If you go searching for it, you will find it

[sothickwidit]

I was reading some old emails and instant messages from a past online relationship and began to really miss them. I felt as if I was travelling through time as some of the messages went back to 2010. I thought that I had deleted all their messages and emails but I was wrong. I loved this person greatly. I fought myself for what I thought we had which was legitimate love.

For unknown reasons, I decided to copy and paste their email address into google and that led me to Literotica. I had no clue that this person was a member of this site and much less regularly posts and has posted as recently as 10-1-14.

I continued my quest and found that on a particular day, he posted something on this site that was contrary to what he told me that very day.

I'm having such a issue with this because I always suspected deep down that he didn't truly care for me the way he said. Classic catfish before catfish was actually a thing. I guess my point is, trust your initial instincts. If you think someone is being dishonest, it's probably because they are. If you suspect that someone doesn't love you and your suspicions are based on their actions or lack thereof, don't try and convince yourself otherwise.

And to that person, I'm sure he may read this and not even know it is about him, why did you lie to me? For 2 years, you dismissed my suspicions and continued to insert yourself in my life when you knew all along you never really loved me the way you said you did, you never truly wanted to be with me. You just wanted someone to sext with and send you naughty photos as requested in your post that I found. Which like I told you, is fine. I was attracted to you and you turned me on like no other. You didn't have to pretend to love me or be in love with me. That was so unnecessary. That explains why you would disappear from time to time and LIE about it saying you were apart of the armed forces and couldn't communicate from time time. I'm hurt but not completely shocked. As I said, I suspected you were a fraud and after all this time, I finally found the answer I'd been searching for.

 

[Stewart_Pidd]

I was reading some old emails and instant messages from a past online relationship and began to really miss them. I felt as if I was travelling through time as some of the messages went back to 2010. I thought that I had deleted all their messages and emails but I was wrong. I loved this person greatly. I fought myself for what I thought we had which was legitimate love.

For unknown reasons, I decided to copy and paste their email address into google and that led me to Literotica. I had no clue that this person was a member of this site and much less regularly posts and has posted as recently as 10-1-14.

I continued my quest and found that on a particular day, he posted something on this site that was contrary to what he told me that very day.

I'm having such a issue with this because I always suspected deep down that he didn't truly care for me the way he said. Classic catfish before catfish was actually a thing. I guess my point is, trust your initial instincts. If you think someone is being dishonest, it's probably because they are. If you suspect that someone doesn't love you and your suspicions are based on their actions or lack thereof, don't try and convince yourself otherwise.

And to that person, I'm sure he may read this and not even know it is about him, why did you lie to me? For 2 years, you dismissed my suspicions and continued to insert yourself in my life when you knew all along you never really loved me the way you said you did, you never truly wanted to be with me. You just wanted someone to sext with and send you naughty photos as requested in your post that I found. Which like I told you, is fine. I was attracted to you and you turned me on like no other. You didn't have to pretend to love me or be in love with me. That was so unnecessary. That explains why you would disappear from time to time and LIE about it saying you were apart of the armed forces and couldn't communicate from time time. I'm hurt but not completely shocked. As I said, I suspected you were a fraud and after all this time, I finally found the answer I'd been searching for.

it's not you, it's me bro!

Stew

 

[parodyluvr75]

So he betrayed you how long ago?

Unless you want to post his lit user name (no real names or emails) to warn other ladies or men about him, why are you posting this?

I say delete the rest of his emails and pretend he died in a freak lawn mower accident.

Luv,

Birdy

 

[Que]

I have never understood the drive for people to seek out little monogamous pairings in online life. Usually, that online portion of so called real life is some kind of escapism. What possible difference does it make if, in their compartmentalization, they are also engaged in similar little furtive fantasies with other people?

It doesn't sound like the original poster has specific regrets with the sextings and pics and what not, only that the person felt the need to be someone they were not to accomplish that.

It is all very weird to me. Lets say you had a favorite novelist. Your copy of their best work was tattered and torn. You had always assumed from the name and authors voice that the person was of Belgian extraction and male. Later, you find that the author is actually a rather short Guatemalan woman. How does that change the content of the book?

 

[lovetoread]

I was reading some old emails and instant messages from a past online relationship and began to really miss them. I felt as if I was travelling through time as some of the messages went back to 2010. I thought that I had deleted all their messages and emails but I was wrong. I loved this person greatly. I fought myself for what I thought we had which was legitimate love.

For unknown reasons, I decided to copy and paste their email address into google and that led me to Literotica. I had no clue that this person was a member of this site and much less regularly posts and has posted as recently as 10-1-14.

I continued my quest and found that on a particular day, he posted something on this site that was contrary to what he told me that very day.

I'm having such a issue with this because I always suspected deep down that he didn't truly care for me the way he said. Classic catfish before catfish was actually a thing. I guess my point is, trust your initial instincts. If you think someone is being dishonest, it's probably because they are. If you suspect that someone doesn't love you and your suspicions are based on their actions or lack thereof, don't try and convince yourself otherwise.

And to that person, I'm sure he may read this and not even know it is about him, why did you lie to me? For 2 years, you dismissed my suspicions and continued to insert yourself in my life when you knew all along you never really loved me the way you said you did, you never truly wanted to be with me. You just wanted someone to sext with and send you naughty photos as requested in your post that I found. Which like I told you, is fine. I was attracted to you and you turned me on like no other. You didn't have to pretend to love me or be in love with me. That was so unnecessary. That explains why you would disappear from time to time and LIE about it saying you were apart of the armed forces and couldn't communicate from time time. I'm hurt but not completely shocked. As I said, I suspected you were a fraud and after all this time, I finally found the answer I'd been searching for.

So who did this?

 

[Killswitch]

You actually believed all those things I told you and when I said I love you?

And you should have pm'd me privately.

 

[bg23]

Do the rest of the women here a favor and name names. You'll at least prevent somebody else from going through what you went through.

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

I was reading some old emails and instant messages from a past online relationship and began to really miss them. I felt as if I was travelling through time as some of the messages went back to 2010. I thought that I had deleted all their messages and emails but I was wrong. I loved this person greatly. I fought myself for what I thought we had which was legitimate love.

For unknown reasons, I decided to copy and paste their email address into google and that led me to Literotica. I had no clue that this person was a member of this site and much less regularly posts and has posted as recently as 10-1-14.

I continued my quest and found that on a particular day, he posted something on this site that was contrary to what he told me that very day.

I'm having such a issue with this because I always suspected deep down that he didn't truly care for me the way he said. Classic catfish before catfish was actually a thing. I guess my point is, trust your initial instincts. If you think someone is being dishonest, it's probably because they are. If you suspect that someone doesn't love you and your suspicions are based on their actions or lack thereof, don't try and convince yourself otherwise.

And to that person, I'm sure he may read this and not even know it is about him, why did you lie to me? For 2 years, you dismissed my suspicions and continued to insert yourself in my life when you knew all along you never really loved me the way you said you did, you never truly wanted to be with me. You just wanted someone to sext with and send you naughty photos as requested in your post that I found. Which like I told you, is fine. I was attracted to you and you turned me on like no other. You didn't have to pretend to love me or be in love with me. That was so unnecessary. That explains why you would disappear from time to time and LIE about it saying you were apart of the armed forces and couldn't communicate from time time. I'm hurt but not completely shocked. As I said, I suspected you were a fraud and after all this time, I finally found the answer I'd been searching for.

It wasn't me this time.

 

[Aquagal]

Since when do email addresses backtrack to Lit, is that real?

That's creepy.

 

[Que]

Since when do email addresses backtrack to Lit, is that real?

That's creepy.

Probably if they mentioned it in a thread or have their messenger handle in their profile.

 

[unregistered]

 

[Aquagal]

I don't think it works that way. Granted, my Lit email isn't one I've accessed in eons, but still.

This opening post should've been a Dear X post.

No, I still think she oughta name a douchebag.

Although, we haven't heard if it was an exclusive thing, or just assumed. There's too little info going on to assess yet.

Probably if they mentioned it in a thread or have their messenger handle in their profile.

Ahh I see what you mean.

 

[Vikingstone]

Do the rest of the women here a favor and name names. You'll at least prevent somebody else from going through what you went through.

I was just thinking the same thing.

More unnamed emotional predators we DON'T need.

 

[thør]

Since when do email addresses backtrack to Lit, is that real?

That's creepy.

They can if you post them publicly.

 

[Aquagal]

They can if you post them publicly.

*checks thor's profile.

 

[unregistered]

 

[unregistered]

 

[Aquagal]

Haha!!

Douchebag doesn't apply though.

 

[thør]

Haha!!

Douchebag doesn't apply though.

Thanks!

 

[lovetoread]

I still want to know who the fuck this is about.

Is it a gber or a pger?

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

I still want to know who the fuck this is about.

Is it a gber or a pger?

It sounded like Sean's MO to me also.