Seeking older/dominant chat partners

[positivetension]

Slate's full!

Thank you for all the replies, still working my way through them.

 

[ObviouslyDaddy7]

Witty Banter with control

I'm your Huckleberry

 

[TheOlderGuy]

Bump bump bump

This lady has more vision than most that you'll meet here.

Give her your respect, and send her the benefits of whatever knowledge you have. You won't be disappointed.

 

[Primalex]

First, to avoid being in any way misleading, I am not looking for: an RP partner, an online Dom to serve, or a potential romantic relationship.

I am looking for: long-term friends.

Okay.

If noone in real life wants to be your long-term friend, why do you think someone wants this the virtual way?

A BDSM personal ad might seem like a strange direction to take, but there's a method. I identify as submissive (though how it manifests is something I'm currently exploring), and relate more comfortably to a dominant personality.

Even after reading your explanation, it still seems like a strange direction to take.

I am slowly figuring out how D/s can work in my life, and I greatly appreciate tapping into the experiences of others. I also just enjoy and value the companionship of older men quite a bit more than I do impatient younger guys.

So you prefer impatient older men over impatient younger men?

I like having somebody to rage about stupid Lit threads with

Yay! Can we start with this one, pretty please?

 

[StrayKat]

I would be more worried about lack of attention span for Skype.
I mean how much attention do you need to talk on voice?

But whatever. Give girl a break.

 

[ShyGuy1855]

Great post, very honest. I don't mean to hijack your post, but I'm in very much the same situation.

I'm a young college guy, very shy but looking for a dominant lady to chat with. I have a pretty busy schedule but I would love to meet new people, explore, learn and just unwind.

Good luck in your search!

 

[positivetension]

I would be more worried about lack of attention span for Skype.
I mean how much attention do you need to talk on voice?

But whatever. Give girl a break.

You needn't worry about it at all. I free you of the burden.

I am usually doing several things at once, with music or a show on in the background, and choose not to get stuck in a call where the other person won't feel like they're getting my attention. I can stay engaged in multiple messenger conversations and still do whatever else I like or need to do. I prefer to be up-front and considerate in that regard.

 

[positivetension]

Yay! Can we start with this one, pretty please?

It's adorable how much energy you put into that. Whatever helps keep you erect, I suppose (your magic fedora certainly isn't doing it).

 

[positivetension]

Great post, very honest. I don't mean to hijack your post, but I'm in very much the same situation.

Thank you, I wish you good luck as well. I don't consider it a hijack at all. If you get some responses through this thread, then I'm happy for you.

 

[Prince Albert]

First, to avoid being in any way misleading, I am not looking for: an RP partner, an online Dom to serve, or a potential romantic relationship.

I am looking for: long-term friends.

A BDSM personal ad might seem like a strange direction to take, but there's a method. I identify as submissive (though how it manifests is something I'm currently exploring), and relate more comfortably to a dominant personality. I am slowly figuring out how D/s can work in my life, and I greatly appreciate tapping into the experiences of others. I also just enjoy and value the companionship of older men quite a bit more than I do impatient younger guys.

I require witty banter on random topics. Be funny. Be smart. Be relaxed and playful. I will be the same for you. I like giving and getting some friendly teasing. I'm not shy. I am poorly suited for anyone mean-spirited or overly defensive. I don't care if you were too old for Ed, Edd n Eddy, as long as we get along. I like someone that can discuss the subtleties between degradation or humiliation play. I like debating what does or doesn't work in some random dirty picture. I like having somebody to rage about stupid Lit threads with, or find the funniest ones to share. I don't mind personal questions, but am terrible at thinking of any to ask. I am sometimes compelled to address certain people as Sir or "mister", but am rarely able to predict who.

PMs first, please. Yahoo would eventually be nice, if we're getting on. I also have Kik, but haven't gotten much into the habit of using it yet. I don't have the attention span for Skype calls and never bothered to reinstall it.

I guess I wouldn't mind talking to girls as well, I just hadn't really put as much thought into it. The age and dominance preferences wouldn't really apply, in that case.

Would like to get to know you!!

 

[Primalex]

It's adorable how much energy you put into that.

Yes, that's me. I even had a casting for My Little Pony. But the role of PowerPumpkin was removed in the final script They thought too much energy is bad for the kids in front of the TV.

But what has my energy to do with your problem that nobody wants to be your long-term friend?

 

[StrayKat]

I even had a casting for My Little Pony.

Ok this made me lol.

 

[Prince Albert]

I would love to speak further with you on this topic!

 

[positivetension]

I would love to speak further with you on this topic!

Sorry, I was out all weekend and didn't have much time to check in.

 

[Primalex]

Sorry, I was out all weekend and didn't have much time to check in.

So you write an ad on Saturday, knowing that you are out all weekend and don't even give a warning before? Way to treat your new friends.

 

[cryingalien]

bump to a great girl/woman

 

[Conager]

I would think that if the girl/woman wanted her Inbox full again she could bump her.year-old thread herself.