lost art of fingering your lady

[firstclassmale]

I love fingering a woman .I believe a number of women truly love it when the man fingers her until she cums.do any of you ladies have experiences to share or opinions.

 

[londonfemme]

Yes it can be particularly good when fingers explore the g spot at the same time as the clitoris

 

[policywank]

It can be as good or better than hard cock. Just don't rush, pay attention to the responses you get from the woman and don't predetermine the result. Sometimes I get off and sometimes I just explore the experience. The surest way to ruin it is to force it.

 

[Biwife_hubby]

Not a lost art here, just have to make sure you use multiple fingers making sure to rub the gspot just the right way. Wifey loves and showers me when I do that.

 

[firstclassmale]

I love fingering during a full body massage.and I agree multiple fingers work great together.i wouldn't say or advocate that it's better than a good hard cock like to think they go hand and hand.after a good finger fuck. then take her deep with your cock.

 

[Hornywetcanuck]

I love fingering during a full body massage.and I agree multiple fingers work great together.i wouldn't say or advocate that it's better than a good hard cock like to think they go hand and hand.after a good finger fuck. then take her deep with your cock.

I agree! I love a few well placed fingers while my clit is being licked! Used to be the only way I could cum, thank god I've gotten passed that!

 

[LaOrca]

The hottest sexual experience that I ever had was from my ex fingering me. We were both fully clothed and it was unbelievable. Gives me chills just thinking about it.

 

[Elena1201]

Fingering.

That's how I found out I was able to squirt. Completely unintentional, I thought I peed at first. I love a good fingering, two fingers massaging my Gspot slowly, working around in circles, occasionally up and down. Really really gets me going. Especially if he uses his thumb at the same time to rub my clit. I pretty much turn into jelly.

 

[BiTodd]

That's how I found out I was able to squirt. Completely unintentional, I thought I peed at first. I love a good fingering, two fingers massaging my Gspot slowly, working around in circles, occasionally up and down. Really really gets me going. Especially if he uses his thumb at the same time to rub my clit. I pretty much turn into jelly.

I am anxious to try this. technique.

 

[beingtrue2me]

When I guy slips a finger inside of me when he shouldn't (out somewhere or in the car or something) it makes me crazy. Not sure if it's the sensation or the thought that it shouldn't be happening ....prolly a combination of the two, but it can give me an orgasm faster than intercourse ever could.

 

[Elena1201]

This

I am anxious to try this. technique.

You should try it ASAP!

 

[Sugareee]

That's how I found out I was able to squirt. Completely unintentional, I thought I peed at first. I love a good fingering, two fingers massaging my Gspot slowly, working around in circles, occasionally up and down. Really really gets me going. Especially if he uses his thumb at the same time to rub my clit. I pretty much turn into jelly.

I also discovered I can squirt from similar stimulation. So far I've only been able to do it for myself. :/

 

[hopefulerotic]

I also discovered I can squirt from similar stimulation. So far I've only been able to do it for myself. :/

Good topic. Ive been privileged to witness some of the most intense orgasms this way. The hottest was in a car with her clothes on, she was kneeling across the console sucking me while I had my hand down her pants. Rain was beating on the car roof while she was moaning with a full mouth, hottest damn thing Ive ever seen. Its been years and I still get worked up thinking about it.

 

[Wildfly11]

wow

Gone fishing.

 

[AKS]

I often love fingers more than cock.

 

[KinkyGAGuy]

I do not believe the art is lost. I just believe in most relationships the small erotic things just simply stop happening! If you are going to commit yourself to one person, you need to keep it hot and fresh and don't forget the little things.

I guess that is why I do not commit myself to one woman anymore.

 

[klippert]

my wife love's a good finger banging...especially if she has her ass in the air...with two finger in her ass. and two or three in her smooth cunny

 

[firstclassmale]

I am happily surprised how many guys enjoy performing and how many ladies enjoy receiving it.

 

[MissJW]

Getting fingered always has that special something.... I don't know, maybe it's extra nice because when your man is fingering you, you know it really is because he can't keep his hands off! Obviously fingering doesn't give him that sort of direct stimulation as using his dick would, so the lady can just take it all and enjoy the thought that her lover is out just to provide pleasure, rather than receiving it (in that direct sense).

There's also that sense of urgency when it happens in public, he must get to touch you now, and it also brings back memories from days when sex was new and fingers were first introduced. It's sweet and innocent, but in a lovely naughty way.

And yes, those "two fingers rubbing your G-spot and thumb doing your clit" -orgasms are simply amazing. And being the cuddle monster that I am, I love my hubby laying beside me, giving me kisses, using his fingers and pressing his hardness against my thigh. If one feels lazy, that's the perfect way to spend an afternoon!

Oh and yeah, him being double-jointed only makes it better

 

[hopefulerotic]

I am happily surprised how many guys enjoy performing and how many ladies enjoy receiving it.

Oh yea its fantastic. Mentally get off by pleasing a woman. Having her twist and squirm to orgasm on my fingers, and soaking the bed, its just the greatest thing to see, hear, and be a part of.

 

[MissJW]

Oh yea its fantastic. Mentally get off by pleasing a woman. Having her twist and squirm to orgasm on my fingers, and soaking the bed, its just the greatest thing to see, hear, and be a part of.

As a woman, I thank you for those beautiful words

 

[hopefulerotic]

As a woman, I thank you for those beautiful words

You are quite welcome. I truly believe that the female orgasm is one of the most beautiful things that a man can witness. I am in awe of the sights and sounds.

 

[Elena1201]

Squirt

I also discovered I can squirt from similar stimulation. So far I've only been able to do it for myself. :/

I've only had one guy who has been able to actually do it for me. So don't be surprised if it takes awhile to find the right guy who can do it. I've even have very detail instructions and had an exboyfriend watch me do it. And he still couldn't. But don't get discouraged

 

[firstclassmale]

Admittedly witnessing a fingered orgasm is awesome.it seems more intense and longer.but I agree it does take practice.you just don't stick a finger in and go at it I like to giver her a massage and then slowly massage her vagina before insertion. And gods sake guys make sure yours are clean and nails trimmed.i treat a fingered orgasm especially if she squirt as the holy grail of orgasms

 

[hopefulerotic]

Admittedly witnessing a fingered orgasm is awesome.it seems more intense and longer.but I agree it does take practice.you just don't stick a finger in and go at it I like to giver her a massage and then slowly massage her vagina before insertion. And gods sake guys make sure yours are clean and nails trimmed.i treat a fingered orgasm especially if she squirt as the holy grail of orgasms

Well said, I agree 100%