Women who like to be told how to get ready?

amigayorbi

Literotica Guru
Joined
Jul 11, 2008
Posts
2,843
Hi this comes from a real experience wherein a friend of mine loves being told how to get ready for an occasion or a regular outing.


She loves being helped in choosing what outfit to wear, the lingerie that would go with it, the jewellery, footwear and the minor details.

She usually does it while chatting online and she seems to get a big thrill out of it . She sometimes prepares and dresses up on cam or she sends the pics as she is dressing up.

It does turn me on and I am wondering whether this is a unique cases or any of the women here are into such a thing!

Waiting for interesting responses.

Cheers!

GK
 
I am curious about this too.

I'd love to leave a (new) outfit with a note "Wear this" and "pick you up at 8" at a girls house before a date.

Of course, it would be best if it went beyond the dress!
Lingerie is a step more intimate, but how kinky would it be if it involved a small jeweled butt plug or ben-wa balls.


And I did once speak to a girl, who was rather submissive.
She said and I quote "If we ever meet, I want you to tell me exactly what to wear sir, I want to present myself in a way pleasing to you".

I did always think she would be the exception though, or at least taking it to the extreme.
 
Hi this comes from a real experience wherein a friend of mine loves being told how to get ready for an occasion or a regular outing.


She loves being helped in choosing what outfit to wear, the lingerie that would go with it, the jewellery, footwear and the minor details.

She usually does it while chatting online and she seems to get a big thrill out of it . She sometimes prepares and dresses up on cam or she sends the pics as she is dressing up.

It does turn me on and I am wondering whether this is a unique cases or any of the women here are into such a thing!

Waiting for interesting responses.

Cheers!

GK

i love to be told what to wear, in minute detail and to be inspected when ready , such a turn on.
 
Interesting

Would also like to hear from women who are not into this so that we are getting the ratio right! :)
 
I can go either way depending on the situation. It's incredibly hot to have an outfit picked for me and for him to know all night exactly what's on underneath...on the other hand unwrapping a surprise gift when you have no clue what it is...has to be a turn on for him as well.
 
Sounds like a solid D/S sort of thing to me. Whether or not you are a bottom in a sexual scene, you can like the idea of your guy taking charge and being in control of your look, the way you're dressed, etc. Many women like that, some don't. It's up to you to decide how you went to live.
 
Uh, yeah...I would advise caution here. I have found it best never to tell women what to do, particularly in the matter of clothing and other things I know nothing about. I don't really care what they wear; if they are happy with it I am too, as long as it's not too complicated to remove easily.

If there's something you find especially erotic, you might buy it for her to wear in private...I wouldn't presume to suggest what she wear in public. Be prepared to spend a lot of money on lingerie that never gets worn, though. ;)

If you can be extremely patient, it might be fun to go shopping with her. If you see something she seems to like but is reluctant to buy, you might purchase it later and give it to her as a surprise, assuming you like it too. And honestly, how many of us care what they wear? Mostly we prefer them naked. :D

I know I don't understand the whole D/S thing, so pardon me for ignorance, but I think I speak for a substantial majority of older men...
 
I love being told what to wear. Even better, having my clothes chosen and left out for me, or a list. One old bf even suggested he throw away the items he didn't like lol.
 
Back
Top