Taking a chance...Seeing if you're out there

[StacyLeigh]

I've been on and off these Lit forums for nearly 2 years. I started a photo thread, and while it was hard at times to step outside my box, I made several great friends because of it, so I'm incredibly thankful. But I've yet to post a personal ad of my own - here goes nothing!

I use to wonder why girls would feel the need to post an ad here. I mean, my inbox has always been full, what more do you want . But it's never the right guy who messages me. Never the one who "gets" me.

I've grown close to a select few on this site over the years. They have ranged from those who need me 24/7 to fill a void in their marriage, to those to would string me along because they truly had now idea what they wanted, to those who wanted nothing more than a fuck toy. I am not a fuck toy. Actually, at one point in time, I very much was, but not any longer.

I don't want to be a sub, a baby girl, a toy, etc. I want to be a friend, a partner, a lover, an equal. I fully understand the Dom/sub appeal as I once was seeking that. But now, at this point in my life, I want someone who cares for and pleasures me just as I do him.

I'm not naive enough to think I'll find "the one" on these forums (though I fully admit to keeping my fingers crossed!). I'd like to find someone that I feel a true connection with, someone that I can grow to know intimately, and not just sexually. Someone I might call my best friend. I've been manipulated by men on this site in the past so I know I have a high wall built around me. I guess, in the end, I'm looking for someone who thinks I'm worth the effort of tearing it down. Of course, I'm on a sex site, so sexual fun is always a hope, but not with just anyone and not until that connection is built.

Yes, I'm sure I'm asking for a lot, but it's what I crave and what I desire most. Why not just put it out there and see what comes of it?

As for the obligatory "about me" portion of this ad... I'm a 31 year old female from Texas. I love to read, write, paint, hike, and bake. You can check out my photo thread to see what I look like. And yes, my name is Stacy.

Thanks for reading and hope to hear from you

 

[Eclectic2012]

I hope you find what, or who, you're looking for Stacy. And have a little fun as you're looking. I know the most compatible people I've found in chat are ones that I came across when I wasn't really looking; I guess we're just naturally attracted to like-minded people. Good luck in the search.

 

[TexasLawyer]

Hey Stacy. At least you seem to have some idea of what you're looking for. It's better than just being a lost and wondering soul out here in west Texas . I hope your search is fruitful. If you'd ever like to chat, feel free to contact me.

 

[StacyLeigh]

Thank you all for the kind words of good luck

Just a side note: I never meant to imply that being married is a deterrent. I simply hope that I would mean much more to you than simply filling a void in your otherwise happy marriage.

 

[ilovetoeat42]

Hey! I have been a big fan of yours for a long time and i know youve been through a rough time....i am no where near you (ohio) but would still love to get to know you more.

 

[itsmeyourfriend]

Good Afternoon

I am sure you would get the right guy Stacy, don't worry about it. and Life is a series of ups and downs. One cannot run away from this truth. So its better if we accept it because once we accept the pain of life, it minimises in its intensity and we can get along. . and have patience as they say Good things happens to those who wait . Just smile and the world is you're.

 

[JudasIscariot]

I was thinking of helping and maybe pointing you in the right direction in terms of best place to post; in order to meet the kinds of people you're looking for.

However, no matter where you go it's gonna be cock pics and 'I'd like to choke you while jacking off all over my sandwich' messages anyway.

So yeah, my post was pointless. Not the first time and won't be the last.

 

[pfflyerhot]

Hey...

I resemble this post... ...except for being the fuck toy and seeking sub/dom situation. But, you know, different strokes for different folks... I am no one...
Other than that, I could've written this one... ... uh, well... but, not with such clarity and succinctness as Stacy has done here. Mine'd be a fuckin' wall of text, that went off on tangents... and never came back.

I mean... bump!

 

[GimpyIntellect]

I was going to send you a PM, but after checking out your picture thread, reading a few of your other posts, and realizing how many people adore you on this site, I'm going to assume your inbox is jampacked.

If you can't find what you're looking for here, Stacy, that means the rest of us have absolutely no chance whatsoever. They might as well close the doors and burn the place down.

I wish you the best.

 

[VIPER2121]

Good morning Stacy Leigh!

 

[outdoorsman69]

I wish you the best of luck in your search Stacy.. I have followed you in you thread and it seems you have been through a lot. You deserve better... you are a sweetheart and I am sure one lucky guy will figure that out and knock you off you feet.

 

[StacyLeigh]

I'm not sure if I always follow your thought process, but thank you for the positive message

I am sure you would get the right guy Stacy, don't worry about it. and Life is a series of ups and downs. One cannot run away from this truth. So its better if we accept it because once we accept the pain of life, it minimises in its intensity and we can get along. . and have patience as they say Good things happens to those who wait . Just smile and the world is you're.

 

[StacyLeigh]

I have no doubt you are correct. This was a shot in the dark at best.

But as a friendly request to others...please don't post or PM me about your cock. Even if it is "about 6 inch's long and 2 inch's thick" (Not sure that's something to brag about but that is an actual PM I received yesterday.

I was thinking of helping and maybe pointing you in the right direction in terms of best place to post; in order to meet the kinds of people you're looking for.

However, no matter where you go it's gonna be cock pics and 'I'd like to choke you while jacking off all over my sandwich' messages anyway.

So yeah, my post was pointless. Not the first time and won't be the last.

 

[Spenser41]

Hi Stacy. I used to live in Austin back in the mid 80s. I hope you find the right guy for you. All of us want to be loves, wanted desired and cared for. I wish you only the best. Hugs.

 

[BloodMoonRising]

You seem very sincere. Best of luck to you!

 

[myinnerme]

Saying hi

From a fellow Texan I'd like to say hi

I noticed all your pics are down from you pic thread....any way to see them?

I hope it goes well for you, say hi sometime if you ever need someone to chat with, I'm not all cock talk....but I wouldn't say no either

 

[StacyLeigh]

In a moment of haste a while back I took the first few down.... you just have to go a few pages in.

From a fellow Texan I'd like to say hi

I noticed all your pics are down from you pic thread....any way to see them?

I hope it goes well for you, say hi sometime if you ever need someone to chat with, I'm not all cock talk....but I wouldn't say no either

 

[itsmeyourfriend]

Yes its always up to you what you want to do. I am just a fellow passenger, nothing more. May your wishes come true soon.

I'm not sure if I always follow your thought process, but thank you for the positive message

 

[frankie49]

Good post Stacey. I hope you find the person you describe or that he finds you soon.

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

I have no doubt you are correct. This was a shot in the dark at best.

But as a friendly request to others...please don't post or PM me about your cock. Even if it is "about 6 inch's long and 2 inch's thick" (Not sure that's something to brag about but that is an actual PM I received yesterday.

Great, NOW you tell me!

I'm just playing, you seem cool. And a fellow Texan! Nice!

 

[StacyLeigh]

I've revieved several really nice responses - thank you all for your kindness

And by the way, if your username is something like "Horny So&So", I most likely won't be responding to you... Just saying, we are probably after different things here

 

[Anordinaryjoe]

I've revieved several really nice responses - thank you all for your kindness

And by the way, if your username is something like "Horny So&So", I most likely won't be responding to you... Just saying, we are probably after different things here

lol--horny ...
You should never assume though.
Might be a reference to an animalistic charm--you know, horny toads aren't horny

 

[box13]

Hoping you find the right person who is honest and sincere, and who can help you with slowly dismantling some of that wall you've built...at least until they can climb over to the other side and join you.

It definitely has a certain appeal. Worth the time and effort.

 

[CarnalGerund]

I've revieved several really nice responses - thank you all for your kindness

And by the way, if your username is something like "Horny So&So", I most likely won't be responding to you... Just saying, we are probably after different things here

Hi Stacy. Your initial post in this thread is very sweet. I've been lucky enough to meet a few people who are very dear to me on Lit and similar forums. Even though we've all moved on to different phases of life, I count them as great and cherished friends. You just have to be open to it, which is often the hardest thing, to cut through the b.s.

Keep Literotica weird

 

[xanderra]

I've been on and off these Lit forums for nearly 2 years. I started a photo thread, and while it was hard at times to step outside my box, I made several great friends because of it, so I'm incredibly thankful. But I've yet to post a personal ad of my own - here goes nothing!

I use to wonder why girls would feel the need to post an ad here. I mean, my inbox has always been full, what more do you want . But it's never the right guy who messages me. Never the one who "gets" me.

I've grown close to a select few on this site over the years. They have ranged from those who need me 24/7 to fill a void in their marriage, to those to would string me along because they truly had now idea what they wanted, to those who wanted nothing more than a fuck toy. I am not a fuck toy. Actually, at one point in time, I very much was, but not any longer.

I don't want to be a sub, a baby girl, a toy, etc. I want to be a friend, a partner, a lover, an equal. I fully understand the Dom/sub appeal as I once was seeking that. But now, at this point in my life, I want someone who cares for and pleasures me just as I do him.

I'm not naive enough to think I'll find "the one" on these forums (though I fully admit to keeping my fingers crossed!). I'd like to find someone that I feel a true connection with, someone that I can grow to know intimately, and not just sexually. Someone I might call my best friend. I've been manipulated by men on this site in the past so I know I have a high wall built around me. I guess, in the end, I'm looking for someone who thinks I'm worth the effort of tearing it down. Of course, I'm on a sex site, so sexual fun is always a hope, but not with just anyone and not until that connection is built.

Yes, I'm sure I'm asking for a lot, but it's what I crave and what I desire most. Why not just put it out there and see what comes of it?

As for the obligatory "about me" portion of this ad... I'm a 31 year old female from Texas. I love to read, write, paint, hike, and bake. You can check out my photo thread to see what I look like. And yes, my name is Stacy.

Thanks for reading and hope to hear from you

Wow you sound like a great person. I'm sure your pm's have been flooded! I wish I could find someone like you are looking for. Wish you luck in your search
Xan