Do you say 'I love you' when you fuck someone the first time?...

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Would it be insincere or what you genuinely believe it at the time? Or perhaps you really have fallen in love at that point? Maybe you never have on principle? Is it not romantic and does it not enhance the passion?...
 
No.

And passion enhances the passion. First "I love you's" should be left for when our brains and bodies aren't working off basic instinct.
 
Would it be insincere or what you genuinely believe it at the time? Or perhaps you really have fallen in love at that point? Maybe you never have on principle? Is it not romantic and does it not enhance the passion?...

of course
 
Hell no.

I love you is for that person you've been with a few times and things have gone from "fucking" to intimacy. I love you is a love making thing, not a pants around my knees their skirt over their hips, jacking them up against the wall encounter.
 
Hell no.

I love you is for that person you've been with a few times and things have gone from "fucking" to intimacy. I love you is a love making thing, not a pants around my knees their skirt over their hips, jacking them up against the wall encounter.

But what about that 'bottled up' encounter? The one you've spent, the two of you, many months cultivating? Surely, maybe, then?....
 
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But what about that 'bottled up' encounter? The one you've spent, the two you, many months cultivating? Surely, maybe, then?....

No, even with my wife-who between flirting, playing coy and shooting em down a few times and the several weeks of dating before we "hooked up" I didn't say it.

Then again by that time all that build up led to the aforementioned fucking against the wall. That's where reality differs from fiction. Most first times are not candle lit rose petal lovemaking sessions.

I say it now sometimes during, but we've been together a long time now.

Before her it was casual flings and stands, I was never much for "real dating"
 
What about during conceiving? That would be a rather nice touch wouldn't it? I mean in England there are thousands of little 'uns running around as a result of a one nighter so as the girl can grab herself a council flat....
 
Do you ever say it the 1st time?

I had a guy say it during the 1st time and it seemed as if he meant it.


What about during conceiving? That would be a rather nice touch wouldn't it? I mean in England there are thousands of little 'uns running around as a result of a one nighter so as the girl can grab herself a council flat....
 
I'm in love with the girl in the cage and my supervisor at work, as well as my wife and a girl I met online not maybe a month ago. Happens. I'll let you guess how many of those people I've actually fucked (other than my wife, of course) and to whom I have said the "I love you" bit.

I loved my wife before we even met in person. We just hit it off. I told her how I felt in April of 2004, but we didn't meet in person and have sex until July. Of course, I am polyamorous, so I love a little more freely than some folks.
 
I usually say "Oh God! Oh God! That's right...fuck me, baby!"

At least, if it's going well.
 
Would it be insincere or what you genuinely believe it at the time? Or perhaps you really have fallen in love at that point? Maybe you never have on principle? Is it not romantic and does it not enhance the passion?...



Love and lust are not the same.
 
I don't have a huge emotional range. I just say 'I love you' whenever I love somebody. Unless it's socially fucked up. Like I'm not gonna out anybody.
 
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