Married dude who wants to experiment.

[jayhints]

Just a regular married guy who wants to experiment a bit. Have wanted to for a while but not sure how or where to get started. The CL seems to be a little sketchy. Any suggestions ?

 

[Layne]

Not sure, but I'll follow your thread in hopes of someone coming up with a good idea.

 

[justonemoreinch]

Might want to try a ABS near you. Scary at first if you don't know what is going on, but in the end it is fun.

 

[J1biboi]

I know

I have dealt with the same feelings and problem my whole life. There should be some kind of a signal to use when someone wants to play.

 

[osodown]

Good one

Might want to try a ABS near you. Scary at first if you don't know what is going on, but in the end it is fun.

Good one, "one more inch", can be scary at first, BUTT in the END is FUN...

 

[rayinwc]

I agree with the ABS. I went to one two days ago. I wanted to get a new toy when I noticed a door marked ARCADE ROOM. I wandered inside to see what was going on behind closed doors. In the dark hallway, I saw a guy standing looking inside the first booth which had the door cracked open. I eased over enough to peep in and saw a guy with his cock out stroking it for all to see. I have also been having a lot of bi thoughts lately and this scene sure aroused those thoughts. The guy stroking motioned for some company, I felt reluctant to make this first move, but the opportunity was definitely there. I waited for a booth to become available while watching the dude stroke his cock. I took his lead and left my door opened a little as I watched a good MMF bisexual video. There were at least two that watched me stroke my cock and shoot my cum all over myself. I didn't invite anyone in but I am sure there would have been at least one taker.

 

[J1biboi]

The thought of sucking cock at a glory hole in an ABS is really exciting, and I would probably do too. But the nearest one to me is like 70 miles away.

 

[jayhints]

Sounds good .. What about chat etc. ?

Sounds interesting. Especially the ABS thing .. ;-)

What about chat sites or other forums... Similar to this ??

 

[jayhints]

Btw..

Thought of stroking a dudes cock and finishing him off with my mouth has been driving me crazy ... Haha. These fantasies just keep playing in my head. Kinda interested in uncut as well ... Just dying to play .. ;-)

 

[J1biboi]

Sounds interesting. Especially the ABS thing .. ;-)

What about chat sites or other forums... Similar to this ??

I was on another site for two years, not trying real hard but still looking. Everyone that I would find was like 500 miles away. The closest was like 200 miles.

 

[steamboat610]

I'm not wanting so much to suck, I want to be bent over and fucked. After the ex stopped fucking me with strap on ever since I've wanted that feeling back but want to get the real feeling.

 

[jayhints]

The real thing ..

Ya. I guess the surfing and chatting only goes so far. I am sure there is nothin like the real thing.

Need ... To give it a try.

Love having her grab my balls just before she takes my load ... Wanna feel what it's like to be on the other end

 

[UnderMyKilt]

I used adult personals. Both Adult Friend Finder and Out Personals. Lots of possible hookups, even in a small geographical area. Hint, if you see someone who seems to be what you're looking for, take the first step and respond to their personal. Waiting for someone to respond to your own is tediously slow.

 

[gametime07]

The best site I've seen is adam4adam.com. Easy sign up and plenty of people in your area to play. I've never hooked up with anyone, but get a bunch of offers.

 

[LeaHarvey1821]

Come in from work one day, (i'm assuming you havent spoken about this to your wife, lets say some guy at work asked you if you and your wife were swingers, because he thought your wife is pretty hot. Go home and when the time is right, bring up what was said. It will be a way to see how she would accept, or not, if you wanted to explore. She may want to try some new things as well. if you bring it up as i said, just some guy at work, if she freaks out, you drop the subject and forget my idea

 

[jayhints]

Cool ... Thanks for all the suggestions.

I see that Yahoo messenger is pretty popular. I have never given Yahoo any thought before. Is this something I should consider as a safe chat service or are there any others I should consider for 'chatting' ??

 

[Joso]

Ya. I guess the surfing and chatting only goes so far. I am sure there is nothin like the real thing.

Need ... To give it a try.

Love having her grab my balls just before she takes my load ... Wanna feel what it's like to be on the other end

I still drive myself crazy fantasizing about sucking cock. I hooked up with someone on silverdollar, and we met up a few times. I had to see if the real thing was as good as I was imagining. Although I haven't seen him for quite a while, we had a lot of fun sucking each other off. Problem was he was older, and I guess I was looking for someone more my age group (40s). It WAS as good as I imagined.

 

[gman1970]

hi there

I still drive myself crazy fantasizing about sucking cock. I hooked up with someone on silverdollar, and we met up a few times. I had to see if the real thing was as good as I was imagining. Although I haven't seen him for quite a while, we had a lot of fun sucking each other off. Problem was he was older, and I guess I was looking for someone more my age group (40s). It WAS as good as I imagined.

I haven't found any takers yet lots if dead ends like "hey ya lets.meet" get ready for that day and "sorry can't do it" very frustrating. Hey im 44 and in michigan what part are you from? Im in the thumb.

 

[Putt88]

Another Avenue

I have found that ABS arcades just seem to attract a lot of trolls. You might want to try manhunt.net. Had some luck chatting with some cool, similarly situated guys there.

 

[joelafayette]

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