Looking for advice

[DDWarrior02]

Looking for advice to help my sex life

I have been married for 8 years now and my wife has put some weight on since we have been married which is not a problem because I love her and I have told her that I try my best to show her also. she use to love being naked anytime she could, but because we have a kid she can not do it as often, but at night she does not want to be naked because she does not like what she looks like which has affected our sex life. We still have one but not a often and not as fun. Ladies/gentlemen is there things that I can do to help her see herself as I see her. Which is the most beautiful lady around.

YIM: crimson_cowboy1978

 

[stigs]

Can you clarify what you mean by "try your best to show her"?

 

[DDWarrior02]

Can you clarify what you mean by "try your best to show her"?

Stings what mean by "try best to show her" is this there are some men who if there girlfriend, or wife start to put on any weight they do not want see them naked, or be around them in public, or show any type of PA.

For me I tell my wife that see is the most gourgoues person in the world I love touching her and being around her when she is naked. When we go shopping she is always looking for clothes to hide her body and I am looking for close to show off her body. I hope that helps answering your question, if you would like to YIM for better clearafication I am for helpful advice.

 

[stigs]

Thanks, DDW. Sounds like you're doing a lot of things to be supportive of her which is great! Sometimes all you can do is just "be there" for them and let them work through it themselves. Communication is obviously important too. It's easy to say that she's not feeling comfortable with her weight gain but perhaps there's something else going on with her that is contributing to the weight gain? Stress? Depression? Anxiety? Worry? Maybe she needs to talk about something else but doesn't know how.

 

[DDWarrior02]

Thanks for the advice Stigs, the weight gain is for 2 reasons, one we had our son, and two she had her thyroid removed so she has to take mess to control her hormone levels and metabolism. She has said I know why I have gained weight but she still fills the same way. You just might be right she has more we need to talk about.

Are you married Stigs?

 

[stigs]

Yeah, sometimes knowing helps and other times it doesn't. As someone with plenty of insecurities, even when I have the support of those around me, I still don't believe it myself. All anyone can do is be patient.

 

[DDWarrior02]

That is very true thanks again. I hope this does not offend you, do you mind if I ask one what type of insecurities do you struggle with, and to are insecurities that are brought on by gender? What I mean by that is more women have how they look insecurities where men have a big insecuritie of do they measure up to the standard. I know I struggle with that one, am I the man that I shoudk be to my wife, my son, etc.

 

[stigs]

I can tell you some but in PM. Don't feel like blasting that out here in public quite yet lol. Your PMs are disabled.

 

[DDWarrior02]

I can tell you some but in PM. Don't feel like blasting that out here in public quite yet lol. Your PMs are disabled.

They should not be I will go fix them, if you have YIM my name on there is crimson_cowboy1978.