Sex and Age. . .

[shrek100]

I cant help but wonder at what age do people have the best sex.
Do you get more "kinky" the older you get?
I was reading a post from a 20 year old girl who made the statement "my parents wouldn't believe what we get up to" and I thought, I wonder if you would believe what your parents get up to?

 

[suckonsimon]

Shrek, good question, and good point!

Speaking as one of the grandads here ...

We're 60, and we have lots of sex. Just now it's as frequent as before we had children. It is, of course, MUCH better than it was back then. But I'm speaking as one who had ziltch experience of penetrative intercourse before my wedding night aged 23. I would say I am still learning the subtleties of a woman's deep arousal and deep satisfaction. And my woman has gained much more confidence, both in 'servicing' me in terms of oral and work with her hands, and in terms of her freedom to express totally wildly her responses to what I do to her from start to finish. And we can [I can] much more readily talk about every detail of what we share and what I need than I could years ago.

So, the class-quality of what we have together is supremely good compared with the merely 'great' sex we had from very early on.

The aspect of our sex life which has peaked [I'd say aged 45] is the athleticism of it. Frankly I no longer stomp about wearing her around my neck and hips stopping up against the occasional door or window ledge to deliver a massive pounding. Similarly, it's at least 15 years since we had sex outdoors. But we enjoy re-living those outrageous times in conversation occasionally!

Kinks? There was a time when our oral and hand stuff was 'foreplay' and now we spend a lot longer actually enjoying it in its own right, with an easy freedom about that, which of course plenty of people have from the start but we didn't. So, for example, me making a deal of licking her honey off my fingers right close to her face while I hold her eyes is the sort of thing I didn't do for 20 years! I've discovered steel rings as a really pleasant man sensation around my whole junk - that's just in the last couple of years. Would I have had the courage to introduce that to her, and go into her with a massive chunky one on me, years ago? In my case, no.

That the kind of info you're after? Cheers. Simon

 

[jacktar48]

I cant help but wonder at what age do people have the best sex.
Do you get more "kinky" the older you get?
I was reading a post from a 20 year old girl who made the statement "my parents wouldn't believe what we get up to" and I thought, I wonder if you would believe what your parents get up to?

Well, at 62 I've put myself on the bench and don't expect to get back into the game, but I have heard things...

My great grandmother remarried at the age of 82 when her asshole husband finally died. She had been basically 'sold' to this guy when she was 14, and all she knew about sex after nearly 70 years of marriage was that it took about 10 seconds and if she was lucky it didn't hurt much.

When she married Glen, who was 85 at the time, she was so surprised and overjoyed that she had to spread the good news to anyone who would listen.

People didn't appreciate it much for the most part.

I thought it was...a love story come true.

 

[shrek100]

Thanks for the responses.
It seems that each generation believes they are reinventing the whole "sex" thing.

Me personally I am approaching 40 and I have to say, although we do not have sex as often as I use to. the sex its self is the best its been.

I was in a pub two nights ago, and there was a group of girls behind us, probably 18-20. The had drunk a few and was talking and boosting about the sex they was having. One was the ring leader and was trying to shock the others. I was listening keenly
I wanted to turn around and say "is that it, we did all of that last night and more"

Saying that, I would love to be 18 again knowing what I know now

 

[jacktar48]

Thanks for the responses.
It seems that each generation believes they are reinventing the whole "sex" thing.

Me personally I am approaching 40 and I have to say, although we do not have sex as often as I use to. the sex its self is the best its been.

I was in a pub two nights ago, and there was a group of girls behind us, probably 18-20. The had drunk a few and was talking and boosting about the sex they was having. One was the ring leader and was trying to shock the others. I was listening keenly
I wanted to turn around and say "is that it, we did all of that last night and more"

Saying that, I would love to be 18 again knowing what I know now

My great-great Grandmother, Polly, (Cherokee name Wa-li) aka "Polly-Wolly," married Charlie Terrapin when he was 19 and she was 85.

I bet he learned everything you wish you knew at 19...

 

[shrek100]

My great-great Grandmother, Polly, (Cherokee name Wa-li) aka "Polly-Wolly," married Charlie Terrapin when he was 19 and she was 85.

I bet he learned everything you wish you knew at 19...

that's a fair age gap

 

[jacktar48]

that's a fair age gap

The historical record is incomplete there. The only part we know comes from court transcripts, which...well, you know. The BIA had their filthy hands into it.

She was a full-blood, and as such was considered incompetent to manage her own affairs. D Bet she wasn't! ) Cha-li (Charlie) was reputedly a 'breed, so the white blood quantum might have made him more competent.

The BIA disagreed, as Cha-li could not prove he was part white. So they both ended up getting screwed out of everything.

One might assume that the marriage was never consummated, but no one brought this up in court...I prefer to believe that they did it enthusiastically and frequently and were both better off for it.

 

[whyimkinky]

I cant help but wonder at what age do people have the best sex.
Do you get more "kinky" the older you get?
I was reading a post from a 20 year old girl who made the statement "my parents wouldn't believe what we get up to" and I thought, I wonder if you would believe what your parents get up to?

I hear this all the time, and it's the same for every generation, they think they invented the threesome, orgies or the blowjob. Try and convince them that we were just as wild and it falls on deaf ears..."You just don't know" a 20 something girl said to me in a bar one time. I just laughed and thought of the cocaine fueled orgies I took part in in the 70's and 80's.

 

[SexyAlison]

Different for each person

 

[BongoGal]

I was a horny 19-year-old when I started having sex, and I absolutely loved it. Almost two decades later, I still love it. The difference that I didn't foresee is that I am somehow generally hornier these days than I was back then.

 

[jacktar48]

I was a horny 19-year-old when I started having sex, and I absolutely loved it. Almost two decades later, I still love it. The difference that I didn't foresee is that I am somehow generally hornier these days than I was back then.

The best is yet to come...

(And I really wasn't trying to be punny there)

 

[jojodancer]

well...

pushing 60...and i honestly believe its better now than ever..
might not be as often..but with maturity comes the wisdom to let feelings and sensations build...and last..
not that sex wasnt great when i was younger...but BS always got in the way..dating...even when i was married..
i have an "arrangement" with a woman...we both enjoy each other ...and we both can let our libidos and our brains come together for great sex..
shes a few years younger,..but wen we are togethr we both can avt like teenagers...

 

[shrek100]

Well I have just turned 38 and my sex life is the best it's been.
I have to admit recovery isn't as quick as it once was and I don't get that nervous excitement I once had but the actual act it's self is defiantly better.

Reading some of the ages on here, I would love to know how you keep the pation and do you still try new things to keep thing exciting?

We do but we might run out of ideas lol

 

[jacktar48]

pushing 60...and i honestly believe its better now than ever..
might not be as often..but with maturity comes the wisdom to let feelings and sensations build...and last..
not that sex wasnt great when i was younger...but BS always got in the way..dating...even when i was married..
i have an "arrangement" with a woman...we both enjoy each other ...and we both can let our libidos and our brains come together for great sex..
shes a few years younger,..but wen we are togethr we both can avt like teenagers...

That's wonderful...may the Creator bless you both with ever-increasing joy.

When I was a child in the '60's, we lived next-door to a man who was born just after the end of the Civil War and had retired from the railroad in 1935 with a princely pension of $42 a month. It may have been adequate at that time; in 1965 it was not.

Every Friday evening he used to shave his face, dress in his faded best, and stump down the street to the sagging dwelling of a widow woman who was perhaps a few years younger than he, where he apparently spent the night.

My brother and I used to joke about what they might be doing there. Sharing a can of cat-food by candle-light, maybe? Comparing varicose veins?

Someone should have slapped us both silly.

He died at the age of 102, and she followed him a few weeks later.

I like to think that they are still loving each other, somewhere...