tiny_tits journal and random thoughts

[SCcouple1990]

When one of you has a 'lover', the other is okay with that? Joins in? Comes over to the house?

We both have to be ok with what is happening, and we are always together. Sex with another person is nice, but it can't get in the way of our relationship. Sometimes we join, other time just watch and join in after the action is over.

We have never had anyone at our house. For times outside of a club we have met the person for some food and drinks, then gone to a hotel for some fun.

I put "lover" earlier, but don't think that was the right word for me to use. I'm not sure the right word, partner, play date, fuck toy, etc. Lover is a pretty easy word to use thouogh. It's certainly not love we feel for them, just sex.

 

[albertaboy]

Post in Show Your Tits

I like your tits, they are pretty much perfectly proportioned to the rest of your body.

 

[BaconBot]

Post in Are you a cumslut?

What was it that made you change your mind from never ever to being seen by a stranger with cum on your face?

 

[WTB_1]

Post in Show Your Tits

Extremely seductive and enticing

 

[DallasDonna]

The benefits vs the drawbacks of having an older lover?
I would think the advantages would be like a 'teacher/student' one, and maybe a disadvantage would be ' what's a floppy disc?'

This one I think I can address.
I had a lover that was nearly the same age as my father. He was my friend's neighbor, was at several of the parties she threw, and they would get pretty wild. We hooked up at one, and started seeing each other on a semi-regular basis.

What really attracted me to him was his confidence. He was very sure of himself, but not in that cocky way that younger guys have. Plus the grey chest hairs really made me melt

He used Levitra to get and keep an erection, but that didn't bother me- in fact, we both would plan for it, and I would text him "take your little brown pill at 8pm" !

Yes, the age gap was a bit of a pain, like culture references, etc but that was minor.

It all ended due to something I thought was pretty stupid, but he thought of it as a deal breaker. But I do not for one minute regret it, and would do it again.

 

[tiny_tits]

This one I think I can address.
I had a lover that was nearly the same age as my father. He was my friend's neighbor, was at several of the parties she threw, and they would get pretty wild. We hooked up at one, and started seeing each other on a semi-regular basis.

What really attracted me to him was his confidence. He was very sure of himself, but not in that cocky way that younger guys have. Plus the grey chest hairs really made me melt

He used Levitra to get and keep an erection, but that didn't bother me- in fact, we both would plan for it, and I would text him "take your little brown pill at 8pm" !

Yes, the age gap was a bit of a pain, like culture references, etc but that was minor.

It all ended due to something I thought was pretty stupid, but he thought of it as a deal breaker. But I do not for one minute regret it, and would do it again.

I have a friend at work whose husband is 19 years older (28/47). They seem happy, but it always seems to me to be a 'daddy' issue. She even calls him that as a pet name. Whatever works for you, I guess.

 

[tiny_tits]

What was it that made you change your mind from never ever to being seen by a stranger with cum on your face?

Like I said in that post, he just let me have fun with it and kept the mood light and easy, and I eventually got to where it went from 'ewww, no' to 'just a bit' to 'okay, let's try that' etc.

I'm still dealing with some abuse issues from my late teen years, always will probably. But a loving, caring relationship is a magic pill.

 

[tiny_tits]

We both have to be ok with what is happening, and we are always together. Sex with another person is nice, but it can't get in the way of our relationship. Sometimes we join, other time just watch and join in after the action is over.

We have never had anyone at our house. For times outside of a club we have met the person for some food and drinks, then gone to a hotel for some fun.

I put "lover" earlier, but don't think that was the right word for me to use. I'm not sure the right word, partner, play date, fuck toy, etc. Lover is a pretty easy word to use thouogh. It's certainly not love we feel for them, just sex.

Is it ever another couple?

 

[tiny_tits]

I like your tits, they are pretty much perfectly proportioned to the rest of your body.

Thanks

I think I could support a size or two bigger, no problem.
But I've ruled that out a while ago, partly by feedback from Litsters back when I was a regular on AmPic.

 

[tiny_tits]

3 things

 

[literot]

Thanks

I think I could support a size or two bigger, no problem.
But I've ruled that out a while ago, partly by feedback from Litsters back when I was a regular on AmPic.

Absolutely right - stay as you were made - fighting nature always ends up looking unnatural! You are lovely as you are ...

 

[BaconBot]

Like I said in that post, he just let me have fun with it and kept the mood light and easy, and I eventually got to where it went from 'ewww, no' to 'just a bit' to 'okay, let's try that' etc.

I'm still dealing with some abuse issues from my late teen years, always will probably. But a loving, caring relationship is a magic pill.

That's great that you found someone that can help you work through all that.

Have you done anything yet?

 

[tiny_tits]

Let's say, purely hypothetically, you were snooping somewhere you weren't supposed to be (which I guess is the definition of snooping, duh) on your SO's laptop, and ran across some porn of a very specific type of kink you had absolutely no idea that he or she was into.

It had never ever been brought up or hinted at or discussed.

What would you say or do?

To even hint at it would bring your snooping to light, which might not be good at all...

 

[Paul_Chance]

I'd never bring it up. In my experience few things will take you into a relationship shit-storm like snooping.

 

[Jaws82]

Let's say, purely hypothetically, you were snooping somewhere you weren't supposed to be (which I guess is the definition of snooping, duh) on your SO's laptop, and ran across some porn of a very specific type of kink you had absolutely no idea that he or she was into.

It had never ever been brought up or hinted at or discussed.

What would you say or do?

To even hint at it would bring your snooping to light, which might not be good at all...

As long as it's legal I'd keep it to myself that I saw it. They could just be exploring the idea seeing if they're into it. It'll either come into the light on its own or they'll prefer to keep it buried which is on them.

 

[Emerson40]

Let's say, purely hypothetically, you were snooping somewhere you weren't supposed to be (which I guess is the definition of snooping, duh) on your SO's laptop, and ran across some porn of a very specific type of kink you had absolutely no idea that he or she was into.

It had never ever been brought up or hinted at or discussed.

What would you say or do?

To even hint at it would bring your snooping to light, which might not be good at all...

Why were you snooping?

Hypothetically.

 

[SCcouple1990]

Is it ever another couple?

Only one we have hooked up with, life has gotten in the way of a few others. The couple was a mixed bag. We enjoyed hanging out with them, but he had some problems performing (an understandable thing), but she was willing, able, and fun. Overall it was a good experience, and we hope to have another couple in the future.

 

[SCcouple1990]

Let's say, purely hypothetically, you were snooping somewhere you weren't supposed to be (which I guess is the definition of snooping, duh) on your SO's laptop, and ran across some porn of a very specific type of kink you had absolutely no idea that he or she was into.

It had never ever been brought up or hinted at or discussed.

What would you say or do?

To even hint at it would bring your snooping to light, which might not be good at all...

I think it is a bad idea to bring it up.

Sooner or later the kink will appear without you bringing it up. If it's something you can live with, let it be. If not, walk away.

 

[dagdag]

I think it is a bad idea to bring it up.

Sooner or later the kink will appear without you bringing it up. If it's something you can live with, let it be. If not, walk away.

I concur!

Also subscribes to the thread

 

[TheOlderGuy]

Let's say, purely hypothetically, you were snooping somewhere you weren't supposed to be (which I guess is the definition of snooping, duh) on your SO's laptop, and ran across some porn of a very specific type of kink you had absolutely no idea that he or she was into.

It had never ever been brought up or hinted at or discussed.

What would you say or do?

To even hint at it would bring your snooping to light, which might not be good at all...

It could be approached in a very roundabout sort of way. "I saw an article about . . . It sounds so wild -- do people really do that?" But you should also have a good talking to with the snooper -- it's bound to end up badly.

 

[celticmedic]

I think it would depend on my feelings on the kink in question. If it was something that didn't fall outside my very broad "hard limits" - I'd certainly bring it up - "honey, is there anything new you'd like to try?" And then come up with a list of things with the kink in question in the middle, and see what they say. That said, the only "proper" relationship I've been in we talked things through as infinitum before we did anything. Still recovering from that one (still completely smitten and uninterested in anyone else) even though it's been a while. Anyway, I disapprove of snooping, but if you inadvertently find out, you can't un-know it, so it is worth discussing with your partner, I think. My ex had figured out I was into anal because I hadn't really mentioned it at all, and when I came clean she was unsurprised and accepting of it. We never got around to it because our relationship was messy and ended because of... well, reasons, but she had me figured and was open to the idea, and as I opened up about it, became enthusiastic about it too despite never having tried anything like that. That being said, we were generally pretty open minded so it was easy for us... I think being honest about your opinions on things is probably helpful, really.
Speaking of which, tiny, what's your take on anal?

 

[tiny_tits]

I think it is a bad idea to bring it up.

Sooner or later the kink will appear without you bringing it up. If it's something you can live with, let it be. If not, walk away.

It's just a bit... out there, not so much bad.
I'm probably not the easiest one to talk to about stuff like that- I'm a doer, not a discusser.

 

[tiny_tits]

It could be approached in a very roundabout sort of way. "I saw an article about . . . It sounds so wild -- do people really do that?" But you should also have a good talking to with the snooper -- it's bound to end up badly.

This is too specific.

'Honey, I read an article about glory holes. It sounds so wild- do people really do that?'

...with three full length movies on his laptop on it.
Nope.
That dog don't hunt.

 

[tiny_tits]

I think it would depend on my feelings on the kink in question. If it was something that didn't fall outside my very broad "hard limits" - I'd certainly bring it up - "honey, is there anything new you'd like to try?" And then come up with a list of things with the kink in question in the middle, and see what they say. That said, the only "proper" relationship I've been in we talked things through as infinitum before we did anything. Still recovering from that one (still completely smitten and uninterested in anyone else) even though it's been a while. Anyway, I disapprove of snooping, but if you inadvertently find out, you can't un-know it, so it is worth discussing with your partner, I think. My ex had figured out I was into anal because I hadn't really mentioned it at all, and when I came clean she was unsurprised and accepting of it. We never got around to it because our relationship was messy and ended because of... well, reasons, but she had me figured and was open to the idea, and as I opened up about it, became enthusiastic about it too despite never having tried anything like that. That being said, we were generally pretty open minded so it was easy for us... I think being honest about your opinions on things is probably helpful, really.
Speaking of which, tiny, what's your take on anal?

Is anal still a kink?
Ya, we do it. I just limit it to once or twice a month.

 

[tiny_tits]

Why were you snooping?

Hypothetically.

I don't know
I'm not proud.