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[Erochic]

Hiya.

Hiya! Oh I was just thinking about you I was just ...ahem enjoying the gifs you posted and also admiring and enjoying your new avatar

 

[Erochic]

Thanks both
Yea it's a roller coaster for sure: the frustration of having to temporarily stop dilation v the upset of bleeding and contradictory medical advice. It's difficult to stay positive tbh.

I shouldn't be impatient - I know it'll take a little while to get through this but it has to work out right in the end.

I can imagine it's very hard to stay positive
Gentle non squeezy hugs

Yes... You definitely want it all to heal right, even if it takes longer.

 

[dutchrain]

Thanks but patting my shoulder is not in the cards.

I'll caress yours.

Thanks both
Yea it's a roller coaster for sure: the frustration of having to temporarily stop dilation v the upset of bleeding and contradictory medical advice. It's difficult to stay positive tbh.

I shouldn't be impatient - I know it'll take a little while to get through this but it has to work out right in the end.

Contradictory medical advice? Then do what your own sane mind tells you to do. Yes, don't be too impatient, you knew it wouldn't be a matter of days, and you already have come such a long way!

 

[funluvinaj]

Hiya! Oh I was just thinking about you I was just ...ahem enjoying the gifs you posted and also admiring and enjoying your new avatar

Look who is talking ... You are lovely from any direction.

******

And Sis ... Hang in there...you've endured all of this with so much grace... At least from my view of things. I can't imagination the pain and frustration.

 

[beingtrue2me]

Stickygirl it takes a lot of courage for what you're doing. What if any, regrets have you had on your journey? What if anything would you have done differently. I just really noticed this thread and it's one I gotta go back and read sometime. Take care.

 

[warl0ck1]

Thanks both
Yea it's a roller coaster for sure: the frustration of having to temporarily stop dilation v the upset of bleeding and contradictory medical advice. It's difficult to stay positive tbh.

I shouldn't be impatient - I know it'll take a little while to get through this but it has to work out right in the end.

We are all pulling for you and have big shoulders for you to lean on. Even mine, its only a little pain and as you know I kind of like that.

 

[stickygirl]

I can imagine it's very hard to stay positive
Gentle non squeezy hugs
Yes... You definitely want it all to heal right, even if it takes longer.

Thanks Erochic - yea, not rushing this... I can't really

Contradictory medical advice? Then do what your own sane mind tells you to do.

Follow my intuition *nods*... We're after micro-tears not mega ones. I did myself a cut on my arm so's I can gauge how long that takes to heal, but don't worry - I'm not going to get into cutting. It just felt like a way of knowing.

And Sis ... Hang in there...you've endured all of this with so much grace... At least from my view of things. I can't imagination the pain and frustration.

Thanks AJ I'm sure you've been through much worse.

We are all pulling for you and have big shoulders for you to lean on. Even mine, its only a little pain and as you know I kind of like that.

Thanks Mr W. ... I was thinking how we could manage, so how about rubbing noses?!

Y'all I really appreciate your wishes and support. I know you probably feel a bit helpless not being able to rub noses or bring flowers but you're a lovely bunch of folks and I really appreciate it

I've taken 48 hours off and will go back to the middle one for another 3 or 4 days then try again. I know it'll pay off in the end, but right now being lesbian sounds a (w)hole lot easier :-\ Pandas have tiny dicks and they seem happy enough - they just stay in their pjs all day

 

[stickygirl]

Stickygirl it takes a lot of courage for what you're doing. What if any, regrets have you had on your journey? What if anything would you have done differently. I just really noticed this thread and it's one I gotta go back and read sometime. Take care.

Hi and thanks for posting.
What if any, regrets have you had on your journey? The same old one - I wish I'd started earlier.
What if anything would you have done differently? Apart from the above ... hmmm... I can only think of a few inconsequential things - I'm not the sort to regret: I stand by what I've done. We can all look back and wish, but you make the best decision at the time armed with what you know.
But yea, should have started earlier - say in the womb, then I wouldn't have any of this shit to deal with. sorry - that didn't sound too positive did it?

 

[dutchrain]

Follow my intuition *nods*... We're after micro-tears not mega ones. I did myself a cut on my arm so's I can gauge how long that takes to heal, but don't worry - I'm not going to get into cutting. It just felt like a way of knowing.

That is perfectly sane, I do such things all the time. But the cut on your arm will heal quicker, since it is in a place where lots of air keep it dry.

taken 48 hours off and will go back to the middle one for another 3 or 4 days then try again. I know it'll pay off in the end, but right now being lesbian sounds a (w)hole lot easier :-\ Pandas have tiny dicks and they seem happy enough - they just stay in their pjs all day

Buy a panda onesie?

 

[BradBigBrain]

We are all pulling for you and have big shoulders for you to lean on. Even mine, its only a little pain and as you know I kind of like that.

QFT. You know we're all here for you, Sticky!

 

[stickygirl]

That is perfectly sane, I do such things all the time. But the cut on your arm will heal quicker, since it is in a place where lots of air keep it dry.

Damn

Buy a panda onesie?

http://www.geekalerts.com/u/Japanese-Kigurumi-Cosplay-Panda-Pajamas.jpg
Somehow.... that's not working for me but I love your thinking

QFT. You know we're all here for you, Sticky!

Thanks 3B - sorry for the squicky bits

 

[BradBigBrain]

Damn

Somehow.... that's not working for me but I love your thinking


Thanks 3B - sorry for the squicky bits

It's OK. I pass over them.

 

[dutchrain]

Damn

It doesn't really matter, you might have made the cut on your arm bigger than the micro-tears are anyway.

Somehow .... that's not working for me but I love your thinking

*grins*

 

[stickygirl]

Apologies - I've been making far too much of this, but I was a bit shocked and that got me down. This is just a mission and I can deal with it. So yeah, feeling like I'm back in charge of events now
(BDSM would love all this stuff. Don't go telling them though: I never go in there)

 

[dutchrain]

Apologies - I've been making far too much of this, but I was a bit shocked and that got me down. This is just a mission and I can deal with it. So yeah, feeling like I'm back in charge of events now
(BDSM would love all this stuff. Don't go telling them though: I never go in there)

No, dear. Don't apologize. You haven't made too much of it, at least not in my opinion. I would be devastated would something similar happen to me. Something which suddenly makes you ask yourself if it ever will be alright, if things will end well.

But yes: you can deal with it after the first shock has passed.

Great you are feeling back in charge!

 

[Bramblethorn]

I've taken 48 hours off and will go back to the middle one for another 3 or 4 days then try again. I know it'll pay off in the end, but right now being lesbian sounds a (w)hole lot easier :-\ Pandas have tiny dicks and they seem happy enough - they just stay in their pjs all day

Sometimes they fake pregnancy for the benefits.

Hope you're feeling better soon. *gentle hugs*

 

[warl0ck1]

Apologies - I've been making far too much of this, but I was a bit shocked and that got me down. This is just a mission and I can deal with it. So yeah, feeling like I'm back in charge of events now
(BDSM would love all this stuff. Don't go telling them though: I never go in there)

Your allowed to have some down time it is your friends that will help you back up. Count us among them. Yes us pain lovers are a strange bunch but we love fiercely and without reservation (okay well some of us.)

 

[Erochic]

Apologies - I've been making far too much of this, but I was a bit shocked and that got me down. This is just a mission and I can deal with it. So yeah, feeling like I'm back in charge of events now
(BDSM would love all this stuff. Don't go telling them though: I never go in there)

I never posted on your thread before because I didn't really have anything to contribute (until vaginas), but I have noticed you for quite a while (good god I sound like a stalker )... Read your thread and other posts and I have always been so impressed by your down to earth, intelligent calm responses. You are not over dramatic or a whiner - not at all.

But this is tough!
No need to apologise about feeling down and frustrated and shocked. That's a perfectly natural reaction.

As I said before, I had a hormonal problem that meant I was getting pain and tearing.... This is not the same problem at all but the feeling of "is it ever going to be okay?" hit me hard.... And I know friends have struggled with negative feelings after tearing badly during childbirth and dealing with that recovery.

And even though this is absolutely the right decision for you and a very very positive thing - it doesn't mean you can't have negative feelings about the setbacks, pain and difficulties.

 

[funluvinaj]

Apologies - I've been making far too much of this, but I was a bit shocked and that got me down. This is just a mission and I can deal with it. So yeah, feeling like I'm back in charge of events now
(BDSM would love all this stuff. Don't go telling them though: I never go in there)

No you haven't. I had a spot between pregnancies where sex was painful... I had two c-sections and remain tight... (Do you do kegels? are those beneficial?) and for some reason was even more so. I'd cry during sex or grin and bear it and cry after he was asleep... My point is that one day this will be a distant memory. I love sex and penetration and you will too. We are sisters... It runs in the family.

No point in you going it alone when you have friends here wanting to help and wanting you to share your experience... Some because we love you and some because of curiousness. There might just be someone reading that is in your boat and super shy...

 

[stickygirl]

I can't even
I'll write some PMs - this is getting a bit too personal out here and I don't feel strong enough for it
How lucky am I to have such good friends here?

 

[Erochic]

I know it'll pay off in the end, but right now being lesbian sounds a (w)hole lot easier :-\

Hehe... To lighten the mood I hope it will make you giggle to know that when I saw the thread about who you would like to have a Lit Threesome with I immediately thought of you and Funluvinaj

Either that or have a wild girls night out together

 

[funluvinaj]

Hehe... To lighten the mood I hope it will make you giggle to know that when I saw the thread about who you would like to have a Lit Threesome with I immediately thought of you and Funluvinaj

Either that or have a wild girls night out together

Wild girls night!! She's my little sis!!! Though I'm sure with a few drinks we'd all be silly enough! I have done a FFF ... It was very nice and yummy.


Sis... Sorry to make you uncomfortable.

 

[stickygirl]

Hehe... To lighten the mood I hope it will make you giggle to know that when I saw the thread about who you would like to have a Lit Threesome with I immediately thought of you and Funluvinaj

Either that or have a wild girls night out together

Wild girls night!! She's my little sis!!! Though I'm sure with a few drinks we'd all be silly enough! I have done a FFF ... It was very nice and yummy.


Sis... Sorry to make you uncomfortable.

You're both incorrigible - and I love you

AJ - we could pretend we weren't cyber related

 

[TomBoner]

You're both incorrigible - and I love you

AJ - we could pretend we weren't cyber related

Top of the day to you sticks!

... Now quit using those big words like incorrigible. They give me headaches this early in the morning.

 

[Erochic]

Top of the day to you sticks!

... Now quit using those big words like incorrigible. They give me headaches this early in the morning.

Hehe... Well I started to post a reply in which I apologized for being libidinous

Incorrigible and libidinous ... How's that a way to start the day?