"? (In fact the answer to your question may fall out for you by how you define "gay".)

If you want to define "gay" similarly as they did in the old days with blacks in regards to race where one drop of African blood meant you were black, then by that definition a guy sucking cock is not 100% straight and therefore would fall into the gay category simply because the behavior isn't 100% straight. I say it is not 100% straight as the only way I can see a 100% straight guy sucking cock voluntarily is if a male he cares about (non-sexually/non-romantically) got bit by a spider/snake/etc and they were desperate to get the venom out before damaging the penis, then I would say that doesn't constitute a change in any sexuality label that the individual rendering the service had before the act. Now some gay porn male actors claim to do it only for the money; In my own opinion I would think at best they are bi.

I tend to agree with Mr. Briggs that sexuality is about love/romance -- not body parts. Besides, how many of us actually fit labels to a "t" anyway? What about a guy who craves all sex involving another guy -- like maybe a guy who would love to live full time in a bath house or an adult bookstore, but has no desire for any romantic flings with a guy (or for that matter a girl)? What about men who resent women yet love to fuck them; but have absolutely no desire to be tied romantically to one?

In my particular case, I love to sexually be inside the kind of guys who turn me on. I'm really not attracted to penises; but with my romantic interests, penises cum with the territory. I would be perfectly happy if men came with vaginas & wombs. Does that make me straight? I don't think so. Thus even for me, labels really don't do much...


The only purpose I see for labels is to make short cuts in the responsibility to get to know someone for who they really are. Yes they do serve their purpose. I'm physically and romantically attracted to masculine, hairy, muscular, adult, Caucasian bottoms. So I can save myself and others from wasted energy and time if I know those labels before considering a relationship. (Luckily, I've been off the market for almost 13 years .) However, for friendships it is best to get to know the person and punt the shortcut labels.

Keep in mind too that social norms and thus the labels associated with norms are influenced by the times and the culture they are part of. For instance, in the Philippines, it is very common for male best friends to hold hands or go arm and arm after work. To do the same with a woman might give her a really slutty reputation. Yet if you tried to call such guys "gay" (or use the term "billy boy"), they would get angry. Some cultures you also notice that it isn't unheard of for two guys to kiss (the non-tongue type of kiss). Again, they are not going to get it on..

Time wise, in my day most guys would not groom for minutes on end nor would guys cross their legs unless to make a table top kind of cross. For the last couple or so decades I have seen plenty of young men doing those behaviors. The first thing that comes to mind is that they must be gay. It isn't necessarily true.

Nevertheless, you have to live your life as you see fit. I simply wouldn't waste my mental energy on what label you need to wear for yourself. Life is a lot less constricting when you go without labels -- much the same as with clothes.

Quite frankly, if someone dislikes you because they found out you suck cock in the privacy of your bedroom, is telling them you aren't really gay going to make a difference? If it does make a difference, then what kind of person are they?

I agree, who cares? To me it is simply having sex. If a hard cock in your mouth turns you on no matter if you are a guy or a girl, so be it!

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I think

it means you like sex. A lot.