Need Help

So, I've been with this girl for 7 years now.. Obviously there's things I don't like about her and vice versa. within the last 4-5 weeks I' ve meet a girl during a wedding.. there was an instant connection between the both of us.. at first I thought it was just me being away from my g/f for a few days and lust.. but until this day I can't stop thinking about her.. we talk some what often.. But just seeing her number on my phone makes me smile.. gives me butterflies.. seems like i can talk for days with her.. I know it isn't right.. and i don't feel right for doing it to my g/f just i don't know what else to do.. we live in different towns.. its almost impossible to hook up with this other girl.. but i feel that i want to more than i want to be with my current g/f... in a tough situation and have no idea what to do. should i just stop and try and forget about her? which seems impossible.. or should i take that chance and leave my g.f and try it with this other girl?

If you came here for reassurance that it is just mighty fine to fuck around on your gf, you have come to the wrong place, you fuckwad two timer. She's a perfectly wonderful and beautiful woman, and this is how you treat her? Go choke on a bag of dicks.

Also, you sound like a whiny assclown.

Quoted for day crew. You're welcome.
 
you should break up so that she can find a decent guy.

what you do after that? I don't care.
 
Of course he's into mommy stories. So. Gross.

Hey, I've read this story a long time ago and I can't remember the name nor can i find it in the search.
Its a mom/son story where they visit the nurses office. in order for them to find out exactly whats wrong with the son he needs to have sex. after trying to figure out who would do it the mother finally agrees to do it herself infront of the nurse on the table.
if anyone knows what im talking about please pm me or reply here with the story name. Thanks
 
If you have been with your G/F for 7 years and are not thinking about slipping a ring on her finger by now, perhaps your answer is simple. Sounds likely that it is time for an honest conversation about where your relationship is going.

After 7 years, however, you do owe her a commitment or to let her go, not just cheat on her.
 
New is always exciting. That butterfly feeling lasts one year. After that, a deeper but less exciting bond forms. Or it doesn't. Your interest in the new girl tell me more about your current relationship then it tells you about the potential you have with her.


If you're not interested in the long haul with this girl that you spend 7 years with you need to get out and do it gracefully before you even consider someone new.

As far as marriage goes marriages that start as an adulterous relationship have a 3 percent success rate.

Probably similar stats for other kinds of relationships..


I'm fond of a line from a country song that says what are you gonna do when the new wears off in the old shines through?
 
I had a friend who did what you are contemplating and it turned out to be the biggest mistake of his life, but when he realized it, it was too late, he had hurt her too much for it to be repaired, even though she did still love him.
He mistook newness and lust for lasting love, did this for many years actually, but unfortunately relationships and love can not be built only on sex and lust...
 
Nice...you all chased him away. Are you not ashamed?

*shakes head* :cool:
Nah...

He's hiding from his girl in the bathroom sexting the chick against all of our carefully reasoned adice.

~shrug~
 
When I want to go to another town, I drive there. It almost makes being old enough to have a driver's license, a car and gas that is not in the form of farts all worth it.
 
I love that you all do this. :D

To be fair, it was my assholishness that led to the OP deleting his post, but in my defense, I want to kick the balls of every cheater who comes here for validation.
 
in order for them to find out exactly whats wrong with the son he needs to have sex.

What the fuck disease could that be, and how do I get it?
 
To be fair, it was my assholishness that led to the OP deleting his post, but in my defense, I want to kick the balls of every cheater who comes here for validation.

I have several pairs of boots you're welcome to borrow.
 
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