Is it that hard to read someone's profile?

I guess I feel the need to post about this and please forgive me if there are other threads out there on this topic, I searched around and couldn't find one.
I have worked on my profile to get it to a place where I can share a little about me, what I like, what I don't like. I've deleted and added and updated many times, adding things that I think will give a little insight into me. I've worked on it for a reason. Here's my bitch, I don't like to be called ma'am ever, (I have my reasons) I know this is not typical of a mistress, but then again I am not a typical mistress. So I'd love to know how many people actually read profiles? I always do, just seems to one save me time in that I may find I'm not really that into that person and another is it can also totally have the opposite effect with being very interested. So why is it that I have it clearly stated to not call me ma'am and yet a few times a week I still get those messages addressing me as such?

Those of you that have no info on your profile please refrain from responding.

you posted this is the wrong place.
 
There is one rule to the GB, we cannot refrain from posting.

Esp when told not to.
 
it's not hard to read profiles here at all, but i just can't find the strength to give enough of a shit to bother doing it.
 
just cuz I am a dick

Biography:
I'm a happily married 44 year old switch. My husband is aware that I chat and at times is even involved. I do not care to be called ma'am. I'd appreciate it, if you refrained from doing so. I have many kinks and am not just interested in chatting with people to Domme them. I am very open minded and also bi-sexual. Curious about role play, would love to find a patient person to explore that with. Please don't PM me and ask me to control, Domme, give you directions or however you want to say it. It's just not how I operate. I'm not a ball busting mistress, I believe the way mistresses are portrayed is a false idea of what a mistress actually is. Although I think it's shady if you are attached and they don't know, I do understand why some make that choice and I'll leave the morality and conscious to you as my spouse is fully aware of what I'm doing. The other thing about "attached" people is the rather rude behavior that becomes acceptable in this median, still working out for myself if it's worth it. Just a few things I'm not particularly fond of, quickies-after a recent experience- I will never do it again. Repeatedly giving only one word answers or one sentence answers. Several minutes before I get the reply mmmmmm...really? Chatting with someone who is clearly not really paying much attention to me, if you don't have the time or your interest is elsewhere just don't bother answering me or sending me a message. I know I've expressed a lot of what I don't want so here's a bit about what I do want. Someone I can have a connection with. Someone intelligent, who can hold a conversation with. Respect and politeness go a long way in my book. Honesty, kind of a joke in this type of setting but at least you know I expect it. I want someone who can engage my mind. I'm sure I'm missing many things but that's a good start. I do voice chat (this is a must for me so if you don't, save your time and mine and please don't message me) and video chat with a special few, you just might make into that category, one just never knows. I've been known to send a pic or two and even had my own thread here, which I just might bring back. So with all of of that if you'd like to chat please PM me and let the fun begin:) I'm not sure how to make this any more clear, but apparently I need to as I've had a couple of contacts that clearly missed this so: IF YOU DON'T VOICE CHAT, DON'T WASTE MY TIME OR YOURS BY PM'ING ME. IT IS A MUST TO CHAT WITH ME!!!
Location:
Midwest, United States
Interests:
I love to ride my bike, swim, work out, read, write and my favorite pass time chatting.
Occupation:
Doing my best to enjoy each moment I given.
 
The mistake might have been in coming into somebody's house and telling them how to arrange the furniture.
 
You're actually getting good, if somewhat snarky, advice.

By posting a wall of text, you've discouraged people from reading your profile.

Shorten it.

And use paragraphs.

Don't make people work so hard to discover your dislike of ma'am, ma'am.
 
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