bored of sex and porn :O

[BareBackRider2]

Has anyone ever gone through this? Lol

Back in the day I loved everything about it. And that young man vigor never died off.

Much to my dismay it seemed I married a wonderful wife who didn't have the same drive as me. But no matter. Love I'd more than sex.

But now later in life, I think all the "effort" from earlier years has warn me down.

I'm bored of sex and bored of wondering if tonight is the night I may get some this month.

Oddly now is the time my wife is showing a little more interes . But I can't be bothered.

Even porn now is "all the same"

Anyone else ever hit this?

 

[Que]

Among other things, it sounds like clinical depression. Do all sort of not-sexual activities also have less appeal? How is your sleep?

With age libido can drop especially if testosterone is falling.

As far as what was a mis-matched libido, after ears of trying to no avail maybe a part of you feels like Charlie Brown and Lucy with the football yanked away. Hard to get interested in what might be a mirage.

I would mention to a doctor what you told us. He'll have some things he wants to look at. Even if you have reached that point where what the hell, nice to not have to bother thinking about it some of these things are markers for health issues.

 

[Stewart_Pidd]

Has anyone ever gone through this? Lol

Back in the day I loved everything about it. And that young man vigor never died off.

Much to my dismay it seemed I married a wonderful wife who didn't have the same drive as me. But no matter. Love I'd more than sex.

But now later in life, I think all the "effort" from earlier years has warn me down.

I'm bored of sex and bored of wondering if tonight is the night I may get some this month.

Oddly now is the time my wife is showing a little more interes . But I can't be bothered.

Even porn now is "all the same"

Anyone else ever hit this?

you just need to find a new kink bro!

Stew

 

[removed121614]

Consume garlic, and you'll be the young man again.

If that doesn't work, come back and report to me, I'll give you the solutions!

Happy sex life with your wife!

 

[Stewart_Pidd]

Consume garlic, and you'll be the young man again.

If that doesn't work, come back and report to me, I'll give you the solutions!

Happy sex life with your wife!

he doesn't want a unibrow and shrinkage bro!

Stew

 

[removed121614]

he doesn't want a unibrow and shrinkage bro!

Stew

You're a fool with zero knowledge of medical science.

 

[Que]

Consume garlic, and you'll be the young man again.

If that doesn't work, come back and report to me, I'll give you the solutions!

Happy sex life with your wife!

I don't think vampires were the problem, bro!

 

[chillywilly2]

Query, why would you just assume that his Dr is a man

 

[BareBackRider2]

Don't think depression is the issue lol

I have a great life.

Good job. Nice house. Big garden. Nice car.

Love my family. Play games. Got good mates etc etc

Just sex and porn lol. Maybe I'm just becoming more balanced and less obsessed?

 

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[Laurel]

I wouldn't fret over it if you're otherwise healthy and happy. Sex is one of many wonderful things in life. If other things are more interesting to you now, spend time on those things. Don't force it. Things cycle. Odds are sex will grab your attention at some point in the future - maybe with less fervency than before, maybe with more. Either way, sex isn't life - it's just a facet of life. Enjoy life, all of it!

Also, it's normal (and unfortunate) for men's libido to dip around the same time that women's climb. That doesn't mean your relationship should suffer. Be sure to give her physical reassurance of your love - hugs, cuddles, kisses, etc. - even when your interest in The Act is not wholehearted. Especially then.

 

[Queersetti]

Also, it's normal (and unfortunate) for men's libido to dip around the same time that women's climb.

Heterosexuality is a deeply flawed system.

 

[Stewart_Pidd]

You're a fool with zero knowledge of medical science.

and you are a charlatan with zero knowledge about sex or women bro!

Stew

 

[Stewart_Pidd]

I wouldn't fret over it if you're otherwise healthy and happy. Sex is one of many wonderful things in life. If other things are more interesting to you now, spend time on those things. Don't force it. Things cycle. Odds are sex will grab your attention at some point in the future - maybe with less fervency than before, maybe with more. Either way, sex isn't life - it's just a facet of life. Enjoy life, all of it!

Also, it's normal (and unfortunate) for men's libido to dip around the same time that women's climb. That doesn't mean your relationship should suffer. Be sure to give her physical reassurance of your love - hugs, cuddles, kisses, etc. - even when your interest in The Act is not wholehearted. Especially then.

well said. sometimes we all fall into ruts and routines, and that can have an affect on our libidos. sometimes it can be lasting bro!

Stew

 

[MNGuy]

No, but I once was bored of porn and sex.

 

[removed121614]

and you are a charlatan with zero knowledge about sex or women bro!

Stew

Again, you're fooled.

I have memorised the whole of kamasutra, the bible of sex.

 

[Que]

Don't think depression is the issue lol

I have a great life.

Good job. Nice house. Big garden. Nice car.

Love my family. Play games. Got good mates etc etc

Just sex and porn lol. Maybe I'm just becoming more balanced and less obsessed?

Balance is good. Was your op, more of a musing, like, "Hmm, I don't seem as obsessed lately?" Or was it a trend that worries you a bit?

 

[Stewart_Pidd]

Again, you're fooled.

I have memorised the whole of kamasutra, the bible of sex.

big deal...I have memorized the Kama Sutra, 101 Sex Positions, and The Joy of Sex AND put them into practice bro!

Stew

 

[Eyereadtoo]

Again, you're fooled.

I have memorised the whole of kamasutra, the bible of sex.

And yet you won't eat a fucking hamburger.

 

[chillywilly2]

big deal...I have memorized the Kama Sutra, 101 Sex Positions, and The Joy of Sex AND put them into practice bro!

Stew

you're hilarious Stew...keep practicing

 

[Que]

big deal...I have memorized the Kama Sutra, 101 Sex Positions, and The Joy of Sex AND put them into practice bro!

Stew

Those hirsute pics and the delights of creampies section sort of squicked me. at the time I read it, bro!

 

[Stewart_Pidd]

Those hirsute pics and the delights of creampies section sort of squicked me. at the time I read it, bro!

my grammy used to make French horn pastries and always got hair in them, so I was used to that look bro!

Stew

 

[pink]

pink states....

I find porn boring. Sex is the bomb.

 

[Que]

my grammy used to make French horn pastries and always got hair in them, so I was used to that look bro!

Stew

Uhgggg squick!!!! lalalalalalala, I'm not listening, bro!

 

[Kitty]

Has anyone ever gone through this? Lol

Back in the day I loved everything about it. And that young man vigor never died off.

Much to my dismay it seemed I married a wonderful wife who didn't have the same drive as me. But no matter. Love I'd more than sex.

But now later in life, I think all the "effort" from earlier years has warn me down.

I'm bored of sex and bored of wondering if tonight is the night I may get some this month.

Oddly now is the time my wife is showing a little more interes . But I can't be bothered.

Even porn now is "all the same"

Anyone else ever hit this?

Could be shift in hormones as you get older.
Or, you've fucked and jerked off so much you can't feel your own dick?
That's actually why excess porn and sex is wrong. You desensitize yourself after a while. Sigh. That's sad.

Some people call it "asexual." That's silly. But I have my "asexual" phases, and I'm 22.