It’s a cliché ~ I am looking for an affair

redsox75

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I am not going to change anything at home, I am not looking to get out of my marriage in anyway.

I have tried to expand our sexual activities from the small to the big with absolutely no success. I need more, I have tried adding toys to our love making, dirty talk and even a threesome with another man. Still all she wants is to make out a little, me rub her clit until she cums then her get on top until I cum. This is not enough for me.
We were fucking last night and again and for the last time I suggested trying something new. Immediately she said she does not want to fuck another man. I want her to cuckold me and fuck other men, as many as she wants, whenever she want. But all I wanted to do was a little ass play, maybe a finger or a rim job. She flatly refused. I suggested one of the toys we have that never get used and she said no.
I have tried many times, to spice things up even a little. I have gone so far as to setup a threesome for her with another guy. She said she enjoyed it, but that she does not want to do it again. This was one of the hottest experiences I have ever had and she is indifferent.
I have asked her fantasies, she says she has none. I ask her what she thinks about when she masturbates, she says she doesn’t. I have asked her if there is anything she was to try or do, she says what we do is enough.
I am also bisexual, she does not and will not discuss or acknowledge the fact that I am and wants nothing to do with it.
So if you have read through my little pity party this far let me tell you what I am looking for.
I am looking for someone who I can talk with openly and completely. I do not want to have to hold anything back and I do not want to be judged. I don’t care if what I am into is not your thing just be open to it and willing to discuss it. The same goes for you, I want to know everything, every last detail. I want to know you on a personal and sexual level. I want to be intiment with you emotionally and doubtful but maybe physically as well.
I want someone I can connect with. So please if you are interested in getting to know a nice guy please feel free to post here or send me a private message.
 
I feel for you, and would like to help. But since you're an admitted Red Sox fan, I don't think we can be friends. Good luck, though.
 
I feel your pain... I really do, and I hope you find a FB as soon as possible.

I don't know what the "Red Sox" are, other than a miss spelling on a clothing item - and I am on the other side of the Atlantic.

Fingers crossed you find someone soon.
 
I feel your pain... I really do, and I hope you find a FB as soon as possible.

I don't know what the "Red Sox" are, other than a miss spelling on a clothing item - and I am on the other side of the Atlantic.

Fingers crossed you find someone soon.

Time and space are not a factor when you have a TARDIS.
 
Another bump, the one person who really replied decided I was not right for her. Sigh, story of my life.

Anyway anyone looking???
 
Dude, you just described my ex wife to a T. Does it feel more like she's bound and determined that you simply can't have what you want? Mine used to say shit like: "I don't need sex as much as you" and "We don't need a bunch of toys." She even denied masturbating. Well, the sex part I got; the slimy whore was fucking everything that moved, but, more to the point, she didn't care about anyone but herself. Worse, she was trash-talking me all over town to cover up her bullshit. It's my opinion that yours is already cuckolding you, but since you would get off on it, that pisses her off. My advice to you is to get out before she humiliates you any worse. I wish you the best of luck in finding someone with whom you have things in common (especially sexually), but do you honestly think you'll have the power to keep your heart out of it? I thought my world went to shit and that I'd never love again, but I was wrong. It took damn near two years for me to heal, and now I wouldn't have it any other way. I have found someone who shares the same goals and interests as I do (both sexually and simply in life), and I can't tell you how good it feels not only to finally feel appreciated, but also to have someone from whom I don't have to hide a damn thing. I know you said you didn't want a divorce, and neither did I when I toyed with the idea of taking a new lover instead of just getting out of a shitty marriage, but I decided I was superman who could fix a fucked up marriage, only to have it blow up in my face. The fact that I didn't cheat was only the mildest thing that blew up in hers. I feel you, brother. Good luck!
 
Dude, you just described my ex wife to a T. Does it feel more like she's bound and determined that you simply can't have what you want? Mine used to say shit like: "I don't need sex as much as you" and "We don't need a bunch of toys." She even denied masturbating. Well, the sex part I got; the slimy whore was fucking everything that moved, but, more to the point, she didn't care about anyone but herself. Worse, she was trash-talking me all over town to cover up her bullshit. It's my opinion that yours is already cuckolding you, but since you would get off on it, that pisses her off. My advice to you is to get out before she humiliates you any worse. I wish you the best of luck in finding someone with whom you have things in common (especially sexually), but do you honestly think you'll have the power to keep your heart out of it? I thought my world went to shit and that I'd never love again, but I was wrong. It took damn near two years for me to heal, and now I wouldn't have it any other way. I have found someone who shares the same goals and interests as I do (both sexually and simply in life), and I can't tell you how good it feels not only to finally feel appreciated, but also to have someone from whom I don't have to hide a damn thing. I know you said you didn't want a divorce, and neither did I when I toyed with the idea of taking a new lover instead of just getting out of a shitty marriage, but I decided I was superman who could fix a fucked up marriage, only to have it blow up in my face. The fact that I didn't cheat was only the mildest thing that blew up in hers. I feel you, brother. Good luck!

Thank you for the reply and I am sorry for the things you went through. However I don’t think I am in the same situation as you were. My wife is my best friend and we do have sex on a regular basis. We are just not into the same things, she likes it simple.
 
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