Is giving fellatio overrated?

[Biblackchick83]

People go CRAZY for it on this website.

The first time I did this to a guy I was like 20. We were in the backseat of his blue car. We meant online and meant in a parking lot. I remember listening to Justin Timberlake and he pulled it out right in my front of me and started stoking it. I remember just doing what I saw in the adult video clips that I saw on the internet at the time (this was 2003). He came really fast, and asked me for a towel. I had a purple bandanna in the truck of my little blue car, and gave it to him. He had such a childish look on his face. Him sitting in the seat of his car, wiping his cum away, the whole scene, was just...so grimy and so overrated. I gave a few other guys head too, within a year of that encounter. I can say with all honesty that it was overrated, but I don't mind doing it, but I don't get what is the big deal with it. My mouth was sore, the soreness never left my mouth.

I've never swallowed cum btw, only tasted precum.


Now I don't do it nowadays because I know its kind of a health risk doing that. But the cock and cum worship on this board is off the charts. I guess with me I dont mind doing that, but I just wont do that to anybody, get what I'm saying? Thats not something I just do just like that.

 

[JudasIscariot]

 

[suckonsimon]

With all due respect, chick, I'm sure glad my woman has the diametrically opposite view to yours on this one! My answer to the thread question, "NO!"

 

[Biblackchick83]

I'm not against oral sex, but I just think sucking dick is overrated sometimes. Hell, I'll do it but its overrated too.

I personally think porn makes fellatio look better then what it actually is. Women are SUCH ACTRESSES!

 

[holliday1960]

People go CRAZY for it on this website.

The first time I did this to a guy I was like 20. We were in the backseat of his blue car. We meant online and meant in a parking lot. I remember listening to Justin Timberlake and he pulled it out right in my front of me and started stoking it. I remember just doing what I saw in the adult video clips that I saw on the internet at the time (this was 2003). He came really fast, and asked me for a towel. I had a purple bandanna in the truck of my little blue car, and gave it to him. He had such a childish look on his face. Him sitting in the seat of his car, wiping his cum away, the whole scene, was just...so grimy and so overrated. I gave a few other guys head too, within a year of that encounter. I can say with all honesty that it was overrated, but I don't mind doing it, but I don't get what is the big deal with it. My mouth was sore, the soreness never left my mouth.

I've never swallowed cum btw, only tasted precum.


Now I don't do it nowadays because I know its kind of a health risk doing that. But the cock and cum worship on this board is off the charts. I guess with me I dont mind doing that, but I just wont do that to anybody, get what I'm saying? Thats not something I just do just like that.

As a woman, no, I do not believe it is overrated. As a Bi female I would make an assumption that you enjoy oral sex? Men enjoy it just as much as women. Many women would prefer doing other things, I suppose, for various reasons, but it can be a very sensual and pleasant experience for both. As for your mouth being sore, that comes from two things; inexperience and sometimes just simply spending too much time using the same facial muscles. My advice would be, try not to focus on his orgasm. Relax and have fun using it to tease him to orgasm. Fellatio really shouldn't be seen as 'a job' but rather 'an adventure!' lol (hmm...now we know why the military chose that slogan!)

 

[JudasIscariot]

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[Biblackchick83]

It's not about you, that's why you think it's overrated.

Jeez, it's about pleasuring the other person.

I'm glad I've never been blown by you, and never will. I'll bet you moan about the weather as you're sucking cock n all.

 

[janeyl]

People go CRAZY for it on this website.

The first time I did this to a guy I was like 20. We were in the backseat of his blue car. We meant online and meant in a parking lot. I remember listening to Justin Timberlake and he pulled it out right in my front of me and started stoking it. I remember just doing what I saw in the adult video clips that I saw on the internet at the time (this was 2003). He came really fast, and asked me for a towel. I had a purple bandanna in the truck of my little blue car, and gave it to him. He had such a childish look on his face. Him sitting in the seat of his car, wiping his cum away, the whole scene, was just...so grimy and so overrated. I gave a few other guys head too, within a year of that encounter. I can say with all honesty that it was overrated, but I don't mind doing it, but I don't get what is the big deal with it. My mouth was sore, the soreness never left my mouth.

I've never swallowed cum btw, only tasted precum.


Now I don't do it nowadays because I know its kind of a health risk doing that. But the cock and cum worship on this board is off the charts. I guess with me I dont mind doing that, but I just wont do that to anybody, get what I'm saying? Thats not something I just do just like that.

It sounds to me like it was the situation that was grimy and over rated which you appear to have now associated with the act...

It's not over rated for me, it's something I love to do, but that desire is about so much more than the act in isolation...I watch other women and men do it and always wonder how we all came to our own technique and how it works for us and our partners...and whether they change it to adapt to the needs and desires of the man they're fellating...in the same way as the best lovers I've had, have adapted theirs by measuring my responses...

I see giving good head as an art form...my art is constantly evolving...it'll never stop...I learn something new from each cock I draw into my mouth and from the men they're attached to...and from each woman and man I watch performing it too...

 

[janeyl]

It's not about you, that's why you think it's overrated.

Jeez, it's about pleasuring the other person.

I'm glad I've never been blown by you, and never will. I'll bet you moan about the weather as you're sucking cock n all.

But come on Shaun-the pleasure is always greater for the receiver if the giver is enjoying it...

 

[suckonsimon]

I see giving good head as an art form...

That's it Jane! I receive it - both the feel and the look - in that spirit. And the whole picture: context, lighting, exchange of looks, position of bodies, is so much part of the beauty of it, as well as the supremely intimate action going on.

LUV what you say, Jane.

 

[janeyl]

I'm not against oral sex, but I just think sucking dick is overrated sometimes. Hell, I'll do it but its overrated too.

I personally think porn makes fellatio look better then what it actually is. Women are SUCH ACTRESSES!

Porn makes everything look better than it is...supposedly...

I don't watch it...

 

[JudasIscariot]

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[janeyl]

Yes that's a given. I probably should have mentioned that too.

But I was too busy directing it at the op, who doesn't seem like she enjoys it or is even willing to try and enjoy it.

Just because of one poor experience. I got a mouth full of pubes once, I never knocked giving oral for the rest of my life and saying it was overrated.

People's experience will always influence their opinions about things...it will depend on the affect it has on them as to whether they're willing to try it again...if I'd let my first experience of anal colour my entire opinion of it, I wouldn't love some of the things I enjoy today...but I had someone who I trusted enough to walk me through it again and I was probably mature and smart enough to work through the psychological barriers too...not everyone has that ability in their toolbox...

I fell arse over tit in town the other day...I'm not in a hurry to repeat the experience any time soon...

 

[JudasIscariot]

People's experience will always influence their opinions about things...it will depend on the affect it has on them as to whether they're willing to try it again...if I'd let my first experience of anal colour my entire opinion of it, I wouldn't love some of the things I enjoy today...but I had someone who I trusted enough to walk me through it again and I was probably mature and smart enough to work through the psychological barriers too...not everyone has that ability in their toolbox...

I fell arse over tit in town the other day...I'm not in a hurry to repeat the experience any time soon...

You're right. It's too early and I am being grumpy and nitpicking.

 

[holliday1960]

I'm not against oral sex, but I just think sucking dick is overrated sometimes. Hell, I'll do it but its overrated too.

I personally think porn makes fellatio look better then what it actually is. Women are SUCH ACTRESSES!

Hmm...everything in porn is overly played...it is intended to entertain. To assume that All women do not enjoy giving head is just wrong! (Or to assume that they are only acting like they like it..) That being said, this is something that just may not turn you on...if that's the case...don't do it.
But, I would ask one question...do you enjoy giving a woman oral sex? I don't and therefore, I don't do females. It's a matter of tastes. (pardon the pun everyone)
I do think that it is unfair for the men on the board to be so harsh in their criticisms. I'm sorry some of the comments were made to you in the thread.
As for health risks involved, there is no more risk involved here than in intercourse. (In fact, giving oral to a man is one of the easiest and most discreet methods of determining if there might be a health risk as men show more physical signs of stds than women do.) As a Bi female you are at greater risk having any kind of sex with another female than with a male partner. Just sayin'...

 

[janeyl]

You're right. It's too early and I am being grumpy and nitpicking.

*prescribes more coffee...*

I felt like a right tit...

 

[southern_gal]

But come on Shaun-the pleasure is always greater for the receiver if the giver is enjoying it...

Honestly I would have to disagree with this. I really do believe that I get more from giving my husband a blowjob than he does. I like to think I'm good at it and he does enjoy getting them but for me, it's so much more of a non physical enjoyment that I think makes me get more out of it than him. I have sub desires that never stop. Don't get me wrong I crave orgasms as much as the next person but seeing the look of complete satisfaction on his face, especially when I'm on my knees (we'll cover that in a second) just sends me over the moon. If it makes him happy then there simply isn't much that I won't do. My own orgasm is secondary by a long way.

Now to the on my knees part. It is easier (or at least more comfortable) for me to give him a bj when he's lying down and I'm beside him but I really prefer him standing and me on my knees. The only reason I have for this is that he just gets a look that is so different when I'm kneeling and he's looking down at me. He is more likely to throat fuck me and get a bit more aggressive when I do it like this and I cannot even begin to describe how much I want this.

I guess physically, yeah you are right in that he does get more pleasure from receiving than I do in giving but my pleasure goes so far beyond the physical that it really worries me to think that someday he wouldn't want me doing that for him anymore. Hope this makes sense.

 

[klippert]

Fellatio...is that some kind of Sea food dish....

 

[suckonsimon]

Fellatio...is that some kind of Sea food dish....

In the end it tastes like it is, k!

 

[southern_gal]

In the end it tastes like it is, k!

Stop sucking on squid.

 

[36524]

I agree with janeyl.

But my first experience wasn't a good one, either. It hurt my neck, my jaw, my arm, it's physically very demanding, even now. But to "service" my boyfriend and feel his body tense and hear how much pleasure I'm giving him is how it never feels overrated. Plus, I love him, he's not a rando. I know what I'm doing now, I'm aware of my sub tendencies, and I just love how it feels in my mouth.

 

[suckonsimon]

^^^
So nicely put, 36524. Thanks on behalf of your guy and guys in general!

 

[JudasIscariot]

Stop sucking on squid.

Get off his face then

 

[suckonsimon]

Stop sucking on squid.

Hey gal, it was oyster I had in mind ...

 

[DallasDonna]

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Too late, Shaun.
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