tiny_tits journal and random thoughts

[tiny_tits]

Sooooo....

Where to start?

First, expectations.
If you are expecting a 'wild and wacky' recounts of my life, you will demand a refund.

I will be as open and honest as can be expected. That may disappoint, or it may be refreshing. That is for you to decide.

The only way this will work is if YOU help make it work- post questions, comments, personal experiences, new topics.

I don't care what I post- if you have another thought, way off topic, go furit!

I prefer to have responses posted her, not in PM.

'k?

 

[bigwoody8]

Your journal/random thoughts.

Highly entertaining. I wish there were more.

I didn't read the comments after your Watcher story, so I don't know if it was brought up... But that was definitely a set up! All you had to say was whether you wanted beer or milk and Sam would know whether or not he could sit down and watch? That means he and Guy definitely had a plan in place.

Please post in the thread

Sorry. I saw the post was in June. So I PMed instead of bumping an old thread. Didn't realize it had been revived.

 

[magicmikeaustin]

Sooooo....

Where to start?

First, expectations.
If you are expecting a 'wild and wacky' recounts of my life, you will demand a refund.

I will be as open and honest as can be expected. That may disappoint, or it may be refreshing. That is for you to decide.

The only way this will work is if YOU help make it work- post questions, comments, personal experiences, new topics.

I don't care what I post- if you have another thought, way off topic, go furit!

I prefer to have responses posted her, not in PM.

'k?

you misspelled here (her)

just saying.


BTW, I had a threesome, once

 

[tiny_tits]

Alrighty then, let's play
http://amominredhighheels.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/ketchup.jpg

Again, use the very first post for a recap of this thread up to this point.

So I promoted 'Guy' from FWB to official boyfriend status.

His brother has visited twice since, but I was out of town for Christmas, so we've all three been together once since that first visit.

Tom is still Guy's roommate (aka Landlord) and is still a Watcher, though not like all the time. If we are in the bedroom, he never comes near us. If we are anywhere else, like the living room, and he is home, you can pretty much know he will be near by. And we know that, so its to be expected.

I spent Christmas with my family at our timeshare in Purgatory, CO.
On 12/26, I broke my leg when a dumbass ski boarder cut me off.
I got my cast off end of last month, now I am trying to get back to running so I can lose the extra pounds I picked up being less than active.

So how about you?
What's the biggest thing that has happened to you in the last 8 months?

Or feel free to ask my anything.

 

[tiny_tits]

you misspelled here (her)

just saying.


BTW, I had a threesome, once

Yep, I did.

So describe your threesome?
The more details the better!

 

[tiny_tits]

BTW...
Anyone else watching Better Call Saul?

New favorite show!

 

[flexi42]

didnt realize it had started yet, very into banshee though, will def check out saul!

 

[tiny_tits]

http://www.theweekbehind.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/CD100303-300x225.jpg

 

[tiny_tits]

Okay, then.
Not what I was expecting, but I can adjust.

What would you like to see here?

 

[literot]

Okay, then.
Not what I was expecting, but I can adjust.

What would you like to see here?

You, your thoughts and hopes maybe?

 

[TheOlderGuy]

Okay, then.
Not what I was expecting, but I can adjust.

What would you like to see here?

Well, just to start with, I'd love to hear your thoughts on any or all of the following:

Monogamy vs polyamory

The benefits vs the drawbacks of having an older lover

The use of alcohol or marijuana to enhance sexual pleasure

What's more intimate: kissing, fucking, or oral sex?

 

[zukethecuke]

I'm away from Lit for a week and look who pops back up!

Delighted you're posting again, glad you indexed the major plot points of the past couple years, looking forward to more frank (and guy and tom) discussion.

 

[tiny_tits]

Well, just to start with, I'd love to hear your thoughts on any or all of the following:

Monogamy vs polyamory

The benefits vs the drawbacks of having an older lover

The use of alcohol or marijuana to enhance sexual pleasure

What's more intimate: kissing, fucking, or oral sex?

Well, I've never been in a relationship with a guy significantly older than me, and I've never been in a poly relationship, so I can't speak for two of those.

In the times that I've gotten out of my comfort zone sexually, the combo of booze and weed were very helpful to me. Guy knows this, and has used this to his advantage. I will say that in my opinion, while it does help to 'cross the barrier', it is preferable to be at least 50% sober. That way you aren't lethargic, lazy, slow. I mean, when he's on his game, he can practically pick me up and fuck me in the air. One of us plastered, not so much.

What's more intimate, kissing, fucking, or oral sex?
Oral sex. Done right, it requires a great deal of 'reading the signs'. When to speed up, slow down, stay on that one spot, bring it home, etc. based on subtle clues, like his/her breathing, moans, hair pulling, etc.

So, peeps, your turn.

Monogamy vs polyamory?
Anyone care to describe a poly relationship, and how that fared?

The benefits vs the drawbacks of having an older lover?
I would think the advantages would be like a 'teacher/student' one, and maybe a disadvantage would be ' what's a floppy disc?'

 

[Paul_Chance]

Monogamy vs polyamory?
Anyone care to describe a poly relationship, and how that fared?

I've never been in a poly relationship. I have been in variations of non-poly threesome (she was bi-sexual and had a long term female lover who pre-dated me entering the picture). As a three some we socialized and she (the lover) and I were always civil and got along well enough - it ended when they decided to relocate to another state. I also spent time in a relationship as "the other guy". He and I - not so friendly - but she was calling the shots. In that case, he eventually left and I kept her as a lover/friend. I've never actually know anyone who was in a successful long-term poly. Knew a few people who had short term ones that ended pretty spectacularly and not well. I think to make it work you really got to have the right people.

The benefits vs the drawbacks of having an older lover?
I would think the advantages would be like a 'teacher/student' one, and maybe a disadvantage would be ' what's a floppy disc?'

I've been on both sides of the older lover equation. LOL - and you did hit one of the drawbacks, which is being shaped by different life experiences, which leads to different tastes in entertainment - specifically, music - that can grow to be very grating. I have found as I have gotten older age doesn't really matter as much. People reach their level of maturity at different ages, so it is possible to be years apart but very much alike. When you're young - ten years is a big gap. When you are, like me, in your fifties - ten years either way doesn't make much difference and the age gap expands accordingly. One of the really cool things you'll discover as you get older is their is far less, well, frankly, bullshit, in relationships - as you get older you burn through all the stupid stuff and it becomes "been there, done that, won't do it again". I've also found that if there is an attraction, a connection, the transition into being lovers is much smoother (see less bullshit above), and the expectations of the other to be the be all and end is lower, so you're better able to just accept the other as a human being.

 

[celticmedic]

Ah, welcome back! Hope things are good, other than the broken leg! Last 8 months I started working as a doctor, which is great. Still struggling to get over the ex, though.
So the friends with benefits thing worked out? Excellent. Remind me, does he know about your using these forums?

 

[SCcouple1990]

So, peeps, your turn.

Monogamy vs polyamory?
Anyone care to describe a poly relationship, and how that fared?

The benefits vs the drawbacks of having an older lover?
I would think the advantages would be like a 'teacher/student' one, and maybe a disadvantage would be ' what's a floppy disc?'

I have no problem with either monogamy or polyamory. Congratulations to those who can make either work for a long and happy relationship.

I would not consider us in polyamory relationship. We have had threesomes, moresomes, and swapping, but those are just for sex. Our relationship is one-on-one, and it is important to us. Sex with other people is fun, but there is no need for a romantic attachment with them.

Neither of us ever had a lover who was significantly older, and haven’t had one significantly younger yet. I would think the advantages of an older lover would be experience and stability that is not always available with a younger lover. The advantages for a younger lover could be youthful enthusiasm to go along with a young body.

 

[zukethecuke]

When I was in my late teens I had one lover in her late twenties and another in her early thirties. A dozen years really made a huge, positive difference to me. Not just that I had skilled teachers (looking back they were pretty plain vanilla, but good), but that they didn't have all the teenage angst that girls my age had.

What did they get out of it? Well, neither of them ever told me sex wasn't supposed to last for hours and involve six or eight orgasms for her and a couple for me.... I found that out after I married.

 

[tiny_tits]

I'm away from Lit for a week and look who pops back up!

Delighted you're posting again, glad you indexed the major plot points of the past couple years, looking forward to more frank (and guy and tom) discussion.

Thanks.
Not sure how the whole dynamics of this will work out... we'll see.

 

[tiny_tits]

Monogamy vs polyamory?
Anyone care to describe a poly relationship, and how that fared?

I've never been in a poly relationship. I have been in variations of non-poly threesome (she was bi-sexual and had a long term female lover who pre-dated me entering the picture). As a three some we socialized and she (the lover) and I were always civil and got along well enough - it ended when they decided to relocate to another state. I also spent time in a relationship as "the other guy". He and I - not so friendly - but she was calling the shots. In that case, he eventually left and I kept her as a lover/friend. I've never actually know anyone who was in a successful long-term poly. Knew a few people who had short term ones that ended pretty spectacularly and not well. I think to make it work you really got to have the right people.

I just don't know if I would enjoy all that, especially if we weren't all mutually sexually involved. I could see myself jealous, especially when it comes to scheduling. Thats why I don't think I could ever be 'the other woman'.

The benefits vs the drawbacks of having an older lover?
I would think the advantages would be like a 'teacher/student' one, and maybe a disadvantage would be ' what's a floppy disc?'

I've been on both sides of the older lover equation. LOL - and you did hit one of the drawbacks, which is being shaped by different life experiences, which leads to different tastes in entertainment - specifically, music - that can grow to be very grating. I have found as I have gotten older age doesn't really matter as much. People reach their level of maturity at different ages, so it is possible to be years apart but very much alike. When you're young - ten years is a big gap. When you are, like me, in your fifties - ten years either way doesn't make much difference and the age gap expands accordingly. One of the really cool things you'll discover as you get older is their is far less, well, frankly, bullshit, in relationships - as you get older you burn through all the stupid stuff and it becomes "been there, done that, won't do it again". I've also found that if there is an attraction, a connection, the transition into being lovers is much smoother (see less bullshit above), and the expectations of the other to be the be all and end is lower, so you're better able to just accept the other as a human being.

I once had the opinion I would never be involved with a significantly older guy, but I have softened on that a bit- only because I have really enjoyed some PM's with some guys here. Much more respectful, gentlemanly, wise, etc

 

[tiny_tits]

Ah, welcome back! Hope things are good, other than the broken leg! Last 8 months I started working as a doctor, which is great. Still struggling to get over the ex, though.
So the friends with benefits thing worked out? Excellent. Remind me, does he know about your using these forums?

Yes, FWB is now BF.

Kinda sorta- he thinks this is a 'chicks forum'- talk about 'womens issues'. I don't correct him

 

[tiny_tits]

I have no problem with either monogamy or polyamory. Congratulations to those who can make either work for a long and happy relationship.

I would not consider us in polyamory relationship. We have had threesomes, moresomes, and swapping, but those are just for sex. Our relationship is one-on-one, and it is important to us. Sex with other people is fun, but there is no need for a romantic attachment with them.

Neither of us ever had a lover who was significantly older, and haven’t had one significantly younger yet. I would think the advantages of an older lover would be experience and stability that is not always available with a younger lover. The advantages for a younger lover could be youthful enthusiasm to go along with a young body.

When one of you has a 'lover', the other is okay with that? Joins in? Comes over to the house?

 

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[Miles Long]

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[tiny_tits]

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