Male Dom for inexperienced/new Subs

[mikeRotch69]

Hello everyone,

I'm Michael and like the title implies I enjoy giving new / inexperienced subs or women interested in becoming subs a taste of what of the D/s lifestyle has to offer.

What I'm looking for is someone who wants more than just a short fling. Someone who wants to take the time to get to know each other, understand each other, and of course become good friends or something more. I'm fairly open minded so age and race are of no importance to me.
I tend to be kind and gentle, except when I'm required to be firm. I understand that submission is a gift and I treat it as such. You can always say no and stop and when you do I will listen and try to understand why. I am only looking for online play, but the option of meeting in person is not ruled out should you want it.

I tend to enjoy doling out some light to moderate pain, orgasm denial and control, some amount of wardrobe control, perhaps even bathroom control. I also enjoy some aspects of humiliation or exhibitionism, impact play, light bondage, and a couple of others. Of course these are just want I feel I'm best at, if you do not like some or most of these and enjoy others let me know I'm fairly flexible and not afraid to learn about certain kinks and fetishes if my sub wants to explore them.

Helping my sub explore her limits and desires is always something I enjoy. If you're new or curious, but are serious about it write me a PM. I may not check the thread but I will definitely check my Inbox.

Tell me a little about you, what makes you think you are into the D/s lifestyle and maybe what your apprehensions are. I will respond to all PMs so don't be afraid.

- Michael

 

[babyjane20011]

Hello all,

Basically what the title says. I very much enjoy teaching a new sub, perhaps someone who is curious about the D/s lifestyle the ropes. As it so happens I tend to attract them since I have a more lighter approach, light bdsm, light controls, etc., especially mature women who are curious but serious. I enjoy getting to know my sub appropriately before we get into play and slowly have them comfortable with giving up control to me.

Helping my sub explore her limits and desires is always something I enjoy. If you're new or curious, but are serious about it write me a PM. I may not check the thread but I will definitely check my Inbox.

Tell me a little about you, what makes you think you are into the D/s lifestyle and maybe what your apprehensions are. I will respond to all PMs so don't be afraid.

- Sir

like your post can we chat sir
nancy

 

[mikeRotch69]

I got some nice housewives to say hello. But I'm looking for more than a fling.

So the search continues.

 

[mikeRotch69]

A bump, I'd like to remind that I'm looking for something long term.

 

[thedarkestfairy]

I got some nice housewives to say hello. But I'm looking for more than a fling.

So the search continues.

i inboxed You. Hope to hear from You

 

[mikeRotch69]

A bump, it's been awhile but I'm looking again.

 

[mikeRotch69]

Bump for the morning.

 

[mikeRotch69]

A bump for this morning

 

[mikeRotch69]

Updated the original post. Hopefully it tells you about me and what I'm looking for a little better. Feedback is always welcome as well as catching any spelling/grammar errors

 

[Kneelbeforethealpha]

Updated the original post. Hopefully it tells you about me and what I'm looking for a little better. Feedback is always welcome as well as catching any spelling/grammar errors

I'll give a bump out of perseverance. Not sure why you need help after putting a decent ad but here's your help.

 

[xxxpaulzzz]

I got some nice housewives to say hello. But I'm looking for more than a fling.

So the search continues.

where as I am happy for just a fling.

 

[Kneelbeforethealpha]

where as I am happy for just a fling.

You and 97% of other males here.

 

[mikeRotch69]

I'll give a bump out of perseverance. Not sure why you need help after putting a decent ad but here's your help.

Thanks, it seems as though most women just wan't a fling... not what I want.

 

[mikeRotch69]

Morning bump

 

[mikeRotch69]

Another bump for the day. Since I've been asked this... experienced subs are welcome too... so are baby girls

 

[mikeRotch69]

A bump

 

[babyjane20011]

Thanks not , it seems as though most women just wan't a fling... not what I want.

I am looking for something real not a fling.


nancy

 

[StrayKat]

Thanks, it seems as though most women just wan't a fling... not what I want.

Most men do too, especially "sub" types in my experience.

 

[mikeRotch69]

Most men do too, especially "sub" types in my experience.

Let's just say most subs seem to want flings instead of long-term relationships.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

I would disagree with both of you. I don't think it matters on whether anyone is a sub or a Dom... whether they are looking for long term depends on the person, plain and simple.
One's particular position doesn't come into play.

 

[StrayKat]

Yeah only in my experience men who are looking for a domme tend to just get what they want if they can and disappear right after. Much more than dom/switch male types. I have been around here for almost 10 years now and met all kinds.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Yeah only in my experience men who are looking for a domme tend to just get what they want if they can and disappear right after. Much more than dom/switch male types. I have been around here for almost 10 years now and met all kinds.

Well, I can see that...I still kinda think it's just the person, though, and not necessarily which side of the slash they identify with.

Inconsistency knows no rank...lol

 

[All_4_Love]

I would disagree with both of you. I don't think it matters on whether anyone is a sub or a Dom... whether they are looking for long term depends on the person, plain and simple.
One's particular position doesn't come into play.

This is very true. I have been watching this thread and have found it rather intriguing to see a Dom saying this about subs, as I have felt just the opposite from what I've seen from a sub's point of view.

It doesn't matter which side of the slash you're on. It's really no different than vanilla type relationships. You just have to continue your search and hold tight to your ideal until you attract what you're looking for in another.

Good luck to those of us who wish to experience the deeper, more meaningful types of relationships. May we all find that which we seek...

 

[mikeRotch69]

This is very true. I have been watching this thread and have found it rather intriguing to see a Dom saying this about subs, as I have felt just the opposite from what I've seen from a sub's point of view.

It doesn't matter which side of the slash you're on. It's really no different than vanilla type relationships. You just have to continue your search and hold tight to your ideal until you attract what you're looking for in another.

Good luck to those of us who wish to experience the deeper, more meaningful types of relationships. May we all find that which we seek...

I believe you said it best and I agree. Perhaps I should have spoken more carefully but I think perhaps I was just blowing off steam from another failed search attempt.

But of course you are right. Both sides of "the slash" are guilty of such a thing as are both genders. I echo your good luck to everyone.

 

[wyshes]

Good luck with Your search