Best partner

[yorker85]

I was married to a pretty asexual woman. We had intercourse about once every six weeks. She considered blow jobs to be a waste of an erection as she didn't get anything out of it. It took me 20 years to get her to shave and try anal, which she found enjoyable right before our divorce. Sex was always about pleasing her and trying not to offend her. Never for me other than getting a chance to have an orgasm with someone besides myself.

Since the divorce, I found a new woman who has opened my eyes to what a sex life can be. She admitted she has the libido of a 15 year old boy and had proven it. She taught me to loosen up and enjoy sex, all kinds of sex. She has taught me not to mind having my cum all over me or even in my mouth, taught me how to enjoy receiving anal pleasure, told me of her fantasies to see me with another person, male or female. She let me be dominant with her and I found that is a great fit for me.

I haven't been able to completely loose myself in sex, yet. She is working on that. I have learned that I really am good in bed, desirable and there is more to sexuality than I had ever known. She is truly one in a million and I appreciate her in every way.

Who else has a story about that one person who opened you up to a whole new level of sexuality?

 

[emma_the_librarian]

For me it wasn't a person I had sex with, it was when I was younger and an older friend talked about sex. His perspective, openness, and frankness did away with a lot of the standard hang-ups we perpetuate in society today. We still talk quite frankly today, at a level I'm sure would shock our other friends.

To him sex is free therapy. His goal is always to let his partner lose themselves in the moment and let go of stuff that was bottling them up or weighing them down. I really like that perspective and try to keep in my mind whenever I talk or play with someone new.

 

[h0tc0uple_13]

beeennnn there for sure!

it took me a LONG time to understand why sex was so GREAT or amazing. i either went through stages where i needed it badly or i saw it as something only people do when theyre in love. it was definitely abused in many relationships of mine. i lost trust in many many many people so the farther away i kept myself from people, the more i saw sex as a no-go. then i met the guy im dating now. we both opened up to a whole new world of sex- not even knowing certain things existed. we now share fantasies weve never even had before, communicate differently, and our sex life is mooooore than amazing.

i now view sex differently- we both do. we always say how we've turned each other into freaks haha

cheers to finding partners that bring out these sides in us!

 

[getntwoknowme]

I was married to a pretty asexual woman. We had intercourse about once every six weeks. She considered blow jobs to be a waste of an erection as she didn't get anything out of it. It took me 20 years to get her to shave and try anal, which she found enjoyable right before our divorce. Sex was always about pleasing her and trying not to offend her. Never for me other than getting a chance to have an orgasm with someone besides myself.

Since the divorce, I found a new woman who has opened my eyes to what a sex life can be. She admitted she has the libido of a 15 year old boy and had proven it. She taught me to loosen up and enjoy sex, all kinds of sex. She has taught me not to mind having my cum all over me or even in my mouth, taught me how to enjoy receiving anal pleasure, told me of her fantasies to see me with another person, male or female. She let me be dominant with her and I found that is a great fit for me.

I haven't been able to completely loose myself in sex, yet. She is working on that. I have learned that I really am good in bed, desirable and there is more to sexuality than I had ever known. She is truly one in a million and I appreciate her in every way.

Who else has a story about that one person who opened you up to a whole new level of sexuality?

Mmmmm......sounds like you found a sexy lady. I need one too....or maybe both of you. In much the same experience as you were but worse. ;(

 

[KINKYCanada]

I was married to a pretty asexual woman. We had intercourse about once every six weeks. She considered blow jobs to be a waste of an erection as she didn't get anything out of it. It took me 20 years to get her to shave and try anal, which she found enjoyable right before our divorce. Sex was always about pleasing her and trying not to offend her. Never for me other than getting a chance to have an orgasm with someone besides myself.

Since the divorce, I found a new woman who has opened my eyes to what a sex life can be. She admitted she has the libido of a 15 year old boy and had proven it. She taught me to loosen up and enjoy sex, all kinds of sex. She has taught me not to mind having my cum all over me or even in my mouth, taught me how to enjoy receiving anal pleasure, told me of her fantasies to see me with another person, male or female. She let me be dominant with her and I found that is a great fit for me.

I haven't been able to completely loose myself in sex, yet. She is working on that. I have learned that I really am good in bed, desirable and there is more to sexuality than I had ever known. She is truly one in a million and I appreciate her in every way.

Who else has a story about that one person who opened you up to a whole new level of sexuality?

That is so sad Bro!

The wife and I were on a break for two years, sex was always good with her, but I dated a woman though briefly, she was a super freak. Pee play, rough sex, facials, public sex, role playing, and best of all she would send me selfies of her and another man. No were were not exclusive and yea it turned me on to no end. Alas all good things must end. She was always wanting to party and as much fun as it was I needed a real connection. I was 31 she was 20 so that was that.

She did open my eyes though.

KC

 

[ErickTheRed]

I meet the best partner about a year and a half. I was getting off of a really boring relationi was into for 11 years!

Now i have someone who make me feel great. She always horny and so sexy . But the major point is she always support me and compliment me. She know how to increase my confidence. She make me really happy.

I wish the same kind of relation to all of you.

 

[Bigspurt]

Unfortunately....
I am married to a pretty asexual woman. We have intercourse about once every six weeks. She considers blow jobs to be a inconvenient waste of an erection as she has never swallowed a load with a smile. It has been 38 years and she still doesn't shave. Sex was always about pleasing her and trying not to offend her. Never for me other than getting a chance to have an orgasm with someone besides myself.

 

[MastersDelight]

I've always had a high sex drive, even when I was younger and didn't even really realize what sex was. I however, was late to lose my virginity, (18 to a guy I dated for a year first.) and the sex was pretty awful. We were both inexperienced and not sure what we wanted. I was constantly wanting more, since I would never orgasm during sex, he would lose interest after getting his and complained frequently that I wanted sex too much. After a year of that we parted ways and I dated in and off. Some we're better than others, none of them were great. No one wanted to explore past standard vanilla and I still was unable to achieve a climax during sex. And almost all of them complained about my high sex drive.

When Master and I started dating, the sex started out awkward, we were friends before. I wasn't overly affectionate in my relationships. He slowly got me to like cuddling, and PDA. It took me a long time to be able to sleep with him in the bed next to me. He allowed me to explore my sexuality, and introduced me to a much more fun, exciting, and even orgasmic sex. He never complained about my sex drive and was eager to meet it. After a while I was even comfortable having sex completely naked and with the lights on (something I had never done before.) We still have sex 4-7 days a week, 1-3 times a day. We're still exploring each others sexual desires and appetites and I hope we never stop.