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Supergirl79

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Im an fairly honest person, i mean im not perfect. I make my intention pretty clear in the beginning.

I like keeping things simple. I dont want any physical interaction.

I dont want to see you, in any form or fashion. I honestly dont care. yeah I pick and choose my chat partners, based on what you say, but who doesnt.

I just want to talk/chat on a social level, maybe play a little naughty somethin somethin. Am I wrong for this. Im finding a lot of people who get very defensive when i tell them i dont share pictures.

Have friends at an arms length.

This is my way of getting thru what can sometimes be a boring day, and have some fun.

Am I wrong on any of this??
 
Im an fairly honest person, i mean im not perfect. I make my intention pretty clear in the beginning.

I like keeping things simple. I dont want any physical interaction.

I dont want to see you, in any form or fashion. I honestly dont care. yeah I pick and choose my chat partners, based on what you say, but who doesnt.

I just want to talk/chat on a social level, maybe play a little naughty somethin somethin. Am I wrong for this. Im finding a lot of people who get very defensive when i tell them i dont share pictures.

Have friends at an arms length.

This is my way of getting thru what can sometimes be a boring day, and have some fun.

Am I wrong on any of this??
Nope....

Seems pretty fair..if you can't act like an adult...don't live in the adult world...

If a person say NO...it means no...respect the boundaries...

Nope not wrong at all....
 
I agree in that there's always a line you just don't cross. If the line crossing was permitted, its between two people...not one who decides to take upon themselves to do so.

If that's what you want....and from my point of view, you are being generous with you time and passion involved, then you take what you can get and enjoy.

Its like eating a banana, perfectly ripe, you eat one and move on....too many..well ya know?
 
Im an fairly honest person, i mean im not perfect. I make my intention pretty clear in the beginning.

I like keeping things simple. I dont want any physical interaction.

I dont want to see you, in any form or fashion. I honestly dont care. yeah I pick and choose my chat partners, based on what you say, but who doesnt.

I just want to talk/chat on a social level, maybe play a little naughty somethin somethin. Am I wrong for this. Im finding a lot of people who get very defensive when i tell them i dont share pictures.

Have friends at an arms length.

This is my way of getting thru what can sometimes be a boring day, and have some fun.

Am I wrong on any of this??

Nope. I see nothing wrong at all if that is what you want.
 
Judge

I dont want to be that judgmental bitch who gets turned off because im not attracted to them or...I could be missing out on something else.
 
Im an fairly honest person, i mean im not perfect. I make my intention pretty clear in the beginning.

I like keeping things simple. I dont want any physical interaction.

I dont want to see you, in any form or fashion. I honestly dont care. yeah I pick and choose my chat partners, based on what you say, but who doesnt.

I just want to talk/chat on a social level, maybe play a little naughty somethin somethin. Am I wrong for this. Im finding a lot of people who get very defensive when i tell them i dont share pictures.

Have friends at an arms length.

This is my way of getting thru what can sometimes be a boring day, and have some fun.

Am I wrong on any of this??

You are totally worth not having the picture ;)
 
It's not your problem

some guys on here get hung up on making sure you are "real" they want to be sure they are talking to a woman.

but that's their problem, not yours.
 
i can understand, if people want to make sure they are real not really a guy. Sure I can give you a picture. Let me go find a random picture on the internet. Now a days i can find a whole lifetimes worth. Its like back in the day when it was scares when pictures were in short supply online.

I dont want to have to lie like that.

Im as real as they come, and I'll tell you exactly what i want to tell you. If i dont like the question we will move on.
 
Im an fairly honest person, i mean im not perfect. I make my intention pretty clear in the beginning.

I like keeping things simple. I dont want any physical interaction.

I dont want to see you, in any form or fashion. I honestly dont care. yeah I pick and choose my chat partners, based on what you say, but who doesnt.

I just want to talk/chat on a social level, maybe play a little naughty somethin somethin. Am I wrong for this. Im finding a lot of people who get very defensive when i tell them i dont share pictures.

Have friends at an arms length.

This is my way of getting thru what can sometimes be a boring day, and have some fun.

Am I wrong on any of this??

That is your prerogative. If you would like to discuss more, then PM me. Thanks.
 
Im an fairly honest person, i mean im not perfect. I make my intention pretty clear in the beginning.

I like keeping things simple. I dont want any physical interaction.

I dont want to see you, in any form or fashion. I honestly dont care. yeah I pick and choose my chat partners, based on what you say, but who doesnt.

I just want to talk/chat on a social level, maybe play a little naughty somethin somethin. Am I wrong for this. Im finding a lot of people who get very defensive when i tell them i dont share pictures.

Have friends at an arms length.

This is my way of getting thru what can sometimes be a boring day, and have some fun.

Am I wrong on any of this??

Not wrong in any way at all , it's so nice to talk and get to know another person on here and if something naughty happens then so be it !

On a sexual level I'm far more turned on by the interaction , if I wanted pics I would just look at porn , it's a woman's brain I'm after :kiss:
 
Well it's hard to talk on here sometimes people have some expectations and when they are not met they get their feelings hurt. You have to wade through a lot of bodies till you find someone you connect with
 
Not wrong of them to ask once relations have been established, but certainly no reason for them to get upset if you don't want to share pictures. That's an entirely personal decision for you to make, but you also have to accept the consequence that some might not want to continue their association because of that choice.

Personally I don't care about pics either, but it tends to become part of the deal with ongoing relations. So I do keep a limited collection, should someone be curious. But, once you set your boundaries...people need to respect that. Plain and simple.
 
I don't think you're really alone in this. While men are visual, we also don't mind keeping connections at arm's length and just having random fun or conversation. Most of us on here who don't share pictures (men or women) do that so as to maintain real world privacy. We come on Lit to fulfill fantasy and alleviate boredom. I respect those who want to remain private, but don't mind letting their freak flag fly from time to time.
 
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