Do Women Use Panty Lines To Flirt?

[Wings]

Wings, I'm not so sure.

Of course this is excepting the fine women here at the GB, but, I find a good majority of women to be quite neurotic and go to great lengths and pains to publicly display their bodies and perceptions of themselves for acceptance and, if you will, consumption. Now with the internet and social media, the constant barrage of pics, nudes and otherwise, suggest an attention to themselves like never before.

I shower every day.

You're not so sure that you shouldn't assume that a woman dresses for herself? Or you're not so sure that I dress for myself? Or you're not so sure of what?


I like to look good. I don't like to be harassed on the street. Therefore do you believe that I should look like shit so I don't get harassed or that men should just stop being such gigantic pricks on the streets of Minneapolis? Or what should I take from your opinion?

 

[Riles]

Wings, I'm not so sure.

Of course this is excepting the fine women here at the GB, but, I find a good majority of women to be quite neurotic and go to great lengths and pains to publicly display their bodies and perceptions of themselves for acceptance and, if you will, consumption. Now with the internet and social media, the constant barrage of pics, nudes and otherwise, suggest an attention to themselves like never before.

I shower every day.

But threads like 'let me see down/up/through/whatever your shirt' aren't a continuous one-up in a bid for popularity!

 

[Wings]

If I post a pic on any of those threads then I'm absolutely putting myself out there and looking for the ego stroke.

If I'm walking down the street and the wind happens to plaster my skirt to my ass and you can see my thong line, I didn't do it for the attention.


There's a very big difference and I'm sad to read people who don't get that.

 

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[Mrtenant]

No one has ever commented on my underwear lines, just sayin. Women notice men's underwear lines? Just curious? No? ok. That why some men have gone to sagging?

 

[Laurel]

Women mainly dress for themselves and other women or so I am told.

This.

I dress for my significant other as well as myself. I DO NOT dress for random guys on the street as the OP seems to be implying. There are times when teasing with a hint of a thong strap or a lacy peek or two has served me well but never, ever for the sake of a stranger.

My body is not for public consumption and anyone who assumes that of any woman is a grade A douchebag.

This.

Too friggin' funny...

You know, it's possible - just maybe - that av is not posted for the enjoyment of you or all the other random dudes here. It could be posted because she likes the pic, or it could be for a specific dude.

I know - crazy talk, right?

 

[Laurel]

Here's the thing: if I wear something nice and a random guy happens to think it looks sexy or whatever, that's totally cool. But the line of thinking of "I'm getting a woody because of her short skirt, obviously she knows that and did it on purpose, therefore she's really into me and I'm entitled to go grab her/say something inappropriate/rude and if she is offended then she's an ungrateful bitch who obviously asked for it" is wrong on so many levels.

That's all I'm saying. Don't assume we care about your boner unless we specifically tell you we do.

 

[Riles]

If I post a pic on any of those threads then I'm absolutely putting myself out there and looking for the ego stroke.

If I'm walking down the street and the wind happens to plaster my skirt to my ass and you can see my thong line, I didn't do it for the attention.


There's a very big difference and I'm sad to read people who don't get that.

I think everyone is aware that this is a situational thing for most women. The OP asked if we women ever make a conscious choice to flaunt, specifically, our VPL as a way of attracting the attentions of men.

It admittedly occurs, even when our intended audience is limited to one.

No one is saying you don't dress for your own empowerment/comfort/personal flare. It's just not ALWAYS so.

 

[Noor]

This.



This.



You know, it's possible - just maybe - that av is not posted for the enjoyment of you or all the other random dudes here. It could be posted because she likes the pic, or it could be for a specific dude.

I know - crazy talk, right?

The only time I have ever posted myself as my Lit av was a specific guy.

 

[Wings]

I think everyone is aware that this is a situational thing for most women. The OP asked if we women ever make a conscious choice to flaunt, specifically, our VPL as a way of attracting the attentions of men.

It admittedly occurs, even when our intended audience is limited to one.

No one is saying you don't dress for your own empowerment/comfort/personal flare. It's just not ALWAYS so.

I don't think I have a good response to this. There may be a ton of women who dress themselves in such a manner to garner the attention of random guys but it's an incredibly dangerous assumption and one I, and many women in this city and others, fight against daily.

To tell some probably underage guy that yes, there are women out there who enjoy showing their goodies to random and sundry is dangerous.

 

[Busybody]

? Or what should I take from your opinion?

that you are disingenuous at best

 

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[Lancecastor]

If Wings (for example) doesn't know at her age that her red lipstick is perceived as attractive and designed to call attention to herself, then she is either a liar, a dolt, or both.

Likewise, any stranger who thinks her red lips and exposed skin is "permission"
to bang her is equally as wrong-minded.

Nobody has said that all your panty choices are consciously pre-planned to leave boners in your wake...not that there is anything wrong with that.

But there's lots of grey area between the two extremes you present.

And part of that is yes...you all select your panties, blush and other bits as part of a schema which involves attraction.

Keep up the good work!

Here's the thing: if I wear something nice and a random guy happens to think it looks sexy or whatever, that's totally cool. But the line of thinking of "I'm getting a woody because of her short skirt, obviously she knows that and did it on purpose, therefore she's really into me and I'm entitled to go grab her/say something inappropriate/rude and if she is offended then she's an ungrateful bitch who obviously asked for it" is wrong on so many levels.

That's all I'm saying. Don't assume we care about your boner unless we specifically tell you we do.

 

[Lancecastor]

To tell some probably underage guy that yes, there are women out there who enjoy showing their goodies to random and sundry is dangerous.

Bullshit.

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[Laurel]

I think everyone is aware that this is a situational thing for most women. The OP asked if we women ever make a conscious choice to flaunt, specifically, our VPL as a way of attracting the attentions of men.

It admittedly occurs, even when our intended audience is limited to one.

No one is saying you don't dress for your own empowerment/comfort/personal flare. It's just not ALWAYS so.

I don't think I have a good response to this. There may be a ton of women who dress themselves in such a manner to garner the attention of random guys but it's an incredibly dangerous assumption and one I, and many women in this city and others, fight against daily.

To tell some probably underage guy that yes, there are women out there who enjoy showing their goodies to random and sundry is dangerous.

Like, if a guy asked me out on a date and I arrive in a sexy outfit, then yes - he can definitely assume it's for him. Or if there's a guy I regularly see and make flirty gestures at, then he sees me in a sexy/pretty dress, then he may assume that I'm doing it for him (though he shouldn't really assume unless he knows-knows - I could just have a flirty personality).

But the assumption that all women on the street with pantylines are Flirting With You is probably more than likely incorrect.

It's not an empowerment thing - it's just a bad idea for anyone to make assumptions. Just because I find a guy hot doesn't mean he likes me. And just because a guy thinks I have nice legs doesn't mean I want to wrap them around him. Other people are human beings with their own wants, desires, concerns, needs, etc.

It's science.

 

[Riles]

I don't think I have a good response to this. There may be a ton of women who dress themselves in such a manner to garner the attention of random guys but it's an incredibly dangerous assumption and one I, and many women in this city and others, fight against daily.

To tell some probably underage guy that yes, there are women out there who enjoy showing their goodies to random and sundry is dangerous.

What is it that you disagree with? The "not ALWAYS so"?

I don't think anyone needs to tell anyone that. It's an assumption by us all, and yes, that IS an intentional broad stroke, that when a woman is dressed inappropriately for a specific situation that it is not ONLY because she loves her body and enjoys it's various attributes, but that she is also displaying it for the apprecaition of others.

We have all made this assessment of "that woman" in the room/down the street/at the event, Wings.

I'm not insinuating that it's always the case of course. Just saying it happens.

I have no arguement with you.

 

[dolf]

if I have a VPL it's because I've not realised these knickers will create one, or they've migrated through the day.

but even if I do make a choice to look attractive, it's because I want to feel attractive for myself, when I look in the mirror, catch my reflection in a window. I might quite like it if another woman tells me that she loves my outfit.

what I don't think about is whether random dudes get boners over me. and I really don't want to think about it. compliments are nice but some random's boner is a thought that makes me a little nauseous.

if I wanted to flirt I would make eye contact, smile, have a conversation. I wouldn't rely on flashing my undercrackers to the world in general in the hopes that he right guy got the message.

the only boners i'm interested in creating are on men i'm interested in.

 

[Wings]

Bullshit.

God yes, Lancie. I'm currently wearing bright red lipstick and it's a scientific fact that every man I cross in the skyway today should assume I want to suck his cock.

Not that I'm wearing a red dress and wanted my makeup to match before I go into this meeting.

 

[Laurel]

If Wings (for example) doesn't know at her age that her red lipstick is perceived as attractive and designed to call attention to herself, then she is either a liar, a dolt, or both.

So "I wear red lipstick because I want to look attractive" = "I am actively flirting with you, guy across the street who I've never spoken to"? Seems like a stretch.

Of course women want to look good. But that doesn't mean they want to look good for you in particular.

 

[Lancecastor]

Boner-Trollers!

Dude says "some" dudes, not all dudes.

Are women so clued into the every detail that they know that seeing panty lines drives some dudes crazy so they dress so we can see them?

Does anyone else notice and find this super hot? Thong or regular?

Girls, you protest too much...obviously, we are scraping against truths you'd prefer not admit.

But that's okay...we know different, you naughty boner trollers.

So "I wear red lipstick because I want to look attractive" = "I am actively flirting with you, guy across the street who I've never spoken to"? Seems like a stretch.

Of course women want to look good. But that doesn't mean they want to look good for you in particular.

I haven't said all red lipstick equals want to attract all men.

But yes, you wear it to be attractive, so it goes with the territory.

You can't have it both ways.

 

[Brollyanna]

I think I just turned lesbian.

ETA: (for myself and NOT the titillation of some random guy.)

 

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[Laurel]

If Wings (for example) doesn't know at her age that her red lipstick

So bitchy! Between this and your knowledge of chick's zines, you're starting to worry me.

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[Lancecastor]

So bitchy!

She knows I'm right...hence the red dress/red lipstick reply and JAJ's boner.

Kudos to Riles (again) for her truth-telling.