22F - Curious, Seeking, & Open-minded. Assholes need not apply.

[WhiteBlankPage]

I've likely made my last post on this thread because I see no reason to keep bumping it and I'd appreciate if you'd do the same. I think I've already found what I was looking for

Like my bio says, I'm pretty new to all this but I've lurked a while and wanted to finally join. I'm submissive and initially shy but I can be pretty opinionated. I love learning and trying new things.

I'm a 22 year old student, average height, average build, brown hair, brown eyes. Nothing spectacular but I'm not lacking self-esteem so don't jump to that conclusion. If you're getting ready to PM me asking for a photo, don't bother. I may start an Am Pics thread but personal photos are going to be reserved for whoever gains my trust.

So right now, NO photos, NO videos, NO camming, and I'd rather just message on here to start. If you have a problem with that, stop reading.

Now that I've lost a few assholes, anyone still reading should know I'm not looking for the generic, tough guy, do-what-I-say-because-I'm-a-dom Dom. I'll submit if you earn it by demonstrating you're intelligent, know what you're talking about, and worth it

Oh and I'm pretty open to new experiences so this is not exclusively for gentlemen.

Feel free to ask me below about anything you'd like to know about me!

 

[wantstoperve]

pm'd

 

[whoamitoday42]

Welcome...

 

[snoopydaddy59]

(I wanted to post this here instead of just the sub-forum:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1155167)

Like my bio says, I'm pretty new to all this but I've lurked a while and wanted to finally join. I'm submissive and initially shy but I can be pretty opinionated. I love learning and trying new things.

I'm a 22 year old student, average height, average build, brown hair, brown eyes. Nothing spectacular but I'm not lacking self-esteem so don't jump to that conclusion. If you're getting ready to PM me asking for a photo, don't bother. I may start an Am Pics thread but personal photos are going to be reserved for whoever gains my trust.

So right now, NO photos, NO videos, NO camming, and I'd rather just message on here to start. If you have a problem with that, stop reading.

Now that I've lost a few assholes, anyone still reading should know I'm not looking for the generic, tough guy, do-what-I-say-because-I'm-a-dom Dom. I'll submit if you earn it by demonstrating you're intelligent, know what you're talking about, and worth it

Oh and I'm pretty open to new experiences so this is not exclusively for gentlemen.

Feel free to ask me below about anything you'd like to know about me!

Welcome WBP, glad to see you've gone public! there is lots of info posted for all to read at the top of the BDSM Talk forum, and library with great info listed there. You are on the right track, related to gaining the trust factor first. There has to be trust and lots of communication between D/s in order to gain that trust as well as establish boundaries that need to be there! Best of luck and again, welcome!

 

[JudasIscariot]

How come when someone says 'I just want to talk here to begin with' automatically they get bombarded with pm's?

I can only assume either: A) they can't read, B) they can't read or C) they can't read.

 

[thehuey]

Good morning WBP. My name is Huey, I gained this name while I served in the Marine Corps. I'm 29 years old and looking to expand my fantasies. I've always fantasized about having a sub. I've read many articles, blogs and an e book on living a relationship as a dom/sub. I've been searching for someone online to share my kinks with and to grow with me sexually for some time now. I'm looking for something purely online at first but who knows where a relationship can go.

I would like to get to know you more and see where we head from there. I'm glad I've chosen to come search Lit this cold morning, I haven't been on here in ages.

 

[upforfunNJ]

hello

Welcome to Lit.

What better way to learn than from an older/experienced man?

Would love to chat some and get to know you better.

 

[xanderra]

I wish you lots of luck in your search the ones willing to wait before settling down are the ones worth keeping. Guy's can put up a nice act until you give them everything and turn out to be ass hats

 

[WhiteBlankPage]

pm'd

You and a bunch of other people haha. I'm a little overwhelmed so I'm sorry to anyone I skip.

Welcome...

Thanks!

Welcome WBP, glad to see you've gone public! there is lots of info posted for all to read at the top of the BDSM Talk forum, and library with great info listed there. You are on the right track, related to gaining the trust factor first. There has to be trust and lots of communication between D/s in order to gain that trust as well as establish boundaries that need to be there! Best of luck and again, welcome!

Thanks for the tips!

How come when someone says 'I just want to talk here to begin with' automatically they get bombarded with pm's?

I can only assume either: A) they can't read, B) they can't read or C) they can't read.

"Bombarded with PM's" is an understatement.

Good morning WBP. My name is Huey, I gained this name while I served in the Marine Corps. I'm 29 years old and looking to expand my fantasies. I've always fantasized about having a sub. I've read many articles, blogs and an e book on living a relationship as a dom/sub. I've been searching for someone online to share my kinks with and to grow with me sexually for some time now. I'm looking for something purely online at first but who knows where a relationship can go.

I would like to get to know you more and see where we head from there. I'm glad I've chosen to come search Lit this cold morning, I haven't been on here in ages.

That's cool. I'm only looking for online at this time too. I might wade through all the PM's eventually. Haha

Welcome to Lit.

What better way to learn than from an older/experienced man?

Would love to chat some and get to know you better.

Thanks! I do like people with experience...

I wish you lots of luck in your search the ones willing to wait before settling down are the ones worth keeping. Guy's can put up a nice act until you give them everything and turn out to be ass hats

Thanks and I agree.

Nice to see a woman who knows what she wants. Probably a little to old for you Dear
But have fun with your search.

Well thank you very much And see my FAQ's about that age comment...

 

[aace714]

Nice to see a woman who knows what she wants. Probably a little to old for you Dear
But have fun with your search.

 

[WhiteBlankPage]

FAQs

Instead of answering the same questions a million times via PM, here are some answers to FAQs:

* [To anyone who doesn't use decent grammar]: No, just no.
* No I'm not a virgin.
* No I don't have any BDSM experience, but I'll try just about anything once.
* You're only too old if you act like a creepy old man. Age is just a number (but I'm not into the "Daddy" thing).
* I do like older guys though, but mostly because I'm pretty mature for my age and guys my age haven't caught up yet.
* Yes it's a Mumford & Sons reference.
* No I don't want to talk on Yahoo yet.
* No I don't want to see your dick.

 

[WhiteBlankPage]

That's hysterical. You probably should have led off with this in your initial post.

I have one that's not in your FAQs: What are you studying?

Well I didn't have questions when I made my initial post. The post is what prompted the questions haha.

And I'm going to keep that to myself, but it's science-y/math-y. That's all you need to know. Nerdy

 

[wildchild24143]

Just figured I'd say hi and see how your time is going here

 

[WhiteBlankPage]

That's where a confluence of experience and cynicism comes in: You anticipate those types of questions, such as "Wanna c ma dick?"

Well those aren't getting answered haha

Just figured I'd say hi and see how your time is going here

Well hello there. My time is being spent responding to PMs... or opening and then closing PMs mostly. Actual questions would be lovely.

 

[WhiteBlankPage]

The results of the poll so far are actually pretty interesting. A little more evenly distributed than I thought. Age is just a number though

 

[mrk829]

glad to read that you are not a lurker anymore and hope you find what you are looking for. I am not going to pm you since you already seem overwhelmed. Happy to chat if you are interested (I am in the 28-35 yr range)

 

[Prince Albert]

Like my bio says, I'm pretty new to all this but I've lurked a while and wanted to finally join. I'm submissive and initially shy but I can be pretty opinionated. I love learning and trying new things.

I'm a 22 year old student, average height, average build, brown hair, brown eyes. Nothing spectacular but I'm not lacking self-esteem so don't jump to that conclusion. If you're getting ready to PM me asking for a photo, don't bother. I may start an Am Pics thread but personal photos are going to be reserved for whoever gains my trust.

So right now, NO photos, NO videos, NO camming, and I'd rather just message on here to start. If you have a problem with that, stop reading.

Now that I've lost a few assholes, anyone still reading should know I'm not looking for the generic, tough guy, do-what-I-say-because-I'm-a-dom Dom. I'll submit if you earn it by demonstrating you're intelligent, know what you're talking about, and worth it

Oh and I'm pretty open to new experiences so this is not exclusively for gentlemen.

Feel free to ask me below about anything you'd like to know about me!

Welcome & good luck on your search. Have fun, but please be careful. If you want to chat/learn/talk/vent, please contact me.

 

[JudasIscariot]

I imagine the op is drowning amongst a sea of cock pictures round about now.

And you can bet that sea is salty.

 

[thehuey]

I'll start with some questions. What kind of pace are you looking for in regard to learning? Are you looking for a casual friendship that teaches things every once in a while? A daily conversational relationship? A domestic discipline type of relationship where you are equals and yet there is a head of household (for lack of a better term) where you both set goals and how to achieve them in life. Or something purely sexual? Do in other words, what do you want out of finding someone here? (Pardon any typos or grammar imperfections as I'm writing from my phone while at work please.)

 

[YAK411976]

Ha, what an incredible introduction, but I'm with Shaun on the whole people can't read thing. Welcome to lit by the way. Though I'm guessing you have figured the arsehole ratio is a teased on the high side.

 

[kucked2x]

chat

If you want to chat, let me know.

 

[DrRickMarshall]

I imagine the op is drowning amongst a sea of cock pictures round about now.

And you can bet that sea is salty.

chock full of sea men you're saying?

Sorry, I couldn't help it!

 

[MrJogger]

So I answered the poll; in the 28-35 category although it's only months until I move up into your next one so I briefly enjoyed thinking I'm not that old yet Even if I do have some grey around the sides despite not being in your top age category

Enough about me...Welcome to Lit! Have enjoyed your thread! Know what direction you want your career to take once you've finished your "nerdy" studies?

 

[Erochic]

Welcome to Lit. I hope you have a great experience here

I have to say I really like your ad, and especially the FAQs I do understand exactly where you are coming from.

There's lots of good information and helpful people around, so don't be afraid to ask questions or post on any thread

Oh and I'm not a guy so I didn't answer your poll

 

[YAK411976]

However I think and I hope I'm wrong here is that she will get a ton of private messages where her requests have been totally ignored. By the usual suspects (I'm out on a limb her but from lurking around her a bit I think one can figure out the creeps), or someone will write a couple of PMs and decide that things have progressed enough to send a cock pic. Shell so responding to people or go back to lurking.