Wife's experiences

shelbakk

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I apparently posted this in the wrong group so hopefully this time it won't offend anyone.
Has anyone asked their wife about previous sexual exoeriences?

My wife and I had a 18 month separation earlier in our marriage. She was very angry and wanted to fuck anything in sight apparently, especially at the start of the separation. She had always been rather prudish and conservative in the bedroom. She rarely performed oral or was kinky in either way. Once we worked out our issues our sex life improved a lot.

One night after drinking I asked her about her book ups when we were separated. She told me several. Here is one.

She went out to a night club, by herself one evening with the whole purpose of fucking some young stud. She said a Latino guy started chatting with her and buying her drinks. After a few dances on the floor they decided to retire to more comfortable location. As they walked out of the club and across the parking lot to his car he stops suddenly. He looks at her and places his his hands her head and tells her to suck his cock right there! Now remember my wife hates sucking cock or at least that's what she tells me.

She said she hesitated but was still quit angry at me. She said he practically forced her to her knees right there in the dark parking lot. She said she took out his cock out and began to lick and suck it. She said he was a bit longer then me but not as thick. The latino got so excited he began to face fuck her. My wife said she gagged and choked up a bit, then he suddenly cum in he mouth. He pulled out and pulsed all over her chin and blouse. He stood her up kissed her deeply then drove off in his car ( she will not swallow me and still doesn't ).

She said she was so stunned and didnt have an orgasm or anything but she said she was so wet and horny from the experience. She went home and fingered herself the incident. I was so fucking hard hearing her tell this tale.
 
After my wife and I got back together after being separated, I discovered she had fucked nine other guys. It was an amazing turn on hearing about the details.

She fucked all of them in our bed and I still get turned on fucking her there knowing that just a year ago this was where she was with her legs spread and another guy's cock in her.
 
As a slut wife, I have always appreciated the freedom that my husband gives me. Bu t never really understood why my fucking lots of other guys excites my husband so much
 
As a slut wife, I have always appreciated the freedom that my husband gives me. Bu t never really understood why my fucking lots of other guys excites my husband so much

As a cuckold there is a certain freedom in knowing you aren't the only man she has been with. So much of men's perspective on women is built around lying to ourselves. We used to need to believe she was a virgin. These days we are past that in many countries but still need to believe we are her best ever and she has never thought of another since being with me. It is such nonsense and asking her to constantly reinforce it puts a damper on her sex drive and impairs her ability to be honest about our sex life.

She is a beautiful sexual creature. We have a great sex life that is made better by her being herself which includes attraction to other men. That isn't be design it just is. And frankly I think it is for most women (the guys who protest otherwise are usually the ones trying hardest to deny it). Some women may value monogamy more than her desire for other men and that is for them to decide. I just don't want her to do so to protect my delicate ego. Now that we are past that stage her ability to express herself freely with other men is a turn on because it is evidence of her true sexuality. And the satisfaction I can bring to her sexually is so much more authentic knowing it is unfettered by the need to feed my delusions.
 
As a conveyer of sexual pleasure, there is a certain amount of satisfaction knowing that you can make a female want more from you, that she likes the way you can bring her to an orgasm time and time again.
 
As a slut wife, I have always appreciated the freedom that my husband gives me. Bu t never really understood why my fucking lots of other guys excites my husband so much

Perhaps you are validating his 'fantasy' image of you - or should I say the other men are? He has a wife who is not just desired by a lot of men, but they do something about it?
 
Perhaps you are validating his 'fantasy' image of you - or should I say the other men are? He has a wife who is not just desired by a lot of men, but they do something about it?

Perhaps for some. For me its is more the validation that she is a desirous sexual being. The other men aren't validating her attractiveness to me......she is validating her own interest in sex and the authenticity of the sexual experiences we have together.

I tend to think that women are smothered in expectations regarding their sex and desire which has a stifling affect on desire and honesty. A woman who says she has no desire for anyone but her husband, never thinks about other men and only finds pleasure with her husband is on some level telling him what he wants to hear. It may be mostly true and she may see not having sex with other men as an insignificant sacrifice to make for all the other things she values in life, but on some level it is a sacrifice. As long as she is even subconsciously making that sacrifice and denying even the smallest of urges she is in engaging in a certain amount of delusion for the greater good. I respect her for that but am always left to wonder what her real desires are and whether our sex life is coloured by these factors.

The slut wife is the only woman who is clearly unfettered. She is in fact incurring potential negative implications in her pursuit of sexual pleasure but doing it anyway. Her desire is pure and honest.
 
My wife

My wife sexual experiences are quite limited (that I know of for sure). Including me she's only been with three men. Her first boyfriend, then me, then she dropped her panties for another man a few years into our relationship.

Her getting fucked by another man is what sparked by interest in wives having sex outside her marriage.
 
Yes. Learned that the things that get her engine revved up are hard to predict. The affair she had during her first marriage didn't last long but did involve a climax from having her genitals fondled after a long seduction by her then boss. She did screw him but he had a small dick. Her first husband got a gift when she came home aroused and ready to fuck after an acquaintance told her he'd like to lick every square inch of her body as a prelude to sex.
Wish I could discover the key to getting her libido cranked up and her pussy wet.
 
The hottest story my wife told me was when she was 23 (she's 46 now ) she went out with some friends to a night club. At the club she ran into a guy that worked with her dad , he was much older (like 38-39 ) . After dancing with him and getting a little drunk she went home to his apartment with him. She sucked his cock in the car on the way to his place and when they got there he was all over her and her all over him.....she has huge 44 DD tits and she said he loved them, he titty fucked her and fucked her in a lot of positions she'd never experienced . After they finished fucking she said she fell asleep on his bed.....later she woke up to the sensation of a HUGE cock inside of her...she opened her eyes and a strange guy was fucking her . She was startled at first but went with it.....she said he had an amazing and very big dick and he knew how to use it. Turns out that this guy was the roommate of the first guy and he told him to go enjoy the young pussy he'd brought home. He was also around 38 or so years old. She said it was an amazing night ...I asked her if they fucked her at the same time at any point , she said no, it was all done separately. I was rock hard hearing this story and we had wild sex after she finished !!
 
I apparently posted this in the wrong group so hopefully this time it won't offend anyone.
Has anyone asked their wife about previous sexual exoeriences?

My wife and I had a 18 month separation earlier in our marriage. She was very angry and wanted to fuck anything in sight apparently, especially at the start of the separation. She had always been rather prudish and conservative in the bedroom. She rarely performed oral or was kinky in either way. Once we worked out our issues our sex life improved a lot.

One night after drinking I asked her about her book ups when we were separated. She told me several. Here is one.

She went out to a night club, by herself one evening with the whole purpose of fucking some young stud. She said a Latino guy started chatting with her and buying her drinks. After a few dances on the floor they decided to retire to more comfortable location. As they walked out of the club and across the parking lot to his car he stops suddenly. He looks at her and places his his hands her head and tells her to suck his cock right there! Now remember my wife hates sucking cock or at least that's what she tells me.

She said she hesitated but was still quit angry at me. She said he practically forced her to her knees right there in the dark parking lot. She said she took out his cock out and began to lick and suck it. She said he was a bit longer then me but not as thick. The latino got so excited he began to face fuck her. My wife said she gagged and choked up a bit, then he suddenly cum in he mouth. He pulled out and pulsed all over her chin and blouse. He stood her up kissed her deeply then drove off in his car ( she will not swallow me and still doesn't ).

She said she was so stunned and didnt have an orgasm or anything but she said she was so wet and horny from the experience. She went home and fingered herself the incident. I was so fucking hard hearing her tell this tale.

Now that she has tasted other men's cock, how can you ever expect her to be satisfied with yours? Probably should start reading up on cuckold husbands. Sounds like you are on your way.
 
I've opened up to my husband about past experiences and is sent our love life through the roof as we also talk about future fantasies too. Its great to get filthy text messages at work etc
 
I've opened up to my husband about past experiences and is sent our love life through the roof as we also talk about future fantasies too. Its great to get filthy text messages at work etc

It's funny, I said it before, but when I was younger, it used to bother me just to hear my girlfriend mention the name of her ex. Now I want my wife not only to mention other guy's names but to describe in filthy detail their sex life...
 
Now that she has tasted other men's cock, how can you ever expect her to be satisfied with yours? Probably should start reading up on cuckold husbands. Sounds like you are on your way.

Seriously. You think the only way to keep her faithful is to never let her taste another man. You think that means she never thinks about it? Do you think that you can control and own her by limiting her exposure like she doesn't see what you are doing? You are fooling yourself and represent part of the problem of delusional men.

The man you are criticizing has a productive way forward. You sound like a delusional douche bag whose future is dependent on weak or stupid women willing to tell you what you wanted hear.
 
Seriously. You think the only way to keep her faithful is to never let her taste another man. You think that means she never thinks about it? Do you think that you can control and own her by limiting her exposure like she doesn't see what you are doing? You are fooling yourself and represent part of the problem of delusional men.

The man you are criticizing has a productive way forward. You sound like a delusional douche bag whose future is dependent on weak or stupid women willing to tell you what you wanted hear.

Couldn't have said it better myself!
 
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This is an amazing thread. Hearing about my wife's slutty experiences, both before we were married and her flirting and teasing since, make me so hard, so turned on. it leads to some amazing sex every time.
 
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