Literotica expectations

[Wonderdog]

So far, I have found the Literotica personals to be full of guys or guys
claiming to be a girl. I know there must be some ladies out there that
would like to chat with a pleasant, sexy, 57 year old guy. Come on girls,
restore my faith in human sexuality! Lol

 

[LiteTouch10]

True

Hi- I am a guy, just writing to sympathise. It's weird- there are so many of them!!!
Do women exist lol?

Also it pisses me off that often, no reply at all.

Just sharing mutual gripe of the day. Off for breakfast. Happy ordering.

 

[Wonderdog]

Sooo true. Can't believe how many times you get no responses. Lol

 

[Lollygirl26]

So far, I have found the Literotica personals to be full of guys or guys
claiming to be a girl. I know there must be some ladies out there that
would like to chat with a pleasant, sexy, 57 year old guy. Come on girls,
restore my faith in human sexuality! Lol

Hello...

Im a female. Many here can vouch for it too. How are you?

We don't respond because many times the post is just stupid or silly..just saying.

 

[Wonderdog]

Well, thank you for your post. Just nice to know there are women on Lit that might chat with a guy.

 

[Mojorisin2014]

as a recent joiner

I had been lurking for many years with those exact same thoughts...
Joined this week...
So far have chatted with some excellent people, at least 2 I would say I was 99% sure were women (won't get into details)
Some don't respond but the quality and frequency of chat from those that do has been something that has helped me keep my mind off other things in my real life and a welcome vacation when the messages do come in.

I say keep trying and you'll find someone out here you like chatting with.

 

[MissPrim]

So far, I have found the Literotica personals to be full of guys or guys
claiming to be a girl. I know there must be some ladies out there that
would like to chat with a pleasant, sexy, 57 year old guy. Come on girls,
restore my faith in human sexuality! Lol

I usually respond when someone PM's, but I get a good idea where its going from the first words. If someone says "hi" or "how r u" (just like that) I'm getting the sense that the guy is, um, not very stimulating.

On the other hand, if the sex talk starts right away, that's a turnoff too. Call me old fashioned, but online sex talk just isn't that sexy to me.

And a guy that's married or in a serious relationship shouldn't be chatting at all with women they don't know, and if I get a sense of that, that's the end of that conversation.

Just my two cents.

 

[citychick29]

I have been accused....

.... of being on a site in which I don't belong because it takes me a long time to build even a fantasy relationship with someone. I want to know the whole person, and I have been told that that isn't realistic. I have been quickly brushed off because I was not willing to be just a means to get some unknown man off. Call me crazy, but even in the fantasy realm, that just isn't me.

That being said, I have met, online, some wonderful men whom I will call friends. People I confide in and people who confide in me, and there have been a couple with whom I have allowed my imagination to soar.

Oh, and I won't answer a "Hi, how are you today?" because it has been overdone.

 

[Mockingjay]

And because of that, everyone blames the women.

 

[ebonyjane]

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[MrEd63]

Definitely a woman

Thank God for that

Too few Ladies posting in these threads

 

[txkristylynn]

Hello...

Im a female. Many here can vouch for it too. How are you?

We don't respond because many times the post is just stupid or silly..just saying.

exactly, we aren't going to reply to something that doesn't make us interested or turn us on

 

[ebonyjane]

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[MrEd63]

some of us are probably shy. But if a guy sends me a pm and introduces himself properly and respectfully he is practically guaranteed a reply

Indeed - good manners and courtesy cost nothing. Even if it is of the "Thanks, but no thanks" variety.

 

[Purduemyron]

Ok, I'm curious. What would inspire you to respond if 'Hello, how are you?' doesn't work? Is a guy supposed to lay out his entire personal history in the hopes that you'll respond? For me I'd rather at least say hello to a person and decide shortly after the conversation starts if I want to continue it.

 

[citychick29]

After all of that....

... I get a message asking if I am wearing panties. Sheesh! I wonder if he could hear his message flush?????

 

[ebonyjane]

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[missgreekgeek]

Definitely a female, and I'm sure many can vouch for that!
Just because I don't have albums or threads displaying my whole body, doesn't mean I'm not one. I have two pictures on my profile-both 100% real of me.
I think that's more than sufficient, especially for someone as self-conscious as I am

Plus I would have assumed it'd be pretty easy to tell how a woman speaks (if you've talked to one enough), verses how a man would.

Just my two cents

 

[missgreekgeek]

I don't mind a hello, how are you? But if I get one of those then the first thing I do is check the profile, to see if we share any interests. But if he doesn't have any info in his profile then I wonder why he didn't give me more info in his opening line.

For me- those are the ones whom I respond to and NEVER get a reply!
Wth is up with that?

 

[citychick29]

Ok, I'm curious. What would inspire you to respond if 'Hello, how are you?' doesn't work? Is a guy supposed to lay out his entire personal history in the hopes that you'll respond? For me I'd rather at least say hello to a person and decide shortly after the conversation starts if I want to continue it.

Proof that you have at least read my profile... It isn't THAT hard to get my attention.

 

[MrEd63]

I don't mind a hello, how are you? But if I get one of those then the first thing I do is check the profile, to see if we share any interests. But if he doesn't have any info in his profile then I wonder why he didn't give me more info in his opening line.

I agree - not enough people bother to fill in their profile. Sometime you have to read through pages of their posts to see if they are male or female.

 

[beachbaby179]

Proof that you have at least read my profile... It isn't THAT hard to get my attention.

Yes. This. And some indication that I'm not a random pm recipient. A reaction to one of my own posts...or some indication of how you found me.

 

[ebonyjane]

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[citychick29]

agree 100 percent!!!!!!

Me, too!

 

[NiceNastyMann]

And because of that, everyone blames the women.

Well of course HR - everyone knows that. Even the other women.

Why bother blaming the men?

We know from birth it's always going to be our fault no matter what really happened...

Blaming us men just takes away a lot of the - anticipation, hence enjoyment.