I've never been on a site like this, but I find that it's very informative. Considering my very bad introduction to a D/s relationship, that had an extremely bad ending. After two long years I finally found a way out. I did find a man that knew what it was really all about, and treated me right. In return, I treated him right, for almost 20 years. He is no longer in this world, and I miss him. So, I guess I'm trying to find an outlet. I hope this wasn't too depressing. 