How did you discover your fetish?

[MatthewVett]

How did you first discover your fetish? For me, I was reading one of those choose your own adventure Goosebumps books, and one option had you transforming from a bird to a human in front of people, but you forgot that bird-you wasn't wearing clothes. I read that, and it was just like, click, this is hot. And from then on, I knew I was into exhibitionism.

 

[Kitty]

Interesting.

I knew I was into BDSM, particularly S&M, a while ago. I was really young when a guy I liked stabbed me in the arm with a fork. It was because I took his lunch and wouldn't let go of his lunch box. While my hand is still on his handle (the box handle, not his dick ), he just...stabs the shit out of my arm with a fork.

And we're looking into each other's eyes (across the cafeteria table lmao) and I see his face magically go from anger to like...awe that my arm was bleeding a bit and I still wouldn't let go.

When I was younger, showing off that I can withstand pain and rough play, and bullying boys, was a way I let them know I liked them, because I was nice to everyone else.

I think he got the message. I still remember his name, and graduation came and he just looked at me through the gate and said, "I'll miss you." This was around 10 yrs ago and I am 22.

I'm not sure if that's the root to me putting on extreme shows in sexual situations, but whatever. It's the only thing I can think of. Now it's just my thing. There will be no sex without both of us doing something depraved to each other, but within reason.

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

i have yet to discover mine

 

[trsest7]

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[FGB]

Watch some kinky movies on U tube or somewhere and if you find yourself turned on more than usual or really curious what some act would feel like, or have done to you...Try it out with someone.

 

[Blase]

I discovered that I was into D/s first by having cybersex, then (after I joined Lit) by interacting with people here and writing on the SRP board where, to my surprise, my roleplaying quickly turned in that direction.

 

[Hans101]

My interest in consensual adult incest comes from my own experiences with it. An acquired taste to be sure, but one that I relish.

 

[Massacre]

I found mine a few years ago. Me and my gf were on yahoo and talking about what kind of porn we liked. We watched a few videos when she picked a master/slave video. It got me really horny and i liked the idea of being a slaves master The next day she asked me to be her master and i loved every minute of it.

 

[pplwatching]

I don't have a fetish in the sense that I need anything in particular to enjoy sex, but I have a couple of kinks that I really like.

The first two are pretty tame by just about anyone's definition. I was already living on my own when I met my first girlfriend. Things progressed to the point where she'd spend the night at my place. We'd been friends for a while, but it was still early in our sexual relationship and we were both always ready for sex.

I remember waking up one morning to find her already dressed and ready to go to work. She bent down to kiss me good bye, but changed her mind and climbed on top of me instead; pinning me under the blanket. It began as a hug and a passionate kiss goodbye but it didn't take long before her skirt was around her waist and she was grinding herself against my morning wood through her panty hose and the bedding. After she came she climbed off of me, apologized, and told me that she had to go to work. She promised to make it up to me when she came over later.

I needed to get to work myself and even though it would have only taken a minute or two at that point, I decided not to take matters into my own hands, so to speak. I remember being turned on and incredibly horny all day thinking about it. I realized that I really liked that edgy craving and the anticipation of waiting to fuck her later.

I made her dinner when she came over later, and we sat and watched a movie along with my housemate. She watched the movie. I was pretty desperate to fuck her, and having her innocently cuddled up against me just made me Jones for it more. She didn't take my not so subtle hints, and I couldn't just rip her clothes off. I could smell her and her touch was electric. I knew then that I loved how it felt to be craving her that badly. It was very intense when we finally got to the bedroom.

A few days later she woke me up the same way, cllmbing on top of me, grinding against me until she came, and then letting herself out to go to work. I tried to get into her panties, but she insisted that she had to leave and didn't want to get undressed. I went to work with that same delicious ache, and I loved it. That became a regular thing for her, maybe twice a week until we finally broke up.

That was the beginning of two kinks. I adore a good cock tease. I love getting really worked up and savoring the achy distracton of waiting for release. My wife's a "What do you mean wait?" kind of gal. It took her a while to wrap her head around it, but we're getting there. I also love being "used" to masterbate - especially when she's grinding herself against my mouth and face. * Fans self *

 

[Trimjob69]

It just "came" to me

 

[SherlockianMan]

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[riannauk]

was introduced to lit by my boyfriend so i could read the stories and curious about the different fetishes displayed on bulletin board, and i started reading more and realised i was into being a misstress, exhibitionism, voyeurism,

 

[downforce]

Cum fetish - I never was into tasting my own cum, like the vast majority of guys I rapidly lose interest. One night, on a whim, my wife and I were talking about it and I told her I might be interested in trying it. Later on, she was sucking me off and when I came in her mouth she sat up and kissed me, pushing some cum into my mouth. We were both into it. Fast forward a couple of years and I was getting close to cumming and she hadnt yet. I asked her what she wanted me to do to get her off after I came, thinking she would want me to finger her. She said she wanted me to eat her pussy! It got me so hot that I came in a few short minutes, then ate her pussy like it was the sweetest treat Ive ever had.

Panties - thats a new one. I was very horny one morning and somehow it got in my head to try on a pair of her panties. I did and it got me so hot I jacked off 4 times in an hour while wearing one of her worn thongs. I wore her underwear to work for a week straight after that.

 

[suckonsimon]

Shopping!

I was in a better class licensed sex shop in town, for some herbal supplement they always stock. I saw under the glass counter their display of well-fashioned steel rings to go around the whole of a guy's junk, balls 'n all. Truly I did not know that men did that! I asked the guy serving about them and he got a couple of them out for me to get a sense of their weight and polish and stylishness.

I could not get those beauties, and the craving to know what wearing one felt like, out of my head. I read up some on the net about them, and went back to purchase. Best thing I did for myself personally in a long time. It took me too long to share this with my wife; I really thought she would take offence at the kinkiness of it. Once I did, that day onwards she adores my junk ringed in steel and benefits have multiplied!

For the whole story, click on the thread in my sig, guys!

 

[funguyn505]

Which one???

 

[Bighammerfucker]

Reading erotica was what made me discover mine, and explore it somewhat, but God damn nothing compares to the real thing!

 

[OpenMouth]

Which fetish, can you be more specific? Hahaha

OK, my no1 fetish is for women smoking.

I had an aversion to smoking for all of my childhood (I was an athlete and my parents smoked, as did everyones) and adolescence til about 22.

One day I opened a softcore top-shelf magazine and discovered a shoot of a young blonde in stockings and heels smoking a cigarette; my hand was on my cock quicker than you can say sticky mess. I was startled by the intensity of my orgasm and the strength of my feelings.

Of course, I was in love with a wholesome non-smoking girl by this point, such is life. I'm still with her, and she does smoke for me occasionally, and if I'm honest, I wouldn't want her to have a proper smoking habit.

 

[klippert]

friend put his hand on his much older sisters porn collection....one didn't have cover...only when we were looking through it..did we find out it was call Bi-life...that was the first...

Rimming- watching porn with some friends guys and gals... Ona Zee sucking cock, balls...then started rimming the guy....there were only two of us that didn't make a big, "Gross" production out of it. eventually she and I hooked up..and both enjoyed rimming each other...

 

[Verycurious18]

Got into Japanese porn, realized i loved their long, wild and dark pubic hair. Little did i know at the time i would end up having a kink for asian men as well. damn time for some porn now.

 

[Anomaly1964]

I guess this is a fetish, imagining my wife with other men...

One day I was on a site and a guy posted about wanting to see his wife with another man...

I got to thinking about it...

The odds are SOOO low as she is a very timid woman but the more I thought about her being seduced by someone she trusted, the hotter it got for me...

 

[CindyCD478]

Which one???

Same here, which one? I/we are into cross-dressing, adult incest, bi group sex, exhibitionism, piss, scat, and many other things that we discovered in many different ways.

 

[keitht6]

womens bras

my neighbor when I was young used to hang her bras out on a clothes line to dry, she was very busty...

 

[NYC_Man]

Interesting.

I knew I was into BDSM, particularly S&M, a while ago. I was really young when a guy I liked stabbed me in the arm with a fork. It was because I took his lunch and wouldn't let go of his lunch box. While my hand is still on his handle (the box handle, not his dick ), he just...stabs the shit out of my arm with a fork.

And we're looking into each other's eyes (across the cafeteria table lmao) and I see his face magically go from anger to like...awe that my arm was bleeding a bit and I still wouldn't let go.

When I was younger, showing off that I can withstand pain and rough play, and bullying boys, was a way I let them know I liked them, because I was nice to everyone else.

I think he got the message. I still remember his name, and graduation came and he just looked at me through the gate and said, "I'll miss you." This was around 10 yrs ago and I am 22.

I'm not sure if that's the root to me putting on extreme shows in sexual situations, but whatever. It's the only thing I can think of. Now it's just my thing. There will be no sex without both of us doing something depraved to each other, but within reason.

if you marry your future husband
u will not exchange rings, u will exchange stabbings?

 

[banes27]

For me, a lot of it was probably just watching a lot of porn, and basically just going from one "genre" or act to another as I looked at more and more of what was available. Some stuff I really didn't like, other stuff I was turned on by, and other stuff got me really turned on.

But a lot of it definitely came from the first couple of times I had sex, just after I turned 19. Generally speaking, I just plain don't like people touching me. I find it incredibly off putting and sometimes it just makes me angry, but if I'm with someone who I like and who I know likes me, I settle down a lot, and that's when I found out how much I liked having my back scratched and my neck bitten. Those two things on there own drive me wild and the rush is so intense that it's unreal.

I like biting as well, so there is some kind of give and take there, but I love holding a woman by her throat and just gradually squeezing, pushing down harder and harder. That bit I find out by accident. I'd been out for my birthday with a friend (who was also another friend's girlfriend). Everyone else had gone away that week for various reasons (holidays, going to see family or their partners who went to different universities) and one thing led to another and we kissed. We were both too drunk for anything else to happen, though, so we just relaxed on the sofa and started talking about sex, and relationships, and stuff like that. For some reason I put my hand on her throat, I think by accident, and she seemed to like it, so I spent about 5 minutes just gently choking her (ha, that sounded funny).

My other stuff, like women wearing corsets, gangbangs, basically all group sex, developed through watching porn and then trying it out with people.

On the other hand, I get slightly turned on by blood, but I have no idea where that came from. Generally speaking, for as long as I can remember I've picked by scabs and bitten my lips or the inside of my mouth to the point where the bleed, and at one point I did used to cut myself, partly because it felt kind of good but also because I liked seeing blood flowing down my arms. When someone else has a cut, especially if I find them attractive, I can't help but be a little turned on. As I said, I have no idea where this particular thing came from, but it's probably easy to explain on some level. Note though, I dislike "vampire romance" intensely

 

[MatthewVett]

One night I went out to a bar with my GF at time. We had a few beers and on the way home she said she had to pee. There wasn't much around then so I stopped the car in a parking lot way in the back. She squatted next to the car and went. I could see her peeing out the open door of the car. I got the idea right there to have her squat over me and pee on me. She got back in the car and the first thing she said was she was turned on by me watching her pee. It was easy to get her to fulfill my fetish..

Once I was on cam with a girl who was a bit annoying, and she kept asking to see my dick. I had to piss, so I figured, whatever. I told her she could see it, but I had to use the bathroom, too. So I set up my laptop on the top part of the toiler, whipped it out, and went. Pretty sure I gave her a fetish, because after that, she kept asking to watch me pee again.