Much to a man's heartbreak

[AshleyBeckem]

The vast majority of women prefer MFM over the classic male fantasy of FMF

Thoughts?

Also, fantasy vs reality ... who loves the idea in fiction but could never in real life?





(Sorry guys to spoil the FMF fantasy, or maybe I'm wrong)

 

[Stromer]

The vast majority of women prefer MFM over the classic male fantasy of FMF

Thoughts?

Also, fantasy vs reality ... who loves the idea in fiction but could never in real life?





(Sorry guys to spoil the FMF fantasy, or maybe I'm wrong)

We've had several MFM experiences and a few FMF threesoms. The girl/girl thing is a great visual for me, but the raw sexuality of the MFM is a lot more fun for both of us. Nothing like feeling her being shoved deeper and deeper down her throat when another guy is pounding her from behind. Have to admit, the night we hooked up another woman that loved anal like my wife, it was a lot of fun for me getting to stuff my dick into six different wholes in one night.

 

[tigerstorm07]

Although the mff fantasy is definitely on my wish list... I love to please... so I'd be willing to be a participant for my female lover.... so she is fulfilled in every way...

 

[Freya69]

Seems to me that the primary issue is whether or not the wife is bi. If she is bi, then the FMF should work great. If not, the MFM should hold the most interest. I would think the MFM works best if the guys are bi.

 

[Wanderer0327]

I agree that most guys aren't comfortable enough with themselves to consider getting naked in front of another guy let alone try to perform in the same room. And body dysmorphia affects men just like it affects women, so there's the thoughts of "how do I stack up against him?" guys have to worry about.

For me it depends on my relationship with the others involved. If we're not in an exclusive relationship then it's not a problem for me to share a woman with other guys. I'm comfortable enough in my skin to let it all hang out around other guys and not get wierded out. But if I'm in an exclusive relationship (married) then I'm a bit more hesitant to share her with other guys. OK, make that a lot more hesitant. I have the "she's my fuck-toy and I'm not sharing with anyone else!" mentality. Selfish, but there it is. I'm not saying I wouldn't set up a scene and bear some discomfort to satisfy her cravings. A good Sir has to take care of His Girl, yes?

 

[SoulWeavinGirl]

The vast majority of women prefer MFM over the classic male fantasy of FMF

Thoughts?

Also, fantasy vs reality ... who loves the idea in fiction but could never in real life?





(Sorry guys to spoil the FMF fantasy, or maybe I'm wrong)

I would be more willing to do a FMF than two men, and I'm not bi. Don't get me wrong, I have my fair share of MFM fantasies, but the other is still more appealing.

 

[adventrkupl]

The vast majority of women prefer MFM over the classic male fantasy of FMF

Thoughts?

Also, fantasy vs reality ... who loves the idea in fiction but could never in real life?

(Sorry guys to spoil the FMF fantasy, or maybe I'm wrong)

Big surprise, why wouldn't a woman desire MFM? After all, what's not to like from that perspective? I think you may be surprised to find out that the women who do fantasize over a MFM would likely try FMF too, especially as a reciprocal measure.

 

[wyshes]

Have done both MFM & FMF but prefer MFM simply because i like men.

 

[Stromer]

Seems to me that the primary issue is whether or not the wife is bi. If she is bi, then the FMF should work great. If not, the MFM should hold the most interest. I would think the MFM works best if the guys are bi.

Our first FMF, the wife was really shy about exploring her bi curiosity as was the other woman, so there was just a nipple play while each woman took turns on my face and cock, but since then the wife calls it "situation bi". If its in front of her, she's going to lick it or suck it. Me, not even a remotely bi. Body contact with the other male while we share her is one thing, but I have no desire to touch or be touched sexually with another male. It's all about her desires and satisfaction.

 

[HomerSimpson123]

I've long fantasized about a MFM with a double penetration.

The idea of feeling his cock separated from mine by only a thin membrane as we slide in and out just drives me wild.

 

[HoldYouDown]

[shrugs]

 

[magicalmoments]

The vast majority of women prefer MFM over the classic male fantasy of FMF
Thoughts?
Also, fantasy vs reality ... who loves the idea in fiction but could never in real life?

I agree with your statement.

In my experience of group sex, and that includes a wealth of 3'sums, the general rule would be that most women clearly prefer the MFM option. I think this is because a woman can handle 2 men without any difficulty and leave them both totally exhausted, whereas with the FMF option one man has difficulty adequately servicing two women..

I accept that I'm makinga generalisation and there are exceptions but that is what my experiences have taught me.

Fantasy v reality, there will always be some for whom the reality will never live up to the real experience, but in my opinion these would be a serious minority. Most women who have tried a 3'sum end up wondering why they left it so long before taking the jump.

 

[Hipshot1554]

Hmmmmm...

I have had the pleasure of joining a couple a few times and it was great. Of course I've also had the FMF fantasy . I do wonder about devoting equal amounts of attention between two women though. I think it might be distracting. Completely different dynamic, I would guess.

 

[BiMommy77]

I'd MUCH rather do FMF however....the female would ONLY be for me!! He can touch me and watch us..but she's mine. However..the thought of seeing my man with another man and having them BOTH take me and taste me sounds heavenly...

 

[KinkyGAGuy]

I have been involved in both mff and mmf, on a number of occasions.. Enjoyed them all.

 

[deyv]

The vast majority of women prefer MFM over the classic male fantasy of FMF

Thoughts?

Also, fantasy vs reality ... who loves the idea in fiction but could never in real life?


(Sorry guys to spoil the FMF fantasy, or maybe I'm wrong)

Haven't had the pleasure of being in a FMF but have several MFM experiences and they were all far better in reality than what I had imagined. The guys were cool with being naked and in most instances playing with each other and the women loved the attention.

 

[Biwife_hubby]

Like most men, my ideal fantasy is FMF, which works out well since the wife is bi. How ever, I would have no problem participating in a MFM if my wife wants. Would love to see her being fucked by another guy while she is sucking on me.

 

[MarriedMelissa]

I have done both. I prefer sex with men but the FMF have always been better. I agree with many here that they are different. When I have been with two men, it is primal and powerful. I am the focus and that is really hot. But - when I have been with a man and a woman, things go a lot slower and for me it feels really nice. The man will "cum and go" and return, but the time I spend with the woman is sensual and lasting.

 

[Dream59]

I agree that most guys aren't comfortable enough with themselves to consider getting naked in front of

All the guys that have been in locker rooms or the military would disagree with this part. Performance is an issue for both sexes. Women are as worried about how their bodies and abilities will stack up with other women's just as much as guys worry about the same issues. My experiences just include MFM when I was in the service. I was an NCO and had the opportunity to share and 0-4 with her husband several times. I personally didn't consider him all that much, I just wanted at her pussy and mouth. But such is youth.

 

[Wanderer0327]

All the guys that have been in locker rooms or the military would disagree with this part. Performance is an issue for both sexes. Women are as worried about how their bodies and abilities will stack up with other women's just as much as guys worry about the same issues. My experiences just include MFM when I was in the service. I was an NCO and had the opportunity to share and 0-4 with her husband several times. I personally didn't consider him all that much, I just wanted at her pussy and mouth. But such is youth.

Military personnel do not make up the majority of the population of the USA, but your point is well taken. I guess there are other groups as well. But locker room comparisons are a bit less personal than a sexual situation. Just speaking from my own experience and observations of course. Everyone's mileage will vary.

BTW, thanks for your service!

 

[sunandshadow]

I keep finding myself in relationships where both people are straight -I would never want to be in an FMF or MFF situation but my boyfriend of the time would never want to be in an MFM or MMF situation. :/

 

[janeyl]

Big surprise, why wouldn't a woman desire MFM? After all, what's not to like from that perspective? I think you may be surprised to find out that the women who do fantasize over a MFM would likely try FMF too, especially as a reciprocal measure.

I don't do anything as a reciprocal measure, I'm not 5...in a truly open and adult relationship, nobody keeps score...

 

[janeyl]

I agree that most guys aren't comfortable enough with themselves to consider getting naked in front of another guy let alone try to perform in the same room. And body dysmorphia affects men just like it affects women, so there's the thoughts of "how do I stack up against him?" guys have to worry about.

That isn't my experience at all but then I do hang out with some strange people...and they are of all body shapes and sizes. Performance anxiety has played a part on some occasions though, often in smaller groups because it seems to be more noticeable...even with experienced players...

oh, and in answer to the OP, I like both but for hugely different reasons, in the same way I like having sex with both men and women for vastly different reasons...bi males are absolutely the best for mmf though...so many more options for play...

 

[BiTodd]

I want to and have enjoyed all sorts of groupings. mostly MMF and even some MMM. I want more! I love women but am very sexualy aroused by guys, So if women prefer MMF it suits me fine. I am still waiting for the elusive FFM. I did get to make out with two girlsat once, in college.

 

[Dickstroker81]

I don't know about the guys who's fantasies were considered, but I know my wife and I both prefer MMF or MFM. I love sharing another guy with her wheter it is one in her mouth and the other in her ass, or one guy fucking her ass with the second guy fucing his ass. It's all good.