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Wild_Honey_66
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i'm planning for the future, so I said 'all.'
my ex told me, after we split, that the major reason he stopped wanting sex with me was because he had issues with a fantasy I told him about right after we were married.
my future SO doesn't need to share my kinks, but if he can't even listen to me talk about them...?
yeah, that would be a problem for me.
my ex told me, after we split, that the major reason he stopped wanting sex with me was because he had issues with a fantasy I told him about right after we were married.
my future SO doesn't need to share my kinks, but if he can't even listen to me talk about them...?
yeah, that would be a problem for me.
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Little_Sister
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Yeah That.
I use to share everything but he specifically asked me to keep them to myself so now I do. I share things with him that I know he will go for, so the vanilla stuff he gets. The kinky stuff, y'all get.
suckonsimon
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Very subtle one today, Clowns.
Middle one me. My wife knows that my imaginings go further than what we share. She doesn't press me to know the details. Just as I don't press her to tell me about the huge crushes she has on guys sometimes. For us this works. It works well: I'm her man of mystery in terms of my thoughts, and whoever she gets the hots for, I'm the guy who gets the fuck on them!
Middle one me. My wife knows that my imaginings go further than what we share. She doesn't press me to know the details. Just as I don't press her to tell me about the huge crushes she has on guys sometimes. For us this works. It works well: I'm her man of mystery in terms of my thoughts, and whoever she gets the hots for, I'm the guy who gets the fuck on them!
IhateClowns
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Yeah it is an interesting topic. My wife and I were discussing this last night. I found myself holding back some even as she was wanting to know what some of those desires are. She is not the judgmental type so I am unsure what made me hold back on some of them.
lovetopleasewomen
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Would that vanilla be covered with chocolate or caramel syrup... maybe some muti-coloured sprinkles?Yeah That.
I use to share everything but he specifically asked me to keep them to myself so now I do. I share things with him that I know he will go for, so the vanilla stuff he gets. The kinky stuff, y'all get.
Don't seem to have an so....
Little_Sister
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Nah, it is just plain vanilla with hubby like a new position or place (I have a new car- I told him I wanted to do it there-but we still haven't).
My lit friends get the syrup and sprinkles.
suckonsimon
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Pal, I hope you and she are comfortable about not needing to expose the whole of your souls to each other. You know how much my marriage means to me and how much I 'believe' in what marriage can be for folk. Yet I do believe part of the magic of many flourishing marriages is that each person still has their inner 'personal space' which is not subject to intrusion. That is quite different from having the sort of secrets which result in putting distance between a person and their spouse. That's my take on it anyway.
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may_I_please
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Middle road for me ...I share some, but some are mine alone and not necessarily ones I want to brought to life
He doesn't share in words, he just does
He doesn't share in words, he just does
lovetopleasewomen
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so then I guess a motorcycle is out of the question...Nah, it is just plain vanilla with hubby like a new position or place (I have a new car- I told him I wanted to do it there-but we still haven't).
My lit friends get the syrup and sprinkles.
may_I_please
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Nah, it is just plain vanilla with hubby like a new position or place (I have a new car- I told him I wanted to do it there-but we still haven't).
My lit friends get the syrup and sprinkles.
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suckonsimon
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Nah, it is just plain vanilla with hubby like a new position or place (I have a new car- I told him I wanted to do it there-but we still haven't).
My lit friends get the syrup and sprinkles.
I can't resist sayin ... never in a million years can I imagine myself turning down an invitation to get a new car rocking. Indeed insisting that we test out the relative accessibility of the front passenger seat and the back bench seat and whatever other spaces in the thing and on the thing there might be!
suckonsimon
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May, how I want to get hold of that spoon and feed you slowly - and hope you let me have some ...
Little_Sister
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With him or you?so then I guess a motorcycle is out of the question...
I need one NOW!! Yumm.
I feel the same way
Spouse is not as excited.
suckonsimon
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I feel the same way
Saw this sticker on the back of a white delivery van: "When this truck's a-rockin', don't bother knocking"
janeyl
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We have a truly open relationship where we not only celebrate and revel in each others sexuality, kinks and desires but actively encourage each other to explore and experience them...so I share everything with him and trust that he does also...but we also have the level of trust and openness that we also feel very comfortable in saying that we don't want to explore something too...
I'm a very lucky woman...
I'm a very lucky woman...
IhateClowns
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Yes he is. That's awesome
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