Kink or not?

[DallasDonna]

We all know my fantasy / turn-on (see my sig).
I've discovered my FWB's. Its maybe even a bit tame, but anyway...
I got a hold of his tablet recently, and found he is consumed with females swallowing cum.
He searches porn videos with "cum swallowing" "compilations". Exclusively.

When I've asked him in the past what his kinks were, he denied having anything specific.
Now, this isn't anything I've ever avoided, and it is enjoyable to me as well, but it has never been the main focus before- if it happens, it happens. Usually that's when the blowjob is the main focus.

So I recently experimented a bit, and while he was fucking me, I told him I wanted him to cum in my mouth (something I've never said while fucking)- and he went off the charts on the passion scale. Harder pounding, more vocals (groaning, cussing, etc).

Later I asked him about it (I didn't admit to snooping) and after prodding with " this or that" type questions, he finally admitted he would prefer to always finish like that (always!).

So that's a definite kink, right?

 

[vibes]

Considering what we read on this and other forums, it looks a mild kink to me

 

[30bandits]

seems so...lucky fella to have a girl like you to accommodate his kink.

 

[DallasDonna]

Considering what we read on this and other forums, it looks a mild kink to me

I agree.
Pretty vanilla, huh?

 

[DallasDonna]

I guess I'm asking if this is very common or not (that being the main focus, over everything else)

 

[beardedmariner]

I guess I'm asking if this is very common or not (that being the main focus, over everything else)

I would facials are a bigger kink than swallowing.

 

[vibes]

I agree.
Pretty vanilla, huh?

Not too kinky, let's say

I guess I'm asking if this is very common or not (that being the main focus, over everything else)

I guess you see it a lot in porn for a reason, no?

 

[vidiman]

I think A woman asking a guy that is incredibly hot and sexy.

He has to 'cum' somewhere after all!

Possibly a slight kink if that is the only place he wants to come.

Unsure if you'd get many men suggesting it wasn't a great place or idea though.



And finally ....don't talk with your mouth full

 

[peter49parker]

If he wanted you to swallow just those times that a BJ was the main course, I would go with more of a twist than a kink. Being that he wants to finish this way every time is a kink in my book. He is a lucky man, in any event to have such an understanding and agreeable woman like yourself.

 

[klippert]

We all know my fantasy / turn-on (see my sig).
I've discovered my FWB's. Its maybe even a bit tame, but anyway...
I got a hold of his tablet recently, and found he is consumed with females swallowing cum.
He searches porn videos with "cum swallowing" "compilations". Exclusively.

When I've asked him in the past what his kinks were, he denied having anything specific.
Now, this isn't anything I've ever avoided, and it is enjoyable to me as well, but it has never been the main focus before- if it happens, it happens. Usually that's when the blowjob is the main focus.

So I recently experimented a bit, and while he was fucking me, I told him I wanted him to cum in my mouth (something I've never said while fucking)- and he went off the charts on the passion scale. Harder pounding, more vocals (groaning, cussing, etc).

Later I asked him about it (I didn't admit to snooping) and after prodding with " this or that" type questions, he finally admitted he would prefer to always finish like that (always!).

So that's a definite kink, right?

Well my Lady, you may call it what you wish...Kink...Kinky (which I'd agree) Fetish....YES. your FWBs is a man after my own mind...Hearing her say "I want you too cum in my mouth".... to me is one of hottest sentences I can hear... This is my preferred finish... only wish I had the willing partner

 

[DallasDonna]

Since it's a 'FWB' arrangement anyway, it's not too far out there, but if it was a serious relationship, I might feel the need to put some limits on this.

 

[vibes]

Since it's a 'FWB' arrangement anyway, it's not too far out there, but if it was a serious relationship, I might feel the need to put some limits on this.

How does it make any difference in this regard?

 

[DallasDonna]

How does it make any difference in this regard?

I understand the , that was kinda dumb. Sorry. Blonde moment. I was thinking since it was a somewhat temporary, mutually beneficial sexual relationship, no commitments, it was easier to indulge a kink. But I realize I wouldn't mind this in a long term relationship either, so nevermind

 

[TalkToMeInSB]

I understand the , that was kinda dumb. Sorry. Blonde moment. I was thinking since it was a somewhat temporary, mutually beneficial sexual relationship, no commitments, it was easier to indulge a kink. But I realize I wouldn't mind this in a long term relationship either, so nevermind

Good on you for accommodating him. That sounds like a fun way to finish, but every time? I personally love finishing deep inside. So I ask you what is your favorite way to finish?

 

[DallasDonna]

Good on you for accommodating him. That sounds like a fun way to finish, but every time? I personally love finishing deep inside. So I ask you what is your favorite way to finish?

Just 'cause he wants 'every time' doesn't make it so.
It will be kept under consideration only.
Me? Variety, please!

 

[rhod101]

It appeals to me too, but in the same way as a facial or cumming on tits does. I want the woman I'm with to like my cum and enjoy it. The taste, smell, texture etc. I want to feel as if she wants it.

 

[TalkToMeInSB]

Just 'cause he wants 'every time' doesn't make it so.
It will be kept under consideration only.
Me? Variety, please!

Good to hear!

 

[magicalmoments]

definitely a kink, maybe not a fetish though.

To me a kink is an interest in something unusual, not necessarily something that you would masturbate too or think about while having sex. A fetish on the other hand does include masturbation or sex.

For instance I have a kink for big natural floppy boobs. I love looking at them, I occassionally get aroused looking at them but it's just something I enjoy, I don't masturbate over them or picture them in my head while having sex. That to me is a kink.

 

[Yachtsman69]

Not kink I think Just a trigger, and it may not be the cum in mouth thing that was the only trigger. For some guys, like me, being asked for something is a big turn on as well.

 

[DallasDonna]

definitely a kink, maybe not a fetish though.

To me a kink is an interest in something unusual, not necessarily something that you would masturbate too or think about while having sex. A fetish on the other hand does include masturbation or sex.

For instance I have a kink for big natural floppy boobs. I love looking at them, I occassionally get aroused looking at them but it's just something I enjoy, I don't masturbate over them or picture them in my head while having sex. That to me is a kink.

Kink,fetish,whatever

 

[Desperado1775]

I don't think it is so much a kink, but maybe too much porn watching. Just my opinion of course.

 

[wildchild24143]

I guess I'm asking if this is very common or not (that being the main focus, over everything else)

Absolutely a huge turn on for me, when I'm fucking a woman and she tells me where she wants me to cum. Bonus points if it's in her mouth of all over her face

 

[avidwriter]

I think it's hot, finishing in a woman's mouth. (Less messy, too!)

 

[DallasDonna]

I don't think it is so much a kink, but maybe too much porn watching. Just my opinion of course.

I agree.

 

[41andone]

what ever you find to push those buttons is all in fun. it is sexy and hot to discover those 'kinks' or 'fetish' and use them to make everything hotter. when I found my girls little desires she went crazy and always came back for more.