How do I make masturbation more pleasurable?

[ThatOneBlindGuy]

Greetings all,
As someone who is, unfortunately, possessed of an extremely high sexdrive, I'm seeking a way to enjoy masturbation more. Of course I understand the gist of what I'm supposed to do, and it ultimately works, but is there any way to make it more fulfilling than it is for me now? I'm already doing it multiple times per day, yet over time I seem only to be worse off. Does this make any sense? Thanks for any help.

 

[MichaelinChina]

sit on your hand until it goes numb..then wank..it feels like someone else is doing it for you.

a mate of mine told me this years ago, when he was working for weeks away from his woman.

 

[shiny5437]

If you're lucky enough to still have your foreskin you can check out the Canadian foreskin awareness project: can-fap.

Basically, the frenulum is the future. And the ridged band. Give it a go. It can be bit of a slow build so you might not feel much initially but it's worth it in the end.

Check out the vids

http://www.can-fap.net/preview/fundraiser_preview_fremgasm.shtml
http://www.can-fap.net/preview/fundraiser_preview_multipleforegasm.shtml

Try it out and report back.

 

[nakedworld]

sit on your hand until it goes numb..then wank..it feels like someone else is doing it for you.

a mate of mine told me this years ago, when he was working for weeks away from his woman.

It might sound strange but I normally use my left hand (my normal writing one) when masterbating, however if I use the right hand it feels a little bit like someone else is doing it, and it often takes me longer to cum.

 

[ThatOneBlindGuy]

Thanks all! Though I'm not sure videos will help, I'm totally going to try these other things.

 

[amofiga]

Try getting one of those "fleshlight" things or some other toy to make it different. Try a varieties of vibrator along with your old-fashined conventional hand. Try a butt plug. Try it standing on your head so you can cum on your own face. Try it driving down the highway. Try it in a movie... oh not so good....talk to Pee Wee Herman about that. Let your mind wander.

 

[simplegirl]

how about using lube or lotion to make masturbation nice and slick, it would change the sensation a bit. And edging..bring yourself to the brink of cumming but stop before doing so, let yourself come back from the edge a bit and then start wanking again. If you do a few times in a row before letting yourself cum, you'll build up to a huge orgasm when you finally let yourself go. And as Amofiga said, if you can afford one Fleshlights are great fun.

 

[ThatOneBlindGuy]

OK, sooo... I very, very recently tried the opposite hand thing, and it didn't fool me. I still very consciously knew it was me, so it didn't increase the pleasure. Also, I've heard of Edging before, but never actually tried it because I didn't think I could keep it going for very long, but hey, I guess it's worth a shot.

 

[shiny5437]

Thanks all! Though I'm not sure videos will help, I'm totally going to try these other things.

The vids are more instructional than 'inspirational'.

 

[jehoram]

I'm already doing it multiple times per day, yet over time I seem only to be worse off.

That may be your problem. Try cutting back to one or two times. Think quality, not quantity. And practice being on that pre-orgasmic "edge" longer.

 

[stlgoddessfreya]

If you're masturbating several times a day and it's losing pleasure and effectiveness, you may be doing your junk some harm with a Death Grip.

http://www.curedeathgrip.com/

Making sure you can get off with different kinds of stimulation by yourself is how you'll be able to do the same with a partner and avoid needless intimacy issues.

Also, have you tried prostate stimulation? Aneros makes some great toys for solo use.

 

[Zeb_Carter]

Put some sand in you KY jelly...that'll stop you from doing it too much.

 

[jomar]

Buy some Bengay and use it liberally. You're welcome.

 

[ThatOneBlindGuy]

I again appreciate everyone's comments, but I feel I should clarify some things. My apologies, I'm not great at discussing this sort of thing.
First, masturbation hasn't been losing pleasurability for me. I definitely haven't messed anything up. I just do it, it feels great, but I find myself horny again only a short time later. Sorry if I wasn't clear on that point.
Second, I've actually never used lubrication. Sorry if this is tmi, but I actually have very smooth skin, and haven't needed it.

 

[SunDevilGirl]

I again appreciate everyone's comments, but I feel I should clarify some things. My apologies, I'm not great at discussing this sort of thing.
First, masturbation hasn't been losing pleasurability for me. I definitely haven't messed anything up. I just do it, it feels great, but I find myself horny again only a short time later. Sorry if I wasn't clear on that point.
Second, I've actually never used lubrication. Sorry if this is tmi, but I actually have very smooth skin, and haven't needed it.

So... maybe you should be asking "How do I make masturbation LESS pleasurable?"

 

[Zeb_Carter]

So... maybe you should be asking "How do I make masturbation LESS pleasurable?"

Put some sand in the KY Jelly.

 

[MichaelinChina]

Someone, somewhere on Lit, suggested coring an apple and fucking it. Silly me tried it..fuck it hurt!!

 

[Zeb_Carter]

Someone, somewhere on Lit, suggested coring an apple and fucking it. Silly me tried it..fuck it hurt!!

No...you stuff raw liver in a can and fuck that. I have never tried it, I like liver to much, but the guy who told me swore it was just like the inside of a woman.

 

[Kalamain]

I believe that cock rings can change the feeling and intensity of an orgasm.. Not tried it myself.

I would really suggest a p-spot vibe...

The other thing you could try is different types of lube...Some can be heating and others freezing. (Not painful...Just different)

Have you tried actively NOT wanking for a whole day? Let the anticipation of the wanting you are having now to build up. you THINK about wanking and all the feelings that go with it and only allow the release after a set time.
Your imagination is a MAJOR part of an orgasm... Maybe feeding it could change it?

Worth a try.

 

[subwannabe]

The mind works wonders.

 

[ThatOneBlindGuy]

I think if it was less pleasurable I'd just end up Horner. I see what you mean though. You guys have been tremendous. And trust me, my imagination is very good. But I wanted to tell you all that thanks to you, I may have found the key for me. After reading some of these posts, I finally decided to try the edging thing. Only once so far, but it was incredible. I wasn't giving myself enough time to truly build up. Time will tell whether this remains effective, but I am pretty confident.

 

[kurvy1]

Edging

I think if it was less pleasurable I'd just end up Horner. I see what you mean though. You guys have been tremendous. And trust me, my imagination is very good. But I wanted to tell you all that thanks to you, I may have found the key for me. After reading some of these posts, I finally decided to try the edging thing. Only once so far, but it was incredible. I wasn't giving myself enough time to truly build up. Time will tell whether this remains effective, but I am pretty confident.

Edging is awesome! I am not a guy, but edging is really amazing. The build-up is great. See how many times you can take yourself to the edge...my record is 58. Perhaps set a specific time, and not allow yourself to orgasm until that time; challenge yourself to edge as many times you can until said time.

I think the prostate toys are also a good suggestion...

 

[ThatOneBlindGuy]

I never thought to count how many times I got to the edge, but then I've only done this twice now. Sounds fun!

 

[Kalamain]

3 days of edging.... At least 4 or 5 proper wanks (No orgasm) with a lot of touching and single strokes..

When I came at the end I thought I was going to black out! It took AGES for the shakes to stop and my heart to calm down to normal.

Another trick might well be to not actually wank properly buy envision yourself cumming in various ways. Get that imagination working!

 

[ThatOneBlindGuy]

Wow! 3 days? I've got a long way to go for that.