WOW, y'all really do talk about every thing...

cbarn95

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I've never been on a site like this, but I find that it's very informative. Considering my very bad introduction to a D/s relationship, that had an extremely bad ending. After two long years I finally found a way out. I did find a man that knew what it was really all about, and treated me right. In return, I treated him right, for almost 20 years. He is no longer in this world, and I miss him. So, I guess I'm trying to find an outlet. I hope this wasn't too depressing. :eek:
 
We talk about everything, and sometimes we don't talk about what your thread is about too.
 
Cancerworld. I've been there.

So...he slapped you around for 20 years and you miss it?
The 2 years relationship before him was very abusive. The 20 year relationship was a good one every thing was mutual and yeah, why wouldn't I miss it.
 
The 2 years relationship before him was very abusive. The 20 year relationship was a good one every thing was mutual and yeah, why wouldn't I miss it.

Never mind Ann, he doesn't understand relationships very well. Even his dog turned itself in to the pound.
 
We talk about everything, and sometimes we don't talk about what your thread is about too.
I get that and understand that. I really don't talk about any of that anymore. Unless there is a need for it. I guess it was a bad way to start that thread. I'm not a pity party, seeking sympathy or attention kind of person. I'm extremely headstrong and opinionated, at least that's what my husband always said. :)
 
Never mind Ann, he doesn't understand relationships very well. Even his dog turned itself in to the pound.

I have a difficult time understanding someone so desperate for a relationship that they would let their partner beat them. I guess I'm just not as evolved as youall.
 
He had cancer. He passed away in June.

I am very sorry for your loss.

And I am going to give you a fair warning to a seemingly ok newbie.

The GB is a wonderful place, but it does take a thick skin and the ability to pretend the ugly that gets posted doesn't exist.
 
I get that and understand that. I really don't talk about any of that anymore. Unless there is a need for it. I guess it was a bad way to start that thread. I'm not a pity party, seeking sympathy or attention kind of person. I'm extremely headstrong and opinionated, at least that's what my husband always said. :)

I meant not specifically your thread, but any thread.
 
I get that and understand that. I really don't talk about any of that anymore. Unless there is a need for it. I guess it was a bad way to start that thread. I'm not a pity party, seeking sympathy or attention kind of person. I'm extremely headstrong and opinionated, at least that's what my husband always said. :)

Hi, I have an indomitable spirit, or it is said.
 
I am very sorry for your loss.

And I am going to give you a fair warning to a seemingly ok newbie.

The GB is a wonderful place, but it does take a thick skin and the ability to pretend the ugly that gets posted doesn't exist.
Thank You. :)
 
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