Had our first "four"some..

[h0tc0uple_13]

So my bf and I had our first "four"some over the weekend and I put 4 in quotes bcz it was with another couple but the girl and I were the only ones truly involved (except for when we were with our own partners). I, before it happened, considered myself bi-curious. I made out with girls while in college (drunk of course haha) and had so much fun but had always been intrigued to do more. Since my bf and I have been together we wanted to make our fantasies realities & that's where this scenario came into play. We've both never had 3somes before so this was our first time ever being involved with others or being in another room while others were having sex.

We had a lot of fun but my bf and I feel like we had MORE fun being with just each other- or when we were with our own partners. It's not like I didn't enjoy it, just thought I would have been more turned on being with another woman considering how much I get turned on watching girl-on-girl porn. My bf felt the same way.

Has anyone else been in this situation? I'd love to hear about your first times & how you felt about it..

 

[ntp]

Do you think nerves were involved, or did you build the whole experience up in your minds too much beforehand, so that the reality couldn't live up to it? Maybe if you tried it a couple of more times you'd find what about it especially turns you on, or even just that it's not for you.

 

[Dickstroker81]

A foursome, or moresome is so much better if the guys get it on with each other as well as the gals, and everyone just gets into it.

 

[h0tc0uple_13]

A foursome, or moresome is so much better if the guys get it on with each other as well as the gals, and everyone just gets into it.

our significant others are straight. we agreed on rules/boundaries/etc in the beginning. it was more so about her and i. i guess we are just more into the fantasy aspect of it.

 

[zach20092]

our significant others are straight. we agreed on rules/boundaries/etc in the beginning. it was more so about her and i. i guess we are just more into the fantasy aspect of it.

hot!! any pics you would share

 

[h0tc0uple_13]

sorry, no pictures. needed to be discreet due to our professions.

 

[Dickstroker81]

A foursome, or moresome is so much better if the guys get it on with each other as well as the gals, and everyone just gets into it.

I consider myself straight too. I just like dicks in my ass and/or mouth.

 

[Heatseekher]

Never went 'all the way' with a full swap foursome, we played with another couple but not to penetrative full on sex with different partners.
For me there were aspects that were really hot, others that as you say should have had more of an effect but which didn't.

For example, seeing the 2 ladies enjoying a dildo together was far less erotic than i'd imagined, probably because the other guy was intent on getting involved and directing; whereas from a selfish point of view having 2 women taking care of me was simply stunning.
my wife isn't Bi, and that side held little appeal for her, however some of the more sensuous things like a 6 handed massage, or receiving oral from however was on hand was clearly a turn on once she'd relaxed a bit.

I guess the point is that if there aren't parameters, if all are totally ok with whatever goes on there's less need to have too many nerves, whereas with rules its a question of keeping an eye to check that everyone is happy and no one is overstepping the boundaries.

Guess for us it was a case of many of the things did bring some sparkle, whilst others felt a bit flat, albeit the overall experience was fun. This happened with the same couple over a few meetings......until jealousy reared its head and we retreated.

 

[MrSneakyinPA]

Would love to share my wife with another couple!

 

[StrayKat]

our significant others are straight. we agreed on rules/boundaries/etc in the beginning. it was more so about her and i. i guess we are just more into the fantasy aspect of it.

You can still get involved all together even if your partners are straight. Most men in our swinger circles were straight too but that didnt stop us from more than just girl-on-girl action.

 

[Rick Forbes]

Congratulations! It's very common for "cross play" between the two couples to be minimal, especially the first time. I hope you all become even closer friends and enjoy more play time together!

 

[Southerncple]

We have played with a few couples in "foursome" type situations and it has really varied with every couple. With one couple it was amazing and everyone involved had a great time. With another couple we played with it never just seemed to click and we enjoyed being by ourselves more than with them, like you describe. It was a learning experience to find out what we liked and didn't like in a couple, sort of like dating but more fun to us at least.

 

[Ahi_Viking]

hmmm

My SO and I had a couple 20 years younger who really wanted to do this. I just was never interested in having another cock in my SO. Man, he wanted her something bad (I don't blame him).

 

[bibethhotwet]

Put us in the foursome crowd. Have done it quite a few times

 

[seth6138]

Wht course did you play and what were the green fees?

 

[whannit]

first time

We were slightly aprehensive at first but when things got started it was on and lasted through an entire weekend. My wife did her girl on girl thing alot as i gave other husband plenty cock sucking, which the girls loved. Actually they would stop whatever they were doing to watch two guys suck on each other, they also made it pretty clear we would need penitrate each other before the weekend was over... we did and it was all good. My favorite part was picking a fantasyand doing it, pretty sure my fantasy was the big hit of the weekend, we were all invoved..

 

[Dickstroker81]

We were slightly aprehensive at first but when things got started it was on and lasted through an entire weekend. My wife did her girl on girl thing alot as i gave other husband plenty cock sucking, which the girls loved. Actually they would stop whatever they were doing to watch two guys suck on each other, they also made it pretty clear we would need penitrate each other before the weekend was over... we did and it was all good. My favorite part was picking a fantasyand doing it, pretty sure my fantasy was the big hit of the weekend, we were all invoved..

Sounds like a great weekend. Do you ever need another couple to join in?

 

[CindyCD478]

We were slightly aprehensive at first but when things got started it was on and lasted through an entire weekend. My wife did her girl on girl thing alot as i gave other husband plenty cock sucking, which the girls loved. Actually they would stop whatever they were doing to watch two guys suck on each other, they also made it pretty clear we would need penitrate each other before the weekend was over... we did and it was all good. My favorite part was picking a fantasyand doing it, pretty sure my fantasy was the big hit of the weekend, we were all invoved..

Ever thought a foursome with a couple where the guy is a cross-dresser?