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[Lostgirl21]

I don't know what I'm doing here this is my first and more than desperate attempt to find something or someone to talk to and hopefully find something more. I'm not looking for anything serious I just need someone willing to help me find my happy, I have always been turned on by being used, dominated & watching/reading non/con, anal & punishment erotica/ porn. I'm married to a straight up guy who is not into any of that and doesn't understand my needs. I've never been taken like I've always wanted to be and it's starting to numb me. I want and need more.. Anyone out there to help me?

 

[leo6669]

hey

Hey there want to be dominated? I will tie you up make you cum and have you gagging. I will fullfill your fantasises reply back if interested

 

[Prince Albert]

Would love to chat further, either kik or yahoo, faster.

 

[StrayKat]

May I suggest if this is your first adventure into BDSM world, to read the BDSM board and maybe post a few questions if you have them? Because jumping in and letting every wannabe lurker who might have no damn clue about anything but his dick there is a fresh meat to jump on, could just hurt you and turn something that should be a lovely voyage into a nightmare trip.

 

[strong_daddy]

May I suggest if this is your first adventure into BDSM world, to read the BDSM board and maybe post a few questions if you have them? Because jumping in and letting every wannabe lurker who might have no damn clue about anything but his dick there is a fresh meat to jump on, could just hurt you and turn something that should be a lovely voyage into a nightmare trip.

yeah, what they said

Be careful of those with an exceptionally low post count on here. Many lurkers are just looking to get their own jollies with no consideration for you. BDSM can be a difficult and delicate thing to do correctly, especially when you are first learning.

 

[StrayKat]

Be careful of those with an exceptionally low post count on here. Many lurkers are just looking to get their own jollies with no consideration for you.

There are those with 40k posts who are so crude and inconsiderate I actually put one on my tiny ignore list. And there is a person with 4 posts who is the most wonderful man I ever met anywhere and who swept me off my feet totally.

Post count means nothing. Use your common sense.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Maybe not, but it does help you learn a little bit more about them, their likes, and how they act in the general public. I admit it's one of the first things I do when talking to someone new. Post stalk.

 

[StrayKat]

Maybe not, but it does help you learn a little bit more about them, their likes, and how they act in the general public. I admit it's one of the first things I do when talking to someone new. Post stalk.

I agree with that. But saying that one should be careful of those with low post count is ridiculous.

 

[diverDr]

low post count

I don't have a ton of posts and am very selective about when and who when I do post but agree look at previous posts and just because someone has a low post count I wouldn't ignore them just maybe be a bit more careful.

 

[Lostgirl21]

May I suggest if this is your first adventure into BDSM world, to read the BDSM board and maybe post a few questions if you have them? Because jumping in and letting every wannabe lurker who might have no damn clue about anything but his dick there is a fresh meat to jump on, could just hurt you and turn something that should be a lovely voyage into a nightmare trip.

I'm extremely new to this, should I be doing this differently? Not sure why I keep getting warnings from people, what should I be careful of?

 

[JustaSCOUNDREL]

I'm extremely new to this, should I be doing this differently? Not sure why I keep getting warnings from people, what should I be careful of?

Darlin you should be careful of posting our newness and your wants on this board, it is the worst possible place you could possibly post your wants and needs. Please heed Stray Kats original post and get the to the BDSM Board there are many posters there who have be involved with BDSM for many years. Please spend some time reading and thinking about what you desire. There is an excellent library you can use to answer some of the questions you have. When you have done some reading and still have questions do ask them on the BDSM board. You will quickly learn those whose advice or comments you like, respect and can learn from.

This comment is not just directed at the General Board, many of the other boards have the same kind of posters. They are those who can not get laid in any other way, but if they say they are a Dom they can tell a woman to get on her knees and suck their cock she will because they are a Dom or say they are, and she is submissive. That is not even close to the way it is suppose to work.

Please lost girl,move to the BDSM board, read and learn. Be selective, build a relationship them play if you are interested, but spend some time learning about you and who you choose to play with.

 

[StrangeView]

I consider myself pretty new to experimenting with this stuff too, and that's a year or so in. Lots of good advice going on here. Take your time and be careful, after all, you've waited this long, a little longer to get it right isn't going to hurt. And if you're not 100% sure, run like hell.

Good luck, and enjoy.

SV